Please, I need some real advice about this lady
By Michael
@Wrexxo (10913)
November 8, 2026 12:00am CST
I'm still in bed looking at 25 degrees celcius, low 24, high 37, and hoping for a productive day. First thing, I need to figure out how to charge my devices, still no power, it's been forever.
Something I can't stop thinking about though, I'm honestly more confused than usual. My sister introduced me to a lady recently, we've never met in person, but we've talked a few times. Our first call was over an hour, then last night we talked for more than two hours.
I like talking to her, I think she likes me too. She's doing really well, good government job, earning about five times what I make, doing her master's, aiming for a PhD, very well connected. Me, I've got a small business, some online gigs, but I'm still trying to find my feet financially.
The truth is, I have nothing to offer cos she's doing so well.Sometimes I wish I had a stable monthly salary, like hers. Yesterday we talked about it, I kept bringing up financial differences in relationships and how women often prefer men who are already established. I'm wondering what I have to offer someone who's already doing so well. I don't want to feel inferior or like I have to compete, but maybe I'm just overthinking before we've even met.
I love this platform because there are many elderly people with tons of life experiences who can really give some really good advice.
I'd really love some advice from people who've been in a similar spot.
Anyway, I'm putting my phone down now, going to find somewhere to charge and hoping for a productive Sunday. Wishing everyone a great day.
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8 responses
@cttolledo (5504)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9h
When someone is truly your "the one", your differences just don't matter anymore. Honestly, there's no exact formula for it; you just know when you know
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@JohnRoberts (109216)
• Los Angeles, California
2h
It's not like you are committing to marriage. Take a chance and learn more about this woman. You'll never know unless you try.
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@AmbiePam (132784)
• United States
3h
I wouldn’t linger on the topic if you’ve already spoken about it. You know, for a time my mom made more than my dad, and had a higher college degree and it didn’t bother my mom.
She might have a hard time finding an emotionally supportive partner, and as long a guy is working, she looks at him as a worthy partner. You just have to be the good guy you are, and if it works out, all the better.
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@snowy22315 (214805)
• United States
2h
Money isn't everything. If you don't take your shot you WILK always wonder what would have happened. A good man like you are is hard to come by.
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@JudyEv (391164)
• Rockingham, Australia
8h
You say you've talked about it so I'd stop talking about it now and just enjoy getting to know more about each other. I don't think it would help at all to keep going on and on about it. If it's an issue for her, you'll probably know soon enough. Good luck and I hope you're able to be good friends at least.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (91592)
• Rupert, Idaho
8h
Hopefully someone can help, I am not sure what I would say to the situation. I think people have more to offer than just money,or how successful they are with certain things.
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