seashore124

@seashore124 (48)

China • Age 40

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Do you sometimes enjoy being alone or by yourself?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 4 Aug 08

Hi, I live with my hubby (and my five dogs). He does work during the week but he's here whenever he's not at work. You have to understand, I do love him dearly, but sometimes I just like being alone. He went up north to his...

alone

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seashore124 No,I am not sure I really like stay alone.But sometimes yes.When I am tired or I am in bad mood,I always stay alone.Listen to the music,and read a book.Only in this way I can be myself.But I always enjoy the time that we are together.It is really very nice and...

5 Aug 08

I have a serious health concern....

psyche49f @psyche49f (2502) • Philippines 20 Jul 07

Just this afternoon, I took my lab results and brought it to my doctor; she told me the result is so bad: I took 3 lab tests, for lipid, glucose and for creatinine--I flunked in the two tests: lipid and glucose. My blood sugar is...

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seashore124 Do not worry.May be you are above BMI.From now on,you should eat less and do not eat something contain suger eat somrthing with high salt and high fat.Eat more tomotooes and do more sport.Loss fat is your most thing to do.

21 Jul 07

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Should men give up their seat on subway or bus for Ladies?

golfproo @golfproo (1839) • Canada 23 Jun 07

Ok, I realize this may be a little controversial, but I ran into two experiences within the last week which made me wonder about this scenario. First of all I was on the subway and it was packed. There was a middle aged woman...

manners

people

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seashore124 It is very good for a man to give up his seat to a lady.But it is not a must.Giving up your seat to a lady shows you are polite.But you do not is your choise.And it does not say you are not polite.Right?But if the lady looks weak or have a baby or pregnant,you...

24 Jun 07

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im looking for a new job now

mel_87 @mel_87 (856) 23 Jun 07

hi everyone, well as most of you know i work in a hotel and i work nights, when i applied for the job i applyed to work days, when they offered me the job they said can i work nights for 3 months then go onto days after that so i...

work

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seashore124 You should quit this job .And find a now job.Work at night with no stop is very harm for your health.Health can not be bought with money.Right?Relax and find a now job which you feel suitable .Takr it easy,^-^

24 Jun 07

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Headaches

icequeen @icequeen (2840) • Canada 9 Nov 06

Does anyone suffer a lot of headaches? If so...what do you do to relieve them?

headaches

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seashore124 You are on the computer more,maybe it is the big problem.And thus you can not sleep very at night.Right?And every morning you feel headache.And you feel very thirsty.And sometimes you feel your heart bit very heart.Right?Maybe you can go to see a Chinese...

8 Jun 07

Have you ever woke up with a headache and its not from a hangover?

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 24 May 07

My headaches are back but when i went to the doctor back he told me it was tension.I dont think so this aint normal i have one right now.I go to the doctor next week for this again so I hope he get it 2gether adn tell me whats...

headaches

health

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seashore124 Me too.I suffer it a lot.Maybe you can not sleep very well at night.These days i fell a little well.I went to a chinese traditional doctor.He give me some peals.And the night I feel a little good.Maybe you can find a chinese doctor.He can help you.if not,you...

8 Jun 07

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When time gets away from you, should you just skip breakfast?

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 1 Jun 07

I have been trying to eat a healthier diet lately, which means trying to get in something for breakfast in the morning. This means that usually I am hungry in the mornings even though in the past I could go til noon or later...

breakfast

poptarts

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seashore124 You should eat breakfast,Because it is the most important meals in your days.If you do not eat breakfast you will be unhealthy.Sientists say that a person without breakfast he will be suffered stomach illness.And for someone to be thinner,he or she should...

2 Jun 07

Shoul I feel obligated to stay with the father of my children?

msbiggs24 @msbiggs24 (285) • United States 31 May 07

I've been with the father of my children for almost 6 years and the relationship seems to be stuck in one place right now. He wants to marry me, but I always ask him what will change once we are married. That's just one question...

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seashore124 I think if you love the man,you should marry with him.The man want you to marry with him,That means that he love you,and want to give you a home. Home does not mean live together,and homomeny and happy. Right?And find what you really want.and answer him.

1 Jun 07

Earning Money Online! Do you like to invest or just find sites paying for input?

aliasad @aliasad (1567) • Pakistan 31 May 07

Hi friends! Most of times it seems good to have some investment and then enjoy the return for every month. I am sure that there would be sites doing the same and would never be termed as SCAM. This is hard task to find .... as...

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seashore124 In fact,i think invest online is not safe.There are so many scams online.You can not know which is honest.Right?if you want to earn some money from online,you should not invest money into it.Find some free. eg.adbux,moneycashbar If you want them you can...

31 May 07

Help

becca29 @becca29 (40) • United States 31 May 07

I have a son that crys all the time over the silliest things. He has always been an emotional child but I thought he would just grow out of it. I talk to him all the time to see why he gets so upset but that just makes it worse....

children

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seashore124 I think you should give him some lessons.Let him know he has been grew up,he should live as a man.And the let his things go.Do not help him cover them.Let himself think how to do it.And then he will have his own thoughts and ideas.He will be do things reasonly...

31 May 07

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Today the whole world will see Blue Moon

ashar123 @ashar123 (2357) • India 30 May 07

Tonight on 30th May 2007, the whole world will monitor Blue Moon. This glance can be seen from all places, countries of the world. This happens for 7 times in every 19 years. Tonight the moon will seem a little larger in size with...

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seashore124 oh my god.I will miss it.I am in beijing now.It is raining here.I can not see anything in the sky but mist.Blue moon?I have not seen it before.Who see it and have seen it please tell me ,ok?

31 May 07

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Does it get easier?

medillavou @medillavou (70) • United States 30 May 07

I am newbie mom. My baby is almost five months old. Sometimes it gets really hard to deal with things. I am currently not working and I am home alot. I dont know that it is but I feel like Im always depressed. God knows I love my...

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seashore124 Yeah,you should do something else,to scatter your attention.take a breath.or some day get up early and take a walk.Breathe the morning air,listen to a soft music you will find the day is beautiful.And the next whole day will be very happy.You know your husband...

31 May 07

I need your opinions on this.....

angel575 @angel575 (66) • United States 30 May 07

My friend(male)is a fistr time parent. He allows his baby's mother to keep their child for 5 days out of the week and him on weekends and this was not the arrangement they made with the courts it was the other way around. The...

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seashore124 I think it is the twos responsibility.One can not built a child,but two can.Is that right.So the child is one part of them.The two should place their duties to the child.Yes,mother lived in a shelter before.But now she is a mom,she should do as her parants do...

31 May 07

Is it possible to love two people

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 30 May 07

I was having a get together the other night and we were all haveing a conversation don't know how the subject got started but one of our male friends stated that he loved two women. I told him that was impossible you give your...

two people

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seashore124 Sorry,I think it is impossible.Because when you love someone,you should give your whole heart to him or her.So you can have no space to give to another person.Yeah your male friends are.But only one is his true liver.He loves his wife bucause of his...

30 May 07

Are You a Submissive Woman?

spiderman05 @spiderman05 (851) • Canada 29 May 07

Women tend to be submissive in many cultures on this planet. They are told since their childhood how to please men and serve them. I have always thought that submissive women were just an oriental thing. Though, I personally knew...

control

submissive women

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seashore124 I am not a eatirly submissive woman.But usually for bagatelles I will be submissive.Because men always are androcentrism.They can not stand everything he tells you to do,you say no.But I will not do everything.I have my own life.Do these things just I love...

30 May 07

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Has the Month Of May Been a Lousy One For You?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 28 May 07

I think a lot of us here can't wait for this month to be over...and maybe with the new month of June will bring more positive events in all our lives. So many of us here have been going through a really rough time...it's it...

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seashore124 I think we should happily to face these problems.We can smile to live the life.And we also can cry to live our lifes.Why not choose the smile one.Everyday we should face and live.we can not refuse.Our lifes is given by gods.We shoule cherish them. Actually I...

29 May 07

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What Songs Do You Hate--You Just Can't Stand to Hear Them?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 27 May 07

A lot of people have discussions about music or songs they love...ah,...but how about other side of it...what songs annoy you, or that you just plain hate to listen to, and if it comes up on the radio, you make a mad dash to turn...

songs we cant stand

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seashore124 I always hate the hip-hop style.I think they are very noisy.I can stand them.That can make me very angry and can not sleep well.A girl ,one of my roommates ,like them.She always turns them up.These days I can not sleep very well. I like soft music and...

28 May 07

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Would a relationship survive bankruptcy?

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 27 May 07

They say that love conquers all. But then let us be practical, how would you survive with just love? Love cannot provide you shelter, it cannot feed you too. Do you think that two people will remain happy and will a marriage...

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seashore124 Love can survive or not depands what the two or one of the two think.If the love is true,the two can be very happy to get over the poverty.They may think they are the most happery couple in the world.In face the financial is also very important.But if they...

28 May 07