redtomato

@redtomato (4)

China • Age 40

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Are you afraid of getting married

mjanne @mjanne (251) • China 12 Feb 09

Some of my friends are afraid of getting married. They prefer love to marriage. I think fall in love is easy but get alone with each other is much harder. You should be more patient and be tolerate. Some people back out just...

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redtomato I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years and I think the feeling of staying together is good. Before , I expected for marriage because in our custom marriage is holiness .Now my family suggested that we should get marry,and I started to prepare for it for...

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A cheap trip out for enjoyment

maximax8 @maximax8 (31053) • United Kingdom 15 Feb 09

Where do you like to go for a cheap trip out for some enjoyment? Yesterday it was a fairly sunny day so I took advantage of that and took my dogs to the beach. They so very much enjoyed racing up and down the sand dunes. I liked...

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redtomato admire you ! I live in a city,and there are no sea.The country side is too far,about 2hours in the bus ,so I go the the nearby garden occasionally. Living in city for long time , I dream of the countryside life. Wish I can have a long trip this year...

15 Feb 09

Can a woman to be a professional and look after home too?

mercuryman3a @mercuryman3a (2477) • India 15 Feb 09

I find that a lot of women these days are professionals and career oriented. They have to work hard at their careers and look after the home too. It becomes difficult specially with small children at home. That is the reason why...

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redtomato I think it's hard to me .I know some women can do this ,they are excellent. I have no children ,I married with my husband last year.About this problem we have discuss many times ,the result is I can't be a professionall and look after home together. Now...

15 Feb 09

40 Places I Want To See Before I Die

margaux08 @margaux08 (1094) • Philippines 15 Feb 09

While having my hair done @ a parlor yesterday, I read a magazine article about 1000 places that need to be seen before one dies. Some places were truly captivating. As soon as I reached home, I started to list all places I wanted...

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redtomato I want to visit some places too ,but not the wishes beforing die,that's the wishes for my marriage. Yunnan (china ),Hawaii,New Zealand ,it is said a garden city! Although it is economic crisis, I decide to visit one of them. Enjoy life!

15 Feb 09

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