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spamind @spamind (70) • China 28 Nov 11

My friend, a female, asked me questions that her boyfriend usually call her sweat hear, cute cat, honey, and one when they are takling about working and future plan, her boyfriend said she is like an broncho. It really troubled my...

love

relationship

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mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 4 Nov 10

do you agree with money means happy life?Today i saw a film,there is a word impressd me:money means happy.Maybe in mordern society,money is too close to us,and it offers us so many things, can you tell me your ipion about money,do...

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spamind can not agree more. The process to fullfill our goal is happy. Money can not bring happy to us all the time. But money sometimes will save life.

4 Nov 10

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 30 Oct 10

Friendship often require time-consuming process. Not something that is created by abracadabra. It takes time , and togetherness until we later realize to have found a more than friends ... find a friend.

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spamind Hi, gengeni I think it is possible to find friends in foreign countries. And there will have many. Sometimes, we may met the stranger who have same opinion on things. In this case, it is easy for us to become friends. The difficulty to make friends in...

30 Oct 10

Malou_pajo @Malou_pajo (30) • Philippines 1 Oct 10

Love is like a seaweed;even if you have pushed it away, you will not prevent it from coming back.

love

pains

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spamind True love is ideal, maybe. The procedure for waiting and searching is pain. I'm not the lucky one who has found it. What do you think your true love should be?

7 Oct 10

legspinismylife2 @legspinismylife2 (181) • India 7 Oct 10

i know this seems like a ridiculous question but please respond i know you might tell you are an optimist just to show that you are happy.but i want an honest response. Come out and tell and cure your problem If you are a...

optimism

pessimism

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spamind Both, For the most things, I may be a optimist. But I get used to picture out the worst situation for the things in the future and try to get the better result by my effort before the worst time come. The attitude will help me to concentrate on my endeavour...

7 Oct 10

sender621 @sender621 (14894) • United States 12 Jun 10

I have often wondered when i look up into the sky. i try to see beyond stars, galaxies and time. We like to think that we know everything there is to know abour the world we all live in. But are there still undiscovered secrets...

answers

secrets

universe

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spamind I do believe there are many secrets in the universe on our planet. The experience to stare at an ant or enjoy the caress of breeze will recall me the feeling of human beings' tiny. There must have many things we do not know. How wonderfull the world is !

12 Jun 10

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Always smiling @allknowing (130067) • India 12 Jun 10

Unannounced thunder and lightning has now become a daily feature it seems. And when this happens it always results in destruction and even lives are lost. It was never like this say a few years ago. One lives in constant fear. If...

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spamind Maybe the knowledge of thunder and lighning can release the fearing. I remembered that the program of National geography has introducted the forming,and processing of thunder and lighting. There are suggestions how to decreas the damage caused by them. And...

12 Jun 10

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 8 Apr 10

I have noticed that most people here rate people negatively if the person doesn't agree with them. It's truly disappointing to know that we're all in this discussion yet we can't help but become frustrated or insulted when someone...

negative

rating

star rating

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spamind Negative person is someone who may transfer his or her negative attitude or mood to others,I think. I may meet one. (Just one,hope no more)varication must be exsit between two human beings,even the twins. The negative person I met just always complaine the...

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Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 8 Apr 10

I read an article last week,its argument is that it's vain that if ur hobbies have no business with the work field u engage in though they bring u great knowledge ,also u start to pick a hobby late in rest of ur life,coz u donnt...

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spamind Hi, mac_fish. Hobby is hobby,I think. Just follow our heart. When one do interested in something and keep learning or enjoying it,the question of whether the hobby related with one's work is not important, maybe. For those who can do what they like and...

8 Apr 10

NoSides @NoSides (66) • Indonesia 3 Feb 10

People learn with different kind of ways. Some people finds it easier to learn by listening. Some people prefer to study by looking at things. Some other people, can understand stuffs easily when they do and experiment. There are...

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spamind A audio-visual-kinetic learner,I think, I am. I've get used to listen to a fixed radio program to learn language and like to go through technology web for news and prefer to experience the new things which I've heard about but never touched in the real...

8 Feb 10

thebestmom @thebestmom (1104) • Philippines 8 Feb 10

what is more important to you, to be a very wealthy man where you can buy all the things you want in life but not happy with your family, or no money but ha a very happy family?

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spamind money can't bring happy to me. My home financial background is not enviable.I felt so happy when the first time I brought a mp3 player with my part-time job wage in the university. And I miss the feeling even through I can buy laptop easily. I also brought...

8 Feb 10

jhamhel @jhamhel (3) • Philippines 3 Oct 09

Everytime our friends have a get together the subject on boyfriend thing always comes out and they keep questioning why I don't engage into a relationship. I am one of those "no-boyfriend-since-birth" ladies and I am okay with it...

boyfriend

nbsb

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spamind welcome to mylot jhamhel. No worry.Maybe the one makes your heart beat fast has not appear yet. Even your Mr. right is stay with you, it is impossible to be always happy. I'm enjoy my single time now. Coz I know that there will have quarrels with BF and...

23 Oct 09

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jhamhel @jhamhel (3) • Philippines 3 Oct 09

Everytime our friends have a get together the subject on boyfriend thing always comes out and they keep questioning why I don't engage into a relationship. I am one of those "no-boyfriend-since-birth" ladies and I am okay with it...

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spamind welcome to mylot, jhamhel. Do not worry.Maybe the one makes you heart beat fast has not appear yet. Even your Mr. Right is stay with you,it is impossible to be happy every second. I'm enjoy my single time now. Coz I know that quarrels with BF and...

23 Oct 09

margreteden @margreteden (13) • United States 8 Oct 09

I just turned 50 years old this past summer and have never been married. I would like to know just who, if anybody, is like me. I am female, although that does not matter to me. I just rarely meet others who are my age and never...

fifty

never married

single

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spamind I can't agree more. To run our own life positively and be happy everyday! Cheers :)

22 Oct 09

hypum356 @hypum356 (42) • China 20 Oct 09

Hi my friends, have you ever got experience like this, you lent some money to your friends, but he or she forgot about this whole thing after many days and you feel shy or embarrassed to ask for it?

lend money get repaid

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spamind I've met the case and asked my friend directly to pay meals for me and remind he or she that they need not to return my money back.Usually it works. They will soon give my money back.

21 Oct 09

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sanchet @sanchet (110) • India 20 Oct 09

Ok here are a few options for you: 1. No. 2. Yes, Definitely. 3. I would like to think so, but you never know!!! 4. Its me they shouldn't trust ... haha!! Try to be as descriptive as possible.

friends

trust

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spamind some are worth and can be trusted definitely. some are not. hope all of us can have friends who will listen to our complaints and share our happiness.

20 Oct 09

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 20 Oct 09

or you are extremely good in controlling your emotions. It happens sometimes when I think of funny experiences or jokes that a friend recently cracked that I laugh not realizing I am in public place. I don't feel bad after that...

laughing alone

laughter

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spamind It's ok.I myself and my friends will smile or laugh without realizing it in the public place when some funny expreience suddenly appeared.Every little detail in our life is worth to be appreciated.Sometimes,when I'm in blue,recall the funny experiences help me...

20 Oct 09

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spamind @spamind (70) • China 10 Sep 09

Hi friends, if your boss ask you what's your plan for your future directly,what will you say to him/her? Last week my boss asked me the question when we were just talking about abook in the rest time. It is too suddenly that I...

questions from boss

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spamind Wow,Shebang,you really say it to your boss?

13 Sep 09

spamind @spamind (70) • China 10 Sep 09

Hi friends, if your boss ask you what's your plan for your future directly,what will you say to him/her? Last week my boss asked me the question when we were just talking about abook in the rest time. It is too suddenly that I...

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spamind Thank you so much, Lynnemg. I feel better after read your response.Or I'm still worring about my answer.

13 Sep 09

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