rbjat4589

@rbjat4589 (104)

Philippines • Age 36

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Earning too small

Bigosei33 @Bigosei33 (52) • Ghana 7 Jan 12

I have been here for 1week now and my earning is too small, maybe i am lacking something here to increase it, Mylotters show me what am lacking.

earning

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rbjat4589 me too i am experiencing what you experience. It is hard to earn. So just keep on responding to discussions.

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How to make a quiet person talk

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I have been having problems trying to make one student of mine talk to me. Though he is really smart, he's very reserved and shy. He doesn't speak to me unless I spoke to him first. He doesn't make eye contact. When I ask him...

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rbjat4589 If you really want to make him talk get to know him. His likes and dislikes. Start a conversation and ask him totally about himself. :D

7 Jan 12

are you a fan of flip flops?

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 22 Dec 11

There are many kind of footwear in the market. And the ones that are very popular are flip flops sandals. I am not a fan as I do not like the feeling of something being wedged in-between my toes. But my partner loves...

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rbjat4589 I have a bunch and collection of flip flops. I love how they are so comfortable to my feet. I love wearing them around in malls.

23 Dec 11

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People treat you differently when you are not looking good?

piya84 @piya84 (2580) • India 23 Dec 11

Last month i did something stupid and got rash and then big pimples on my face. It took about a month and half to sort out what had happened. I saw literally 180 degree change in how people behave with me.I mean...

looking good

not

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rbjat4589 Yes that is exactly what I experienced. When you are good looking people will look at you with awe and give you much respect. When they see you have a disability or you look ugly they will mistreat you and judge you wrongly. These are the common notion among...

23 Dec 11

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How do you face people who were rude to you in past?

piya84 @piya84 (2580) • India 23 Dec 11

I was just wondering how do you react when you come across a person who was rude with you in past. There are some people who were rude to me in past and we may come cross path once again in upcoming week.I am feeling sort of...

past

people

rude

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rbjat4589 If they were rude to you in the past, they will be rude again to you in the future. Wait till they make the first move to say sorry for the rudeness they showed you. As for my experience I didn't talk to those people who were rude to me. I make sure I would be...

23 Dec 11

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am i over reacting on this

kristinad @kristinad (185) • United States 20 Dec 11

my husband has a friend that is a girl and all they do is talk on the phone all day and night. while he is at work they text each other and when i talk to him and confront him on it he goes what i can't have a friend that is a...

am i over reacting on this

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rbjat4589 It is just right to react that way because first he is you husband. You don't want him to be stolen by anyone out there. Confront your husband properly because talking and texting with a girl almost 24 hrs a day there must be something going on between them....

21 Dec 11

Are you wishing for a white Christmas???

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 20 Dec 11

Unfortunately there are some states who have that snow already and its enough to still be there for Christmas.. I am definately not wishing or looking forward to snow at anytime. Of course if/when it comes there is nothing we...

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rbjat4589 In our country we don't experience snow. I am looking forward to the day that I would be touching and feeling the snow. I don't know the feeling of being in a place were there is heavy snow. In places were roads are covered with snow.

21 Dec 11

risk to have relationship with younger people

omchesunche @omchesunche (1754) • Indonesia 20 Dec 11

As we know, latest hollywood news about reality of Demi Moore - Aston Kutcher who even become a couple examples among Hollywood celebrities were rumored to have cracks. Demi decided to get divorced from Aston following their sixth...

risk age gap relationship

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rbjat4589 Yes it would be a great risk to be married with someone who is so much younger than you are. Especially with the trending these days. People give in to temptation and are not faithful anymore. There should be trust and loyalty in both party so that their...

21 Dec 11

How do you enjoy the holidays without spending money?

eunique317 @eunique317 (347) • Philippines 21 Dec 11

I love the Christmas season. But usually, I end up broke after the holidays. If I go out to the mall, I'd sure to spend. If I go to some new place nearby, surely it will entail money. Even celebrating at home with your friends and...

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rbjat4589 I enjoy the holidays by letting my relatives spend their money not my money. Eat and drink for free. Go to church of course because it is the only place where i can talk to God and not spend big money.

21 Dec 11

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What would you do if your partner cheats on you?

AshwinSajith @AshwinSajith (602) • India 19 Dec 11

One of my close friends is in a real stae of shock because her long time boy friend cheated on her. What was worse was that it had been happening for a while and that too with a mutual friend? Now the final decision is hers and I...

cheating

partner

relationships

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rbjat4589 If i was the girl i would confront the guy why he is doing such thing. I will let him choose who he wants to be with after learning that he is cheating. If he chooses the other girl i will set him free and let him do what he wants. If he chose me them he...

19 Dec 11

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Banana cakes. Are they worth trying?

marguicha @marguicha (229666) • Chile 19 Dec 11

I have never eaten banana cakes. I have 2 very ripe bananas and a friend told me to make banana cake. I don´t know how to do it and if it´s worth trying it. Anyone can give me some tips? I´ll check a recipe online, but I would...

banana cake

fruits

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rbjat4589 Banana cake really taste good. My mother cooks them at times and i tend to consume a lot. Try experimenting on putting additionals on the cake for it to taste a lot better. It would be a good thing for Christmas. Good luck on cooking.

19 Dec 11

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Good Vacation Spot this Holiday Season

xien2xien @xien2xien (1382) • Philippines 19 Dec 11

Since its the start of my vacation for this holiday season i'm thinking of where is a good spot vacation here in the Philippines. I'm not planning to go to other countries since it's so much expensive and i've only got a small...

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rbjat4589 I could recommend you bohol! It is a nice, cozy, green nature and white sand beaches to enjoy. You don't have to spend much because the hotels are offering cheaper rates and you could go round tour in one day. You could also get tickets at affordable rates...

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What was the price of your last shoes and how long did it last?

squallming @squallming (1775) • Malaysia 19 Dec 11

First of all, I'm a Malaysian Chinese male still taking my bachelor's degree. The thing is, I have been buying new shoes, mostly sneakers every now and then, a few times a year. It is not because I like to buy shoes, but the...

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rbjat4589 The last pair of shoes I had bought was a pair of wedge and it was about $100. I think it is worth it cause it is still in really good condition. Although it gets dirty because the color is white but can be wiped out. I hope it will still last for about4 yrs...

19 Dec 11

What has been your biggest achievement this year?

beki710 @beki710 (949) 19 Dec 11

So 2011 is drawing to a close and I was wondering what everyone's biggest achievement this year has been? For me I think it was getting used to life after University, living away from my parents and having to truly fend for...

2011

achievements

life

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rbjat4589 This year was really a blessing for me and my family. First event to be thankful was when I graduated. Of course after four years of hardwork paid off and I had the chance to give my parents back what they have invested and that is offering my diploma. Second...

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I love helping the elderly!!!!!

bjc66bjc @bjc66bjc (6730) • United States 18 Dec 11

There was a elderly man who use to live across the street from me but he moved to a Senior complex...I use to help him alot when he was across the street because I just thought it was the right thing to do.. When he moved...

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rbjat4589 We feel the same way. I love helping the elderly. It would feel heaven after helping those kind of people. My grandmother is already old so i assist her in things she does. I make sure i take good care of her since she is the only one i got. I still want her...

19 Dec 11

I love someone else...

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 19 Dec 11

What would you do if your partner (husband or wife) would tell you that he/she realized that he/she isn't ready for a commitment and wishes to be free because he/she loves someone else. Note that you are married and have 2 very...

decision

love

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rbjat4589 If i was in that situation I would talk it out with my partner and solve the problem right then and there. If he is not happy anymore and want to escape with family life then let him be. But after talking it out with him gather all the members of the family...

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How do i get rid of facial hair forever?

Jphunk @Jphunk (72) • South Africa 18 Dec 11

I've tried waxing, tweezing, plucking from the roots but somehow the lil buggers found their way back onto my face- they especially love to populate under my chin in groups. I find it disgusting.Any other methods except medical...

chin hair

tweezing

waxing

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rbjat4589 Laser Hair removal is the only way if u want to get rid of it permanently. Those typical way of removing the one you mentioned are just temporary. We have the same problem though. I want to get rid of my facial hair. But i still don't have enough money to get...

18 Dec 11

Everyday There are Friend Requests

cearn25 @cearn25 (3452) • Philippines 18 Dec 11

Everytime I logged in my account here in mylot, I always receive friend requests. At least 2 friend requests. Thank you for those who added me. My friends here are getting in number day by day. If you would like to add me, don't...

friends

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rbjat4589 Wow you sure are friendly. Maybe you are a good friend for receiving friend request everyday. Many friends the better.

18 Dec 11

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Mylotters and their one liners

@mayka123 @mayka123 (17084) • India 18 Dec 11

Many mylotters both the newbies and some of the senior members here sometimes give responses to discussions in just a few words or just one sentence. It is at times difficult for us to comment back on such responses. I try to...

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rbjat4589 I usually tend to elaborate on what I would say to a one liner discussion. I don't usually tend to tell users to make longer responses cause that could be rude. It is their prerogative to respond n a longer or shorter way. You just have to deal with them.

18 Dec 11

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Lemon juice morning and night?

Jphunk @Jphunk (72) • South Africa 18 Dec 11

I read about this regime alot in beauty magz, that if you want to lose weight drink lime or lemon juice with lukewarm water with a scoop of fibre (optional) every day twice.Has anyone had results following this routine every...

fat burning

lemon

weightloss

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rbjat4589 I read it also on books about the good effects of lemon. But I have not tried the routine. Maybe if I have time I could try it and see if it works on me. Yes lemon is good for the body because of the Vitamin C it gives us. But Vitamin C is for our immunity....

18 Dec 11