Have you reached this stage in life yet?

By Toni
@toniganzon (82051)
Philippines
October 3, 2026 5:38pm CST
I haven't really cared about how good I look in photos because I really hated taking a photo of myself since I was a kid, except when I started using BlackBerry phones and when smart phone was released for the first time. However, when the term "selfie" was invented and phones became more selfie-friendly, I quit doing it and hated taking photos of myself once again. I still care about my physical appearance in a way that I want to look presentable. But I also care about my health though not that much to be too concerned of my diet.
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@JohnRoberts (106513)
• Los Angeles, California
11h
I never had looks to begin with and camera shy.
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
11h
"I never had looks to being with..." says who?
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@JohnRoberts (106513)
• Los Angeles, California
11h
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
10h
@JohnRoberts We always see ourselves different than others do. I might have a different opinion. Beauty is subjective after all.
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@Deepizzaguy (125945)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
10h
I am not the person that cares for my facial looks that much. But I am concerned about my health.
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
10h
As we age, we become more concerned of that our health than our physical appearance. I guess you are at that stage then.
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@Deepizzaguy (125945)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
7h
@toniganzon Yes I am since I am 65 years of age.
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@shaggin (75350)
• United States
8h
I never look good in selfies. The image made me laugh thankfully I haven’t reached that age yet.
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
5h
we normally don't like our own image. Even with others do.
@celticeagle (194612)
• Boise, Idaho
9h
He's very smart. I'm pretty much at that stage. I will be 75 in November. I don't do selfies anymore unless I am begged to share one with someone. I'm not too concerned either way.
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
5h
Good that you aren't concerned about your health as well.
@FourWalls (88351)
• United States
9h
Absolutely! Scare the neighbors but let the doctors be pleased!
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
5h
Oh yes! That's how it should be.
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@sallypup (69969)
• Centralia, Washington
9h
I've never been vain. I went through some scans this year that I never thought would be necessary.
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@toniganzon (82051)
• Philippines
5h
I hope the results weren't bad. I don't think liking our own photo doesn't mean we are vain.
@LadyDuck (509975)
• Italy
Just now
Same as you, I will care about my physical appearance, but my health comes first.
• Northampton, England
1h
Im not even at the webcam stage of that. I hate photos of me .lol
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@Wrexxo (8883)
•
3h
Same here, I never liked taking photos of myself either, and selfies made it feel even worse. Looking presentable is enough for me honestly, no need to stress over every picture. Your balance with health sounds pretty normal to me, most people dont think about their diet that much.
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