It has been a couple of hectic days
@GardenGerty (170956)
United States
July 17, 2026 9:18pm CST
Yesterday was my cardiac imaging. I stressed about driving into a part of Wichita I am not familiar with. Also, I hate parking garages, but that is where I parked.Stress is tiresome.
Finding my way to the German Restaurant afterwards was a tiny bit challenging. Finding parking there. Bob walks very unsteadily and slowly, so I am always afraid I am losing him.Or that he will get hurt. At the hospital he did consent to be pushed around in a wheel chair.
Today Bob was to see a new doctor. Again, in Wichita, but in a better area. In spite of what Google Maps told me, I knew a short cut. It worked.
Bob was grumpy
about having to see someone else to "poke at me and tell me what to do." He was tired, so the dementia symptoms were stronger. We had clothing issues and unwillingness to eat. I had to stop for gas on the way. You know, it all worked out. We arrived in plenty of time to do paperwork.
The people in the office of the gastroenterologist were very good, very understanding of older people. The office was nicely laid out. Parking was good and we found a spot close to the entrance. Public bathrooms were very easy to find.
We saw Dr. Farha. She is a nice looking "young" looking lady. She asked questions that were pertinent, and listened. When she learned that Bob had had some testing while in St. Theresa's she was able to pull up the records online. She told us more than they did about those tests. In addition to testing for CDiff they tested for fifteen other bowel diseases. He is negative for all.
Basically she said she saw nothing to cause any concerns. Some people are just naturally prone to diarrhea. We are controlling it well with one little pill in the morning. If we over correct, skip a pill, and give fiber supplements. It is not a milk allergy either.
There is no reason at this time to come back, but feel free to call if other gastric problems come up.
Bob was in a much better mood afterwards.
My brother and his wife came and visited. My brother bought Bob's gun, a 22 from him. I wanted to give it to him. I wanted it out of the house.
So now Bob is in bed and I am having some "me" time and winding down. Goodnight all.
about having to see someone else to "poke at me and tell me what to do." He was tired, so the dementia symptoms were stronger. We had clothing issues and unwillingness to eat. I had to stop for gas on the way. You know, it all worked out. We arrived in plenty of time to do paperwork.
The people in the office of the gastroenterologist were very good, very understanding of older people. The office was nicely laid out. Parking was good and we found a spot close to the entrance. Public bathrooms were very easy to find.
We saw Dr. Farha. She is a nice looking "young" looking lady. She asked questions that were pertinent, and listened. When she learned that Bob had had some testing while in St. Theresa's she was able to pull up the records online. She told us more than they did about those tests. In addition to testing for CDiff they tested for fifteen other bowel diseases. He is negative for all.
Basically she said she saw nothing to cause any concerns. Some people are just naturally prone to diarrhea. We are controlling it well with one little pill in the morning. If we over correct, skip a pill, and give fiber supplements. It is not a milk allergy either.
There is no reason at this time to come back, but feel free to call if other gastric problems come up.
Bob was in a much better mood afterwards.
My brother and his wife came and visited. My brother bought Bob's gun, a 22 from him. I wanted to give it to him. I wanted it out of the house.
So now Bob is in bed and I am having some "me" time and winding down. Goodnight all.
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8 responses
@DaddyEvil (179041)
• United States
18 Jul
I'm glad you were able to find your way especially in a "bad" part of Wichita. I'm glad somebody explained what the tests Bob already took meant and that he doesn't need to go back any time soon. (I'm always happy when a doctor or nurse takes the time to explain exactly what they found when giving me tests instead of somebody calling and saying everything looks good, but let's try a few more tests now.
)
I had trouble getting to the bathroom this evening. I had to call for Pretty to help me get there and get back into my bed. My legs kept wobbling and making me feel like I was going to fall. Hopefully, that won't happen again very soon.
I hope both of you sleep well tonight. 
)
I had trouble getting to the bathroom this evening. I had to call for Pretty to help me get there and get back into my bed. My legs kept wobbling and making me feel like I was going to fall. Hopefully, that won't happen again very soon.
I hope both of you sleep well tonight. 
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
I am sorry about the wobbly walking. It makes it hard to hurry. Bob is better some days than others.
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@DaddyEvil (179041)
• United States
19 Jul
@GardenGerty Thank you. I used my cane around the house yesterday morning and, after I woke up around noon or a little before, I could walk normally again. I really hope the wobbly legs thing doesn't happen again anytime soon. It really scared me!
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
20 Jul
@DaddyEvil I can understand that. Some days Bob is more wobbly than others.
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@snowy22315 (214955)
• United States
18 Jul
Sounds like a pretty good day overall even if more than a bit stressful. How was the German restaurant?
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
20 Jul
@snowy22315 Bavarian is the regional food Bob likes best. You should treat yourself sometime.
@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
It has really upgraded from when we were there before. We all had Jaegerschnitzel dinners. Bob and I subbed in pan fried potatoes instead of the spaetzle (noodles). My sister-in-law did NOT like our server, but the rest of us had a good time. They do something to their red cabbage that is absolutely delicious.
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@snowy22315 (214955)
• United States
19 Jul
@GardenGerty It sounds good. There is a Bavarian restaurant about an hour from here that is really well known. I always have wanted to try it.
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
Well there are about seventeen things we know he does not have. I think that is good.
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
We actually left the doctor feeling encouraged.
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@RasmaSandra (102288)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Jul
I hope you can enjoy the rest of the weekend.
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
Today, Saturday, we took as a "stay-at-home" day. It was time. Bob is often up and down for naps.
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@anya12adwi (10357)
• India
18 Jul
Finding a parking spot is a real headache! Glad that you guys are okay and nothing serious was diagnosed!
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
Yes. I do not like parking garages, they make me claustrophobic, but we got a good slot there. For the restaurant, our approach was on the wrong side of the street, and we did not know that they also had parking in back. The doctor's office where I took Bob though was just about perfect.
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@anya12adwi (10357)
• India
25 Jul
@GardenGerty It is also a headache to find good parking lot!! And when it's car, I get fever!! I do not bother so much when I am riding my two-wheeler!
@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
20 Jul
This time I lucked out with the garage as it was for patients first and patients got the best spots. I did not have to wind round and round up ramps and such. He has always had a sensitive stomach and it is just compounding everything else that is wrong right now.
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
19 Jul
I love doctors that talk to me like I have a brain.
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@JudyEv (391367)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jul
@GardenGerty If they could only realise how much better it makes you feel to know what's happening and/or is likely to happen.
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@GardenGerty (170956)
• United States
20 Jul
@JudyEv More of the modern ones seem to understand that.
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