siomaiii

@siomaiii (238)

Philippines • Age 41

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OMG! This month : MY SPENDING>MY INCOME!!!!!!!

sophisticated_boy @sophisticated_boy (1457) • Indonesia 9 Jul 09

Gosh, I really having trouble this month. My salary comes every 15, and right now I almost broke. I am just scared checking my balance in all my bank accounts cause it is nearly zero. I was tempted by all those discounts offered...

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siomaiii Base on your story, you are living a work-earn-spend cycle. And it is not healthy, you don't have any savings. What if you will get sick or an emergency happened, what will you do? Remember the story of the ants, they save food for the rainy days. Spend your...

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Asking for Advice from Older Members: "Things A 20-Year Old Should Know"

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 30 Mar 09

I have just turned 22 last August 2008 and I have felt that I still need some more life lessons and I don't think I know anyone in real life to teach me. Some people would say: "Just let 'experience' teach you..." but that's not...

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member advice

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siomaiii Advice?! Whatever happens in your life, always think that it is for your own advantage and benefit. Good things make you realize that you are blessed and you will give more value to the things that you already have. Not so good things, you will know yourself...

31 Mar 09

Second chance for love is a risk of hurting your self for the 2nd time around

gyouswe911 @gyouswe911 (273) • Philippines 31 Mar 09

I don;t know... I mean if its over then its over. 2nd chance if for the weak. Thoughts?

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siomaiii Everybody deserves a second chance. Just make sure he/she is worth your love. It is a risk, but you'll never know if you won't give it a try. In my opinion, it is better to get hurt trying than never tried at all. What if it will work the second time around?...

31 Mar 09

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Who do you think are the politicians who's worth voting for president?

gyouswe911 @gyouswe911 (273) • Philippines 31 Mar 09

After 6 months will be voting for the president and who do you think is worthy of voting?

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siomaiii I'm voting for Chiz Escudero!

31 Mar 09

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Relationship chain by PROMISES

Cellyne @Cellyne (41) • Philippines 31 Mar 09

it is still right to hold a relationship if you both knew that what keeps holding you is only the promises you made for each other?. I love my boyfriend though i knew that he keeps holding me because he promise not to leave me...

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siomaiii I admire you for accepting the reality that your boyfriend is not in love with you. You are not living in denial. Instead of breaking up with him, talk to him first. What are his plans for your relationship? Is he holding on to you just because he made a...

31 Mar 09

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Trust does not need any condition

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 31 Mar 09

Hello, everyone! Hope you have a good weekend! Just got back from my class, it's training class, i called it "self-improvement". This is a great class, i learn one thing" trust does not need any condition"! Most of the time in...

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siomaiii Thanks for sharing! Ideally, trust does not need any condition. But nowadays, it is hard to give your trust. A lot of people are deceptive to the point of taking advantage to other people's vulnerability. A piece of advice, be careful on whom you give your...

31 Mar 09

Can you solve this puzzle

deepika201 @deepika201 (268) • India 30 Mar 09

Pure logic... (Harvard test) If: 1 = 5 2 = 25 3 = 325 4 = 4325 5 = ? please friends answer and wait for the correct answer on 4th april.....

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siomaiii the answer is 14325! 1=5 right!

31 Mar 09

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For the ladies, which do you prefer: Ruggedly Handsome or Squeaky Clean?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 30 Mar 09

It's a pretty shallow question actually. I think most women have a crush on or fall for the rugged type (well, most girls I know). I am the squeaky clean type, almost anti-septic, but I do have a goatee (I feel so pathetic...

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siomaiii Hmm, somewhere in between. Laughing out loud! He doesn't have to squeaky clean, being neat is fine with me. As long as he is aware of his hygiene. As the saying goes, everything should start within yourself. How can you take care of other people if you can't...

31 Mar 09

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On life in general: Is planning ahead better than taking risks?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 31 Mar 09

I admire those people who are very happy-go-lucky. They take whatever life gives them and make use of it to the best of their ability. Me, I make careful plans first before I can even enjoy life as it is. I may not be as wild and...

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siomaiii Nice topic! I plan ahead of the things or situations that are within my control. But with those things that are beyond my control, let go of it and let God. Just be ready for everything that will happen. Widen you understanding about everything and learn the...

31 Mar 09

if you friend has a better job than you, would you jealous?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 30 Mar 09

If your friends have a better job than you, for instance, better income, better work environment, and better benefits, would you be jealous? Would you thought to yourself, you are such incompetent person, who fail to find a decent...

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siomaiii I will be happy for her/him. He/she works hard for it and deserves it. I will look up to him/her and make him/her as my inspiration that nothing is impossible in this life as long as you know what you want and you know how to have it. We all have different...

31 Mar 09

am i being selfish if i don't say how i feel?

jane9147 @jane9147 (252) • Philippines 31 Mar 09

i don't know. my brother and i had a fight. it's a silent type though. we didn't talk to each other. then, i couldn't contain my anger anymore 'cause he said things like 'F.U all' and 'what a useless person are you'. i was...

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siomaiii It is really hard having a dispute with a family member. I suggest that you'll have a heart to heart with your brother. Make a list of all the things you want to discuss with him. In that way, you won't be missing out important details. But please be calm....

31 Mar 09

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driving

timhinyy @timhinyy (1653) • United States 25 Feb 09

why is it that people are always in such a hurry when they are out driving i dont know how many times some almost caused an accident today because they were either going too fast or waited till the last minute to pull out or they...

driving

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siomaiii I think, some people nowadays are very impatient because almost everything is instant. But they have to instil in their minds that safety should be the priority when it comes to driving. It is because people's lives are at stake.

25 Feb 09

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What song describes you best at the moment?

carrine @carrine (2743) • Philippines 25 Feb 09

the songs that fits to me at this very moment is HAPPY, and TORN *laughs whats yours?

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siomaiii Mine is "Way Back Into Love". Laughing out loud! It is because, I talked to a guy friend last night over the phone and he asked me to sing that song.

25 Feb 09

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Are Boys allowed to Cry?

luckydolphin98 @luckydolphin98 (168) • Australia 25 Feb 09

What is your opinion on this? A few parents I know shout, tease or punish their boys if they are so much as wanting to cry ... It seems that some parents still believe the old saying "boys should be tough, boys dont cry" etc.. But...

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siomaiii Boys are human too, they have emotions. Let them cry, there is nothing wrong about that. We cry for many reasons. And it helps ease us. Crying is not a sign of weakness. It just shows that we are being true to ourselves and to our emotions. But please, don't...

25 Feb 09

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Dandruff

hershiez @hershiez (464) 23 Feb 09

Hi and hello! ^_^ My boyfriend is having a problem with his dandruff and it really disturbs him because his head itches a lot. Hahaha..^_^ I suggested him to use anti-dandruff shampoos and wash his scalp properly. ^_^ Is there any...

dandruff

itchy

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siomaiii Hi there! I suggest he should try Nizoral Anti-Dandruff Shampoo. Although it is quite expensive but it is really effective. Just follow the directions indicated on how often he should use it. It worked for me!

25 Feb 09

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Have you been inlove to a textmate?

doncruise21 @doncruise21 (394) • Philippines 24 Feb 09

Before, i don't believe to get in-love with a textmate because its just for fun,,,but recently, I feel in-love with this girl and my day is unhappy if i haven't receive a text from her lol. So now, i can't blame other people...

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siomaiii I think it is not love. I think people are just being used to receive and send text messages. It is more of a habit. So you feel sad if you don't receive a message from your textmate. So just be careful in evaluating your feelings. It is not easy to fall in...

24 Feb 09

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High School Friends

me @dfollin (27160) • United States 24 Feb 09

I was just informed that there is going to be a high school alumni next month.If I went I seriously doubt that I would see anyone that I know.They have all mostly moved away from here or they just don't care about seeing their...

friends

parties

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siomaiii Reunion! I like reunion but sad to say I haven't attended a reunion yet. It is because of my schedule. But if ever there will be a reunion again, I'll make sure that I will attend. I'm excited to see my classmates and to know what they are up to. It feels...

24 Feb 09

Turn-Offs! : What are your major turn offs?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 22 Feb 09

What turns you off? Do you have something that you truly despise than regardless how cute a guy or a girl is, when she/he does that, you're totally turned off and there's no going back? The thought came upon me when a good...

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siomaiii My major turn-off is when a guy just talks about himself. He talks as if he knows everything. He is not sensitive to the needs and interest of others. It is quite irritating that way.

24 Feb 09

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When you have no feeling about your boyfriend,what will you do?

EMMA221 @EMMA221 (27) • China 23 Feb 09

Hi mylotter.When you have no feeling about your boyfriend,what will you do? My answer is comunicate with him and then find the problem that exist between us.Just like now, i have no feeling about my boyfriend,eventhough i do not...

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siomaiii I've been in that situation. Take time to evaluate your feelings. It is a decision that will change your life and your boyfriend's life. And if ever you realized that you don't have feelings for him then talk to him personally. Let him know that you don't love...

24 Feb 09

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Ways to shake off bad feelings

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 23 Feb 09

Could you please add some tips to shake off bad feelings? Here are what i have thought of, - Change for a new hairstyle, put on clothing you like, to show a better yourself, - Spray some of your favorable cosmetics, or...

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siomaiii If you feel bad then look your best. Aside from that, do something worthwhile. It will help you realize back your worth. You are great and exceptional! Goodbye negative feelings!

23 Feb 09

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