shuchikalra

@shuchikalra (30)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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When should you stop getting jealous of your partner's past relationships?

kitan2979 @kitan2979 (115) • Philippines 19 Mar 08

My boyfriend is so open and honest about his past relationships..somehow i appreciate that he's honest, it just means that he's not hiding anything from me but sometimes i just cant help it, i really get jealous and hurt,...

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shuchikalra Ideally, u should leave your jealousy behind as soon as you enter into a relationship but that is not always possible. however, you have no reason to worry Kitan. your guy is an honest one and if he is friends with his ex, it clearly means that he is over that...

19 Mar 08

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What is beauty to you?

the_ruler @the_ruler (1442) • Turkey 14 Mar 08

and Who is the most beautiful woman in the world? Do you think men also can be beautiful? or do you think beauty belongs to women only?

beautiful woman

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shuchikalra anything or anyone who is pleasing to be with is beautiful to me. not only men, even a tree can be beautiful. I do not think of beauty as an hourglass figure, ironed hair, amazing make-up, perfect features, nice clothes etc...it goes way beyond that.

19 Mar 08

Do you have a beauty ritual???

skinnychick @skinnychick (6905) • United States 13 Mar 08

I was just thinking as I was sitting here mylotting that every single night I go through he11 to keep myself younger and hopefully prettier. Yeah, I know that wrinkle creams don't work but it doesn't stop me from shelling out for...

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shuchikalra I think thebest beauty ritual that has so far worked for me is keeping my face and hair clean. Once the dirt and grime are out of your pores, the skin automatically glows. if you are past your twenties, it would help to slather a good moisturiser at bedtime...

19 Mar 08

Do good looking couples always have good-looking babies?

honeylore23 @honeylore23 (1081) • United States 11 Feb 08

I really wonder about this, because I have heard from many other person that they want their partner to be good-looking so they will have good-looking babies. But then it opposed to what I have observed, because a lot of times I...

appearance

children adapt parents appearance

looks

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shuchikalra it is not abnormal for children to look very different from their parents. they may acquire a set of physical characteristics in a weird proportion or combination or may even take after grandparents or an uncle/aunt. About good looking parents always ending up...

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Do you believe in re-incarnation?

shuchikalra @shuchikalra (30) • India 8 Mar 08

I can't help wondering sometimes as to who I could have been in my past-life. I am really intrigued and facinated by the whole phenomenon. Do you believe that our soul is recyclable? Do you know anyone who has experienced...

regression

reincarnation

soul

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would you consider lazer surgery?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 8 Mar 08

I have had bad eye sight all my life. I have been wearing glasses since I was 6 years. Once I tried contacts but really didn't like them. I would never try lazer surgery, I don't like the idea of people even though they are...

lazer eye surgery

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shuchikalra im an optometrist and I've already gone under d knife n I feel great to be spc-free..need I say more?

8 Mar 08

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People from every country of the world

maximax8 @maximax8 (31043) • United Kingdom 8 Mar 08

I think it is wonderful to meet people from other nationalities. I live in the UK and live amongst a multi cultural society. Now that the EU has so many members lots of foreigners live in Britain like the Polish people for...

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shuchikalra oh I totalluy love multi-cultural societies probably i grew up in one. it broadens your perspectives and you learn so much about the world.

8 Mar 08

I'm soooo proud of myself!!!!!

heavenschild @heavenschild (4777) • Canada 8 Mar 08

I made my first apple pie and it was sooooooooo good I'm making another one today before I go into work later :) I had some apples here that needed to be used up and so I made a pie without a recipe and it turned out...

delicious apple pie

first attempt

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shuchikalra well it happens so that the first thing i ever made was also an apple pie but I ended up charring it because i micriwaved it for 40 mins instead of baking ..with a plastic utensil!

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Do You Dress UP or Down?

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 8 Mar 08

Can you dress "down" when you go out in public? Would you ever wear Sweatpants in Public? Or do you have to be dressed "UP" to go out of the house? Do you think it's okay for people to wear sweats in public? What about those...

clothing

dress

public

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shuchikalra i simply love dressing down..it makes me feel closer to muself. i find sweats very comfortable..especially while travellin..a neat pair can actually look quite glamourous!

8 Mar 08

Do You Think That Religous Discussions Should Be Avoided On MyLot?

SassyKittyKat @SassyKittyKat (2135) • Australia 6 Mar 08

I have noticed that a lot of people bring up religion on MyLot and I think more often than not, this leads to arguments. I'm a preacher of the bible and I go door to door. However, I try to avoid religous discussions on here...

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shuchikalra discussion religion is like just just another debate. it has a "for" side and an "against" side. everyone is entitled to their opinion and we are all grown up enough not to hurt other persons' sensibilities. therefore, it doesnt make too much sense to avoid...

6 Mar 08

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are big women beautiful?

shuchikalra @shuchikalra (30) • India 6 Mar 08

all of us seem so obsessed about our weights and stats. do our weighing scales actually decide how beautiful we are? are there men who find bigger women more attractive in comparispon to the reedy types?

beautiful

big

weight

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Who do you resemble,your father or mother ?

candytang @candytang (341) • China 6 Mar 08

I wonder to know whom you resemble ,your father or mother ?And why ? I often heard that the daughters resemble fathers ,while the sons resemble mothers.I think that's the true for my family .I really resemble my father and my...

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shuchikalra people who see me for the first time say that I look exactly like my mother but on a closer look, they say that my features, color and eyes are like my fathers. if you put my mom and dad in a blender...you would end up with me!

6 Mar 08

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Don't you ever get tired of eating meats?

charms88 @charms88 (7538) • Philippines 6 Mar 08

I am not a vegetarian nor am I a pure meat lover. What prompted me to start this discussion is about a friend I knew who detested eating vegetables. Every time I mentioned greens, he will go all yucky to me.:P I kept wondering...

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shuchikalra I would get really sick and bloated if I had to meat continuously for days! my systen needs its "detox" periods when I just go on fresh fruits and veggies. those days I make up for the protein intake by eating eggs and pulses.

6 Mar 08

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How important is religion to human existance?

shuchikalra @shuchikalra (30) • India 6 Mar 08

born in India to a Hindu family, I really dont see the point of having a religion in the first place. any sermons or blah blah I hear, seems absolutely bull-crap to me. If I had it my way, I would wipe the whole concept of...

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Someone please tell me what's the point?

filmbuff @filmbuff (2909) • United States 5 Mar 08

I have been depressed for a long time. Lately it has gotten much worse. I look at my life and see nothing but wasted oppertunities and mistakes I have made. Hindsight is 20/20 but still... Nothing has been accomplished with...

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shuchikalra hey!dont take it so hard on yourself. also, dont wait for things to happen..go out and get them. stop thinking about the past- all of us make mistakes and lose opportunities. buy if we sit down to weep over them, we lose whatever is ahead of us. break yourself...

6 Mar 08

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Why don't women like good men?

shamsta19 @shamsta19 (3224) • United States 4 Mar 08

Why is it these women out here have all these crazy stories about crazy exes, fights, stabbings, etc. and when they find a good one they treat them like crap? I've gone out of the way for my women and I never find that "good...

love notes

why women hate good men

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shuchikalra well, to me your dilemma seems a bit amusing but on the other hand when you are at the recieving end, it might not be all that funny. Women are instinctively attracted to "alpha males"- the ones who reek of testosterone overdose and fight for practically...

5 Mar 08

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what is the benifit of marriage?

syedfayazs @syedfayazs (71) • India 5 Mar 08

can i know what is the benefit of marriage

binefit

marriage

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shuchikalra nothing except companionship (assuming you marry a person you love). On the pettier side of it you have someone to share household chores, go out with you on dates, share your bills, entertain you when you are bored and just be around in general!

5 Mar 08

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