soulsearchin

@soulsearchin (81)

Canada • Age 65

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Judge not what your mind is to closed to understand!!

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What is the effect of the things that people say against you?

xal154 @xal154 (42) • Philippines 19 May 09

People have the right to act in any way they want to. I don't have the right to judge whether their behavior is acceptable or not. They have to bear the responsibility for their own actions and so do I. By feeling sorry for myself...

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soulsearchin Your welcome, its short and sweet but it does the trick even though our "smarts" tell us we are better than those who choose to insult us its human nature to defend ourselves against these sad people even though we know we dont have to so "block and delete"...

24 May 09

Why are you still single right now?

mr_smile @mr_smile (33) • Philippines 21 May 09

Post in you comments and tell us why? :)

single

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soulsearchin I have bee happily single for the last 6 years since the death of my soulmate. I am devoting myself to my youngest of 3 daughters as the elder 2 have moved out and have lives of thier own my baby is 18 and getting ready to leave the nest too soon and when she...

22 May 09

make friend with you

sxllovesky @sxllovesky (18) • China 21 May 09

I am a chinese girl, I majored in psychology, I like to read some books about psychology. If you like psychology too, we can express our opinion in this forum. my interest is wide, I like sing, dance and play table tennis. I want...

frends

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soulsearchin Hi there and welcome to mylot. There is a large group of very nice people here, they are kind, helpful, non judgemental and awesome to discuss things with. You can add me as a friend and we can chat if you wish I am sure other mylotters will welcome you too...

22 May 09

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Will You Lead The Same Life If Given A second Chance?

aryangentleman @aryangentleman (1122) • India 20 May 09

Well I know its a hypothetical question but some how you gets another chance to restart your life again will you lead the life the same way you have lead so far?To me I could never make up of my mind on this question. Certainly...

rebirth

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soulsearchin Yes I would re live the same life again because the majority of my lifes happiness and purpose is my 3 daughters and though I may fine tune a few things like a better income for them and maybe finishing school I wouldnt change a thing.

20 May 09

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wat life taught me..!!

cutehimani @cutehimani (3) • India 14 May 09

wat made me create this topic was the fact that we tend to take things for granted to a very large extent. we suddenly tend to realise that how wrong we were before. and for this realisation we thank the small lessons we get and...

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soulsearchin I have learned the hard way never to take people you love or are close to for granted, always let them know how you feel and how much they mean to you because tomorrow is not always going to come. Accidents, illness, crimes claim many good people daily, any...

20 May 09

What is the biggest organ in human body?

wangyinfeng @wangyinfeng (75) • China 20 May 09

Anyone know what the biggest organ in human body? Is it brain, legs or heart?

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soulsearchin The biggest organ with in or on the human body is the skin. I couldnt believe it was an organ either lol. I heard the human brain weighs 8 lbs. so it may be next but I am not sure. I have also read the skin is thinest on the eyelids and thickest on the soles...

20 May 09

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What Do you think about dream?

121m4y4nt1 @121m4y4nt1 (133) • Indonesia 20 May 09

I'm so confuse,because in my dream i lose my money,do you know what does it mean?and do you ever have a bad dream and disturb your life when you sleeping? Share with me,thanks for your responses!

bad dream

disturb your sleeping

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soulsearchin I have heard that what you dream if you can remember it is usually the last thing your sub concious mind thinks about just before you enter the dream sleep or REM stage. I have often wondered what my dreams or nightmares meant and I have often been told to...

20 May 09

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What do people do when they are broke?

thedataminer @thedataminer (515) • United States 20 May 09

I don't know about you folks but I was just wondering what do people do when they are broke and have no one to turn to for help? What I mean is they have no one to ask for some money. Like even $5, $10 or $20. They don't have...

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soulsearchin There is alot of places out there that offer beds overnight, showers and a meal, churches and charities offering breakfast, lunch and dinner for singles and familes not just the homeless it for anyone that needs a good meal. Charities that give people...

20 May 09

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are you afraid of the dark?

queennee @queennee (186) • Philippines 20 May 09

when i was a kid,my parents would always tease me that there is a monster or a ghost in the dark,and they would warn us no to go in the dark.i really believed that before and im soo afraid every time the lights is off.latelt i...

afraid

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soulsearchin I was more afraid of what was under my bed and in my closet than the dark but I guess it all went together. If I would wake up in the night having to use the bathroom, I would lay there untill my bladder almost burst because I thought if my feet hit the floor...

20 May 09

keeping the faith-

ladybug565 @ladybug565 (2216) • United States 16 May 09

how do you as a christian keep the faith when everything in your life is falling apart? the last time that my life was this bad I clung to my faith and I prayed and things eventually got better and my faith kept me going. I have...

christian

faith

trust

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soulsearchin It is not at all easy when people I love die and my children have to suffer for things that should not happen and why HE allowed it to happen. The saying "Everything happens for a reason, we are all part of His plan and though the reason may not be known to us...

20 May 09

***Liar liar pants on fire!!!*** Grrrr...

tabsnlos @tabsnlos (587) • United States 18 May 09

One of my husbands old buddies is what you would call a pathological liar who lies about any and everything under the sun. Why?? I don't really know... Maybe he likes making stories up, or the extra attention he might get from...

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soulsearchin Your welcome, I couldnt help myself lol. This guy was one in a million totally ungreatful. Now it seems to run in the family, his sister and my daughter were friends too. She called my daughter day and night with boyfriend problems or some other drama in her...

20 May 09

How honest are you when you post?

rlc456 @rlc456 (415) • United States 25 Apr 08

Sometimes I wonder are we honest when we post, do people really tell the truth? I know I do, I feel this is the place where you can really put your feelings out hear and friends will help. How do you feel are you an honest poster?...

feelings

honest

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soulsearchin I know I am honest in my posting and replies here and online in general. IMO online in forums like this and support groups etc is the ideal place for totaly honesty, no one knows you , and if they judge you for your honest opinion so what, its not like your...

20 May 09

I'm Gutted...

jellymonty @jellymonty (2352) 19 May 09

A couple of years ago I met a guy who was nice and all but I wasnt attracted to him so I decline his request for me to be his girlfriend. We remained good friends and recently he's met another girl. I haven't met her yet and I...

abandoned

feel bad

gutted

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soulsearchin Sadly there is nothing you can do but accept and be happy for him. Is he still spending time with you like before are you still as good of friends? And you are not the only one that should be doing the accepting his new girl needs to accept the fact that his...

19 May 09

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what's the purpose why people keep alive?

Robinson324 @Robinson324 (26) • China 19 May 09

Sometimes i always think what's the purpose why people keep alive.There are lots of pain in our life,you have to work hard to earn adequate money to pay the high living,to buy a apartment, you have to suffer from...

life

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soulsearchin Your very welcome..

19 May 09

God gives bribe?

Frederick42 @Frederick42 (2043) • Canada 3 May 09

If God has said ‘If you believe in me, I will give you a place in heaven’, then it is bribe. He takes worship from us and in return for it, gives us a place in heaven. No worship, no heaven. Just like if my father says ‘You...

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soulsearchin I dont beleive it as a bribe in my opinion it is a reward for doing as God wants us to do. Some say we are children of God so as a parent would reward a child for good behavior he would punish that child for disobeying him. Thats what I believe anyway.

19 May 09

Where do athiests go when they die?

BethTN81 @BethTN81 (564) • United States 5 May 09

Now, Christians have heaven and hell as do other religons, but What do athiests believe happens to them when they die? Seriosuly, I wanna know this. Do they stick around as ghosts and shadow people haning out with Beetlejuice or...

athiests

die

ghosts

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soulsearchin I'm not sure I had a friend that didnt believe in God or Heaven and he told me when people die there is nothing after that its just like going to sleep and not dreaming I am sure everyones had nights like that. So as far as I know that is what they...

19 May 09

Why terrorists choose the path of death???..

shardul_j49 @shardul_j49 (25) • India 13 May 09

Whenever we got to know about any "terrorist" through media sources,we find them highly educated, very talented and familiar with latest technology...having this much of skills a human thinks to reach moon, having name fame and...

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soulsearchin From what I read kids as young as 9 are sent to terror camps and trained to think and act like an evil emotionless being they are brainwashed into the supreme sacrifice for the cause which is evil. Since the time before Christ people have been dying for thier...

19 May 09

How do you know your religion is the right one?

cj5guy @cj5guy (93) • United States 12 May 09

All these religions in the world and everyone seems to think the one they are a part of is the right one. How do you know? I have asked people why and other than "that's what I believe" as an answer, very few have studied all...

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soulsearchin I dont know if my religion is the right one in general but its the right one for me. I am not a "practicing" Catholic though I was raised going to church every Sunday I dont anymore. But I do pray everynight, I do believe in God and I do my best to be a good...

19 May 09

define

ajaygupta @ajaygupta (168) • India 18 Oct 08

what or who do u think is the best enemy of u?

define

identify

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soulsearchin Well I dont have any enemies myself but any person male or female, adult or teen that hurts or attempts to hurt any of my daughters or my lil grandaughter they will become instant enemies and thier nightmares will just be beginning. Other than that I get along...

19 May 09