Yesterday

@GardenGerty (170387)
United States
August 15, 2026 9:11am CST
Yesterday my Brother and Sister-in-law drove up from Guthrie so Robin could stay at the house with Bob and Renee and I could go to Winfield to tour the Veteran's Home. I was a little down when we left, Bob had barely been out of bed in two days and had roamed some at night. I liked the home. I feel that Bob would be cared for and safe there. I had all the documents with me I needed to start the process of having him move there. I got home and Bob was up. His eyes were twinkling like his old self. When they left to go home he wanted a nap. He had barely eaten that day or the day before. The nap was over about 6 and Bob ate pretty well for me. It was clear that he had enjoyed having Robin there.He went back to bed at 9 with very little trouble at all. This leaves me feeling encouraged about how Bob will do at this Veteran's Home if he is accepted. They have a place he can be outside safely, and a library, and good, consistent staffing.He will get physical therapy there. Podiatry there. I had scrambled the day before we went and found all kinds of documents that I MIGHT need. I filled out a lengthy packet. I had all the documents I needed. Next step is the admissions person requests his records from the VA and sends in the packet. We get a care assessment for Bob. Care assessment has to be done for any nursing home admission.
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@Juliaacv (57053)
• Canada
6h
It must be a reassuring feeling that you found a place that you both like and seems safe. Will you continue to live at home after he is accepted and moved?
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@snowy22315 (211406)
• United States
6h
I think it is encouraging that it seems like a nice, caring place. Is it close enough that you can go frequently to check on him?
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@AmbiePam (124953)
• United States
2h
I am glad you found a veterans home that looks like such a positive place. Hopefully, everything will work out, and he will be accepted.
@rebelann (118417)
• El Paso, Texas
Just now
I pray everything will go exactly as you want them to
@wolfgirl569 (138963)
• Marion, Ohio
Just now
Glad the place is a good one. Hope everything goes well.
@RasmaSandra (99757)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15m
Sounds liek you have found a good solution for Bob. What will you do when he moves there?
@sallypup (69666)
• Centralia, Washington
3h
Hugs for you. Best wishes for the both of you.
@Wrexxo (5130)
5h
Seem like a great place for him..hope he gets accepted