sharksfin

@sharksfin (1091)

Philippines

Joined myLot 18 years ago

“I surround myself with love by loving everything around me.”

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Need to write about my feelings so i decided to use mylot.

TheBloodBoilingGuy @TheBloodBoilingGuy (9) • Singapore 1 Nov 12

Most people know that in order to avoid a conflict,you have to listen to the opposing party's opinion, try to understand what's going wrong. But i just came across my mum today and we quarelled. I tried listening to her, but she's...

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sharksfin Hi, TheBoloodBoilingGuy. I do understand that you do want some freedom. But, you gotta understand, too, that your mom only wants what's best for you. Of course, it will appear to you as if she's only killing your joy, but know that every parent wants the best...

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What is the Purpose for the Existence of Anger?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 29 Oct 12

Hi friends and lotters Yesterday a friend of mine visited me and he said he was very angry and upset with something at office. He even took the bag of anger home the other evening and had quarreled with his...

anger

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sharksfin Very nice question, thesids. ^_^ I believe that anger is an emotion which is really not intended for bad purposes. It's, actually, an emotion that makes us feel there is something wrong or our rights are being violated. It tells us that we gotta act on...

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How would you feel if the one you love keeps on avoiding you?

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

If I only knew ahead of time that our friendship will destroy after we discuss our feelings, i guess i would not dare to risk it all.But i guess it's already late, What happen is already happen.But what makes me regretful is that...

feelings

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sharksfin How you feel is really understandable. It's really painful. But, you gotta also think that he has his reasons for doing what he's doing. It's better if he be open to you in stead of showing these actions, yes. But, that's not anymore yours to be concerned...

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Love or Decision?

papskie @papskie (85) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

For you, what keeps a marriage going? Is it LOVE? or DECISION? Does love makes a marriage last? Or is it the decision?

life

love

marriage

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sharksfin It is always easier to maintain something if it's really coming from the heart. Therefore, I'd say, it's better if marriage or any relationship/friendship for that matter is based and maintained through love. But, because many mistake love as a feeling and we...

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Always pray

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 23 Oct 12

Because a person who spends some time on his knees for prayers in front of God will never find difficulty to stand on his feet throughout his life. This is my opinion; I always find time to pray once in morning and once in...

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sharksfin This is really one of the best advices a person can ever receive in his/her lifetime. No one else can really help us but the Creator of all things. We do not have the strength we need to survive this world. The Word says, "in this world you will have...

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Diet

marsfire05 @marsfire05 (163) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

Is rice deprivation can lead to something bad or a little bit nasty to our health? Can I zero the intake of the rice? I really want to cut off some of pounds. What type of diet is the most effective in shorter period of time? and...

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sharksfin Hi, Marsfire05. You know, just take it easy. What's unhealthy is losing a lotta pounds in a matter of week. A healthy one would be a max of 2 pounds per week. If you're not into exercising, it's best to really cut on rice. If you can do without it, then...

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Would it be fine for a couple to live together without love?

RUBESH @Manasha (2727) • Pondicherry, India 24 Oct 12

Couple, many pairs, nowadays live together without love. Do you think this relationship is fine forever, I don't think because love is the strong bond between any two people, either friends or couple. However, there are many...

living without love

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sharksfin I am not sure why would two people decide to be together if not for love in the first place. Are you talking about married couples of those who are just living in together? If about married couples... I believe marriage is a sacred vow between a man and a...

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Working by yourself

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 23 Oct 12

Yesterday around 12:30 my bosses left for the day and who knows what time they arrived back. I work for a husband and wife that own a construction company and i work out of their house. Today is the husbands birthday so he decided...

life

stress

work

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sharksfin Before you agreed to take the job, you should've asked for specific job description. If there's something like that stated in a contract, then, you can probably talk to them about giving you bonus for doing extra tasks not related to your job position. Am not...

24 Oct 12

Telling your friend the person they love is a cheater

silverfox09 @silverfox09 (4708) • United States 24 Oct 12

I had a friend in high school , she loved her boy friend and here is nothing you can say wrong about him that she will believe . At that time I never had anything bad to say about him until 11 grade , I went to a party with his...

bad relationship

friends

love

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sharksfin The situation was really tough. As a friend, of course, you don't wanna hurt feelings. And, in that particular situation, it's really about what kind of relationship/friendship you have with your friend. If I were in your shoes, I would tell my friend even if...

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Live life to the fullest?

wahwee20 @wahwee20 (66) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

life is God's gift.. But even it has this saying "Live life to the fullest".. it is still depends on you if how you will manage your life. Sometimes you become pessimistic through all your encountered trials. But if you have...

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sharksfin It's a cliche, maybe. But, I guess, there's no other way to enjoy the gift of life but to make a decision to live it to the full. And, yes, like what you mentioned, it's a choice to make. It's a waste to live always upset over things beyond your control. To be...

24 Oct 12

Electric fan or aircon?

allenwrites @allenwrites (263) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

I know most of us can only afford to buy electric fans because air conditioners very much more expensive if you compared it to electric fan. But if given the chance to choose freely from this two, which one do you prefer.

aircon

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sharksfin I'd be a hypocrite if I choose EF over AC. Of course, convenience and comfort wise, I'd go for the latter. Esp, I don't live in a cold country. It's a tropical country where I am and it's mostly humid. But, for practicality's sake, I'd rather use EF. I have...

24 Oct 12

Communicaiton within relationships

isha242 @isha242 (83) • United States 2 Jul 12

I used to think that communication was the key for a relationship to work well and last long. Now, I still do believe that it is important but how do you make a relationship work when one person tries to communicate about...

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sharksfin I am a believer that communication is the best solution to any misunderstanding and conflict. The reason for this belief is because we are all different and we don't always understand each other. And that starts misunderstanding. We have certain expectations...

17 Jul 12

Panic attacks while driving

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 17 Jul 12

I'm so glad to be home! I'm panic stricken any time I have to drive on 316. You go at 65 miles per hour. I am scared to drive out of my comfort zone. I'm agoraphobic to some degree. My world gets smaller and smaller. I can only...

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sharksfin How long have you been driving, pointlessquestions? I think I also have that phobia. I am not driving as I don't think I can ever drive. I can learn, am sure, but will never be able to because I am easily scared. I easily get rattled esp when I hear horns....

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Made hommade subways

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 17 Jul 12

A friend of ours came by yesterday and brought some subway sandwich bread. She works for Subway and brings some home to herself. She shared some with us and I have some cold cuts and cheese and lettuce. It wasn't exactly like...

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sharksfin Made me really hungry. Thanks for sharing your subway. I would like to know how to prepare one. For lunch, I had my favorite steamed dory fish with white rice. :) That's already good for me. Am not really a big eater. hehe... Btw, did you also make the...

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How to remove stain from the shirt?

ARIES1973 @ARIES1973 (11426) • Legaspi, Philippines 13 Jul 12

I have this light yellow t-shirt with the logo of our department on the left side. I used it last Wednesday and I accidentally stained it with an ink on the right side. This is one of my favorite shirts so when I got home, I...

stained

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sharksfin hmmm... Is't a permanent ink stain? Try using any of these: alcohol, nail polish remover, ammonia, cornstarch/baking soda, vinegar or acetone.

13 Jul 12

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This one has me stumped! computer beeping no monitor?

free_man @free_man (7330) • United States 13 Jul 12

I am pretty good at fixing computers and don't usually have a lot of problems with computers but this one has me stumped! I turn on the computer everything is hooked up but the monitor won't come on. I changed the monitor and the...

beep

beeping

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sharksfin Hi, free_man. ^_^ Can't think of anything but graphic card failure. Is't an external graphic card you have? If it is, it could be busted. Switch to integrated if you have one. If it's an integrated one, it could be that you need to replace your mother...

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use internet every day

pollydhuca @pollydhuca (227) • Indonesia 13 Jul 12

i work in office 8 hours per day, but not really work, because my duty just make a report only and collect some data. i used my time to browse the Internet, and spend all the rest my free time. sometime i read article and...

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sharksfin Well, if it is allowed in your workplace, you can play some games that doesn't affect bandwidth. One online game I enjoyed a lot when I was still working in an office setting was Throw Paper. You can Google it up if you want to try it. You can also start your...

13 Jul 12

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