I am sorry...
By Toni
@toniganzon (75687)
Philippines
March 10, 2026 6:08am CST
We were laughing and joking and Dad said, I like that bike. To which I responded, you don't look good in it, it's not for you. Dad never liked motorbikes and he would never ever ride one. But in this dream of mine, he was pointing to one.
Then out of the blue he uttered, "I am sorry."
I woke up crying loudly.
What was he apologizing for?
Was he sorry that he and mom passed away when we were still all very young? Was he sorry that me and my siblings weren't getting along well?
I had this dream last year and it took me weeks to recover from it. Everyday for weeks, I would cry thinking of my dearly departed father.
Whenever I remember that dream, tears welled up in my eyes. 
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@Ineeddentures (26219)
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10 Mar
Omg
I don't know what to say.
What was he saying sorry for?
Only you can work that out.
Do you think that you will have the dream again soon?
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
10 Mar
I hoep so. I haven't dreamt of him again yet since then.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
@Ineeddentures I haven't had an interesting one recently.
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@Ineeddentures (26219)
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11 Mar
@toniganzon
I keep having a really interesting dream just now
It's not my fault.
Someone made a suggestion to me and I thought they were joking, and it turns out they were not joking
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@LadyDuck (497505)
• Italy
11 Mar
@toniganzon - I am like you, I would like so much to see my brother getting alone well with my and his daughter, but he does not care.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
@LadyDuck The change must come from him. Otherwise, nothing is going to happen.
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@celticeagle (187390)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Mar
Maybe it had something to do with why he was pointing at the bike. Have you done any research into dreams? Maybe that would help understand and recover from them better.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
No I havne't. I don't really looked into dreams at all.
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@DaddyEvil (171312)
• United States
10 Mar
We never can know the reason we dream certain things. I'm sorry that happened.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
Yeah, I just wish that I would dream of him or mom again.
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@DaddyEvil (171312)
• United States
11 Mar
@toniganzon You never know, you still might.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
@DaddyEvil Yeah it could happen again. I hope soon.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
Right and I don't really look into why we dream what we dream. I just let it pass.
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@LindaOHio (218246)
• United States
11 Mar
I'm so sorry the dream upset you. I dream about my husband once and a while. Sometimes they're good...sometimes they're bad.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
It felt so real and I missed my dad so much. HIs face was still the same when he was still 45. Nothing changed. I just wish I could hug him again.
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@toniganzon (75687)
• Philippines
11 Mar
Yes, it's been over 3 decades but the pain will never go away.
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