And then there was Jay...
By Toni
@toniganzon (81741)
Philippines
August 14, 2026 5:43am CST
When I went to Bangkok, my Filipino flatmates, who were like family to me, introduced me to Jay. They were leaving Bkk and they didn't want me to feel alone so they left me to Jay.
Jay is another gay friend of mine whom I spent my weekends with, shopping and partying in Bangkok. He lived and probably is still living there until now with his American partner.
When I came home, Jay and I still constantly kept in touch through WhatsApp but as years went by the communication stopped. He's no longer active on Instagram too.
I wonder how he's doing.
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@snowy22315 (213564)
• United States
14 Aug
You seem to have lots of gay friends..cute pic of the two of you.
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@snowy22315 (213564)
• United States
15 Aug
@Ineeddentures You saying I'm not cute?
I have had gay friends..but none at the moment
I have had gay friends..but none at the moment2 people like this
@Ineeddentures (30255)
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14 Aug
Cute girls always have loads of gay guy friends
Yvonne did too and still does
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
Yes I do. In every stage of my life, there's always a few gays involved. I do enjoy their company a lot. I leaned from them. They're really funny and great friends.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
When I left Bangkok he had no job. Dave, his partner didn't want him tow work though he wanted to be a model. This was about 13 years ago. And Dave was already in his mid 60s that time. I wonder if they're still together.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
@LadyDuck I hope so. If he'd only contact me again I would love to hear from him. My IG account never changed so he could easily find me if he wanted to. He's from the mountainous region in my country. The northern part. Too far away from me. Not sure if he's still in Bangkok or if he went home already.
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@LadyDuck (505330)
• Italy
15 Aug
@toniganzon - I hope he is fine and not in need, he looks like a very nice guy.
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@AmbiePam (129592)
• United States
15 Aug
@toniganzon That’s crazy. He certainly is handsome enough for it.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
@AmbiePam Right and he just looks like those Thai models as well.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
Oh yes. He wanted to be a model in there. He submitted his portfolio to several modeling agencies but failed to land any.
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@celticeagle (194629)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Aug
Cute picture. Some of the nicest, funnest, sweetest and most emotional friends I ever had were gay. I wonder how Steve is.
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@celticeagle (194629)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Aug
@toniganzon ......no. You were talking about your friend and it reminded me of mine.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
@celticeagle I thought you were talking of a Steve that was once here in mylot but I don't see him here anymore.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
Thank you my dear friend. I've missed you here.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
17 Aug
@RebeccasFarm I understand.
I missed you.
See you when I see you then! 
@RebeccasFarm (91295)
• United States
16 Aug
@toniganzon I try to stay but always something else going on ..xo
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
She's the lady who stayed in Bangkok for awhile but didn't like it there.
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
@Ineeddentures Too many Europeans, Nigerians and Americans there. Too crowded.
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@Ineeddentures (30255)
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15 Aug
@toniganzon
Ah right
Well BangKok is t for everyone
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@toniganzon (81741)
• Philippines
15 Aug
Yes. I always have good memories of my gay friends. So much fun to be with.
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