Prepping to be away for a couple of months

@NJChicaa (126966)
United States
April 30, 2026 4:38pm CST
Once I decided to take this current path it was time to find a facility and get ready to go. The chef at "the usual hangout" went through treatment a couple of years ago and raved about the place so my ex texted him to get the name of the place. After browsing around online a bit we decided to go with the one that the chef attended. I called, got my insurance verified, and scheduled an intake date/time. After that was set up we got to work prepping the apartment for my absence. I did dishes and laundry. He took out garbage, recycles, and cardboard. I arranged it with the downstairs neighbor to watch the cats, get the mail/packages, and water my plants. I packed my bag and then it was just a matter of waiting for a couple of days to be on my way. On the morning I left my ex picked me up. I told him he didn't have to drive me the almost-hour away. He said he wanted to. We actually had breakfast at the diner before we hit the road. Of course I didn't pack enough of the right things. . . but that is a story for another day.
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@AmbiePam (118432)
• United States
9h
Leaving the cats must have been so hard. Obviously, making a big step like that is difficult, but we know how much you love those babies.
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@NJChicaa (126966)
• United States
9h
I have missed them so much.
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@AmbiePam (118432)
• United States
9h
@NJChicaa I can’t wait to hear about them again and see pictures.
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@NJChicaa (126966)
• United States
9h
@AmbiePam and I can't wait to see them and share them.
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@Juliaacv (55868)
• Canada
8h
You have such a great relationship, he was so kind to stand by you to get you to the right place, and safely and with the ease of enjoying a meal out beforehand. I can only imagine the happiness you will feel when you walk through the door and the kitties come to you. You've earned that and then some. It is getting closer now......
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@FourWalls (85615)
• United States
4h
I know the CT’s have missed you as much as you’ve missed them.
@JudyEv (378907)
• Rockingham, Australia
5h
I just think it is really lovely that your ex is so supportive. It's nice that he does what he can to help. He must be kind and a good man.
@MarieCoyle (57774)
9h
I am sure it was very difficult to make the decision to go,and very hard to leave your kitties. I hope you can have a few days at home before you have to return to work.
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