I just can't sleep

@Traceyjayne (14922)
United Kingdom
September 9, 2026 10:01pm CST
I admit that I am a night owl. I have said that several times in my posts on here, so it is no news to anyone really It is 4am and I am still wide awake. I have been watching TV and also been doing some cooking , yet , still I am not tired. Do you have any ideas, methods, for me to get to sleep. Nothing I have tried has worked yet. What do you do when you really should be asleep yet can't fall asleep ?
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@toniganzon (82594)
• Philippines
10 Sep
I just don't force myself at all. I would usually just watch tv or read a book until sleep catches up on me.
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@DaddyEvil (179042)
• United States
10 Sep
When I can't stop my mind from working and keeping me awake, I lay down, close my eyes and think of the color black. With nothing to keep me awake, I soon fall asleep. Every time something comes into your mind, just think of the color black. Eventually your mind gets tired of fighting and you'll fall asleep. I had to do that a lot of the time when I was working and something upset me.
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
@DaddyEvil. I've never heard anyone do that before. Maybe I will give it a try.
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@JudyEv (390491)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Sep
@Traceyjayne Or you can just focus on one word and repeat it slowly over and over.
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
@JudyEv I think if I did that I would annoy myself instead of falling asleep.
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@jstory07 (150029)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Sep
I have never had any trouble sleeping. Do something and when you feel tired go to sleep.
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@nawala123 (25013)
• Indonesia
10 Sep
Force to close my eyes and put my phone away
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@KityCat (7740)
• India
10 Sep
I am in the same boat . Fell asleep around 5am and woke up at 11am . I feel whenever I take a nap during the daytime it becomes really hard for me to fall asleep at night
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@Wrexxo (10387)
•
10 Sep
I'm the same way honestly, once I'm up past a certain hour my brain just refuses to shut off. Putting the phone and tv away for a bit and just laying in the dark sometimes tricks my body into it. Hope you get some rest soon, being wired at 4am is rough.
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@celticeagle (195357)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Sep
I have a weird sleep cycle. I am also a night person. If I stay up too late I try to just stay up. Then try to not be too strenuous during the rest of the day and go to bed early.
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@celticeagle (195357)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Sep
@Traceyjayne ........worked for me.
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
Never tried that ....
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@RasmaSandra (101916)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Sep
I have been sleeping pretty well lately Maybe this can help
https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/ways-to-fall-asleep
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@Fleura (36168)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
Do you feel tired in the end? I go through phases when I have trouble sleeping and after a few days of that I'm exhausted! Last night I slept from 11:30 until 6am and that was pretty good although I'm still tired. The night before I slept from 11:30 until about 2am, then I just woke up for no apparent reason and could not get back to sleep, so after a while of lying around getting annoyed I got my laptop, sat up and did some work until 4:30 am. Then I felt sleepy so I did sleep soon after that and all too soon it was 6:45 and time to get up.
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@Fleura (36168)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
I guess none of what I've said so far has really answered your question though. What happens if you actually go to bed at a 'normal' time?
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep
@Fleura. I just toss and turn all the time til I'm so frustrated with myself I have to get up again .
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@JudyEv (390491)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Sep
Vince went to a course on sleeping once. One of the things they said was that if you're lying down relaxed that is nearly as good as sleeping. The more you worry about not sleeping the harder it is to go to sleep.
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep
@JudyEv. Yes, I would agree with that ...I very often have lay there thinking about sleep and why I can't fall asleep and it just makes me worse ...
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@Shiva49 (28831)
• Singapore
10 Sep
I am more sleepy in the afternoon after lunch. I knock off by 2 am even if I am not sleepy. Thankfully, I am soon asleep. When I was working, I had something going in my mind but now I keep it blank. Worrying leads to more worries. I know you don't have to worry much.
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@MoonMaa (839)
• United States
15 Sep
Maybe you could try walking and yoga. It is said that they help with sleep. I've heard that drinking chamomile tea can also help too. I have no problems going to sleep. Sometimes I go to sleep and don't even know I am sleep.
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
15 Sep
I'm not going out walking late at night . Yoga isn't really my thing. I've tried weird and wonderful teas ....can't stand them !
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
16 Sep
@MoonMaa I walk for miles during the day ....
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@MoonMaa (839)
• United States
16 Sep
@Traceyjayne You can walk in the day time and it still will help you with your sleep as it helps burn caloric energy while triggering physiological responses that relax both your body and mind.
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• Northampton, England
10 Sep
Only naughty girls are up at 4am
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@Traceyjayne (14922)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
@thedevilinme. Secrets out !
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@AmbiePam (132134)
• United States
10 Sep
I’ve been up since 2:40am, and at 4:40am, I’m still awake. I was hoping to go back to sleep, but I’m not sure if I can. I’ll certainly try, but I have another doctor’s appointment this morning so at least I’ll be ready for that. Sometimes reading helps me sleep, or I pray, and fall asleep doing that. Hopefully, you caught a few Zzzs.
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@Fleura (36168)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep
I don't have trouble falling asleep when I go to bed but then I often wake in the early hours and can't sleep again. I try all the usual things - go to the loo in case that's keeping me awake, sometimes have a glass of milk or a banana because both contain nutrients that can help promote sleep. Sometimes I'm too hot, even though I don't feel really hot but just a bit warm, and I find that if I get up and walk about a bit until I've cooled down then get back into bed, what was uncomfortably warm before now just feels cosy and I go back to sleep...
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