purplehaze

@purplehaze (661)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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As Parents We Suffer More...

Baconstripsxxx @BACONSTRIPSXXX (17220) • Torrington, Connecticut 19 Oct 15

One of my twin daughters has a little fever since last night and its killing me slowly. I bathed her last night and let her sleep on my chest and she cooled down a bit but had me up all night coughing and tossing and turning....

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purplehaze you are a very good and responsible father. usually fathers worry about their kids but not all will do all those extra things like bathing her and putting her to sleep especially if the mom is around. when i was still single, i know that all parents have this...

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For you, young couples...

KnehKnah @KnehKnah (3582) • Philippines 10 Oct 15

Never waste your time arguing over petty things. Instead, resolve the issue with calm heads & emotions. Learn to forgive & forget. Never be "historical". There is more to enjoy in life than to push your very own self to...

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purplehaze thank you for your advice. For the line Never be "historical", i find this hard to abide. I find that i am a person who finds it really hard to forget the bad things that was done to me. For example, when my husband was still my bf, he cheated on me once and i...

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Kindness.

KnehKnah @KnehKnah (3582) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

I am not a difficult person. In fact, I haven't had any misunderstanding with anyone the past years. So, I can say I have a peaceful life, despite its simplicity. I don't wish for too much. But we have a very happy family, thanks...

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purplehaze wow you are lucky to have led a peaceful life and a happy family. but unfortunately, that is really how our world works.. there are really some people who seem to find happiness in other people's misery which is why they like giving other people a hard time....

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If You Have All the Money in the World, What will You Do?

Macarrosel @Macarrosel (7498) • Philippines 18 Oct 15

If I have all the money in the world, aside from being a philanthropist or helping the poor and the needy people, I will buy a small island where I build a nice small house, a chapel where I pray and meditate, a WiFi to continue...

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purplehaze first, i would set some money aside already to my family and kid to ensure that they will have enough to last them for a lifetime if in case I am no longer around. Then of course i will donate some too to some charity or organizations who really need the...

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I'm New

ungu89 @ungu89 (1999) • Malaysia 19 Oct 15

Hello & Good day to all myLot.... I'm nurul from Malaysia.. i was here back then on 2012.. kindly stop being involve here for long time until today, just found a lot of my stuff, everything i involve back then via online.. love...

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purplehaze Hi Nurul! Welcome back! we are the same i was a member here several years ago but then stopped. i just came back too 2 days ago and found that a lot of things have changed already. You may revisit the Help topics so you can find out more about the changes that...

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I'm a new here!

Felicia Jiang @FeliciaLingXi (28) • Wenzhou, China 19 Oct 15

Hi!I'm Felicia.I'm a new here.And I'm a Chinese year 8 student. My English is poor,so,I'm going to practice my English language skill by discussing with others(I don't know whether I have some grammar mistakes...

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english practice

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purplehaze welcome to mylot felicia! do not worry, as long as people can understand you , no one will criticize you in case your grammar is not correct. What is important here is that we communicate and share our thoughts and feelings with other users. :)

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Would you stay back to work 2 hours overtime with no extra pay and no transport allowance?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 19 Oct 15

I may have to stay back in the office for 2 hours or more tomorrow just to clear the work. There is no extra pay for overtime, and no allowance for staying, not even transport allowance for me to take a cab home. Working for free...

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purplehaze I would only agree to stay overtime for work for more than 2 hours if there is an overtime pay. If it is just one hour or less, I would not mind even if there is no pay but only if it is really needed and it is not frequent. Sometimes we need to sacrifice a...

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Everyone has something we want and something we don't want.

Yasser Mattar @yeezermac (145) • Singapore, Singapore 20 Oct 15

Everyone has something we want and something we don't want. We look at Jason across the office and we want to share his skills in IT. We don't want him to get too close though becuase he'll talk our ear off about some inane...

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purplehaze that is right.. i guess that's what makes life fair after all -- a person cannot have all the good things in life. And it is also what teaches us to value or appreciate more those things that we have, because sometimes the things we take for granted for are...

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I’m Becoming a Lazy Bum

Richard L. Meister Jr. @RichardMeister (5328) • Otis Orchards, Washington 19 Oct 15

When I was laid off my last job (a layoff that I knew was coming because the company was closing down and moving elsewhere–and a layoff I was looking forward to) I decided although I hadn’t reached full retirement age, I would...

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purplehaze getting busy or getting things done sometimes need a different perspective. You may not be fruitful in terms of working (Career-wise) but at least you are getting some household chores done and/or cooking so the day's not totally wasted. I understand though...

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When "outgoing" isn't really you

Cahaya @cahaya1983 (11116) • Malaysia 17 Oct 15

I've been following one forum thread on a website and people were sharing their opinion on how to be more confident and outgoing. Many people seem to think that you have to be outgoing to be socially accepted. I wonder...

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purplehaze I have to say i am also more of an introvert. Although if i am with my good friends, i am outgoing and comfortable. But if i am with people who i dont really know, i feel uncomfortable and i usually dont know how to approach or start discussions with them....

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welcome me!!

deeksha qanoungo @deeshaq (82) • India 18 Oct 15

So i was googling about how to earn by writing and this is where i ended up. Honestly i have zero idea of why i am here anc how ill earn from this site.so any one whose willing to tell me how i should proceed here?spill it lease....

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purplehaze welcome to mylot deeksha! as some of the users have already pointed you the link on where you may get more information about how to earn here in mylot, my additional advise for you is to just have fun, share your thoughts and comments and participate in other...

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Don't start discussions unless you are going to comment back to the responses you receive

Karen Waterson @rosekiss (30413) • Eugene, Oregon 18 Oct 15

I have seen some in here, that will start discussions, and not do anything with them. That is nhot interacting. If someone responds to your discussions, then please have the common decency to comment back to them to start the...

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purplehaze I agree with you. The reason we post something here is not just to earn money but also to be able to interact with fellow MyLot users and share our opinions and thoughts. Therefore, it is rude if you are not able to even acknowledge the comments other users...

18 Oct 15

do you accept every friendship request?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 18 Oct 15

I realized that I have many friends of facebook but there are few of them I could call friends on real life. I started to be a little more careful to who I accept as a friend and many times I simply deny a friendship request.

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purplehaze I agree that we should not just go and accept everybody as friends in facebook. For me, although facebook is considered a social media, i still want to keep my group of friends limited to only my real friends or at least someone i knew back in school or work....

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First love never dies?

April Revista @JaneApril (334) • Philippines 17 Oct 15

He/she is the first one who made butterflies in your stomach fly crazily. Your schoolmate, childhood friend, neighbor, or someone you met unexpectedly. The one who left you speechless and stoned. Maybe the first one also who...

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relationship

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purplehaze For my case, this is not true. Sadly because my first love cheated on me that is why we separated not on good terms. It took me a few years before i got over him completely. Lately, he has been sending me messages again and wanted to ask for another chance,...

18 Oct 15

Is RENTING a house WISER than BUYING through LOAN?

frenchfriesmama1 @frenchfriesmama1 (39) • Philippines 1 Apr 11

My husband and I have been discussing about applying for a loan to buy our own home. At first we thought about renting, but since there are affordable house and lots for sale as of the moment,we were thinking about buying...

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purplehaze like the other mylotters, i also prefer buying rather than renting especially if you have the budget or extra money. Because in some places, when you compute the monthly rental that you pay, it may almost be the same amount that you need to pay for the monthly...

15 May 11

online shopping

frenchfriesmama1 @frenchfriesmama1 (39) • Philippines 28 Mar 11

Do you think online shopping is practical? I sometimes find this practical, rather than me going to the malls spending money for gas just to go the malls,well not unless your house is nearby a mall.

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purplehaze i also do online shopping but i only limit it to clothes, shoes, accessories, bags or other small items..i find it very practical and fast and i can shop anytime at my own convenience and comfort. However, since items sold online sometimes have limited...

15 May 11

Music takes away unwanted Stress.

anjanipac @anjanipac (1) • Guyana 23 Apr 11

Music takes away unwanted stress. It allows u to be in a trance and have a wide imagination and belief. It's relaxing and it helps u to fight unnecessary actions in your life. Love songs - add value to ones life especially if he...

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purplehaze I totally agree!! Music really helps a lot to make me feel relaxed and less stressful. Whenever I am on my way to work, listening to music can make me feel that my travel time is not as long or tiring as it seems. During work, i also love to listen to music...

15 May 11

What Comes After Death?

blareknight8 @blareknight8 (1) • United States 28 Mar 11

Many people do not know about life after death. But i happen to know a little bit. My own great grandfather is somebody who had died and came back to life. He told me when he had died he did not believe in christ. So when he died,...

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purplehaze From a religious point of view, some religions believe that when you die, you either go to heaven or hell, some believe that you reincarnate after you die.. Still, others believe that when you die, you are dead, meaning you are like sleeping and there are no...

15 May 11

Equality in marriage

sender621 @sender621 (14889) • United States 5 Apr 11

Marriage is seen bymany as the union between two people that have love for each other. Respect and trust and honor are thrown in to keep the relationship strong. We are told when we get married that we are equal...

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purplehaze i thought that equality here would mean that both the husband and wife has a voice in the marriage. Both can voice out their opinions, their likes and dislikes, and that both should hear each other out. Both can make the decisions when it comes to their...

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What was that?

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 16 Apr 11

Last night as I was sleeping I suddenly woke up because I felt really uncomfortable. I opened my eyes and try to move but I couldn't move at all. It was as if something was holding me or was on me so I couldn't move. I tried hard...

scary

sleep

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purplehaze i think it's what you call the nightmares.. sound really scary.. i think it would be better that you always pray before you sleep. and also i heard that sometimes nightmares are caused by eating too much before you sleep, or if your mind is thinking about so...

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