thekenj

@thekenj (78)

United States • Age 38

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Sould we blame the addicts?

Scarrlet @Scarrlet (168) • Ukraine 26 Jul 08

Drug, alcohol or food addicts: is it their fault, or is it society that made them like that? Do you feel guilty when people you know become addicts? what are your feelings when you see them on the street? I always feel sorry for...

addiction

attitude

help

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thekenj I truly believe that addiction comes from people lacking very important knowledge of themselves. Self love is a very, very noncomparable issue. You have to have self love in order to take care of YOU, as well as, demand respect from others. I do tend to feel...

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Now I know why I don't like pearls......

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 19 Jul 08

I have never been one to like pearls. I only have one piece that has pearls in it and it is a gold rope bracelet with pearls between the twisted gold. Well today I learned that when cultivating pearls in the new shapes that are...

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thekenj That is some deep information. I never knew the process of how pearls were made, but I do think that is a cruel method to do it.

19 Jul 08

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New addition to the family

crazy_ol_lady @crazy_ol_lady (1014) • United States 18 Jul 08

My daughter just had a C-section on Thursday. She had a baby boy who weighed in a 8lbs. 4 oz. and was 20 1/2 inches long. Mom had minor complications, but is recuperating well. Dad is very tired, and does not like to leave Mom for...

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thekenj I don't think there is anything to worry about especially if she seems to be so excited an accepting. I'm sure she'll be fine with him in her life. As far as the topic on a new addition to the family being a burden on an so far only child. That's up to the...

19 Jul 08

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What is your favorite pasta dish?

TessWhite @TessWhite (3146) • United States 19 Jul 08

My guy is Italian, so needless to say we eat alot of pasta. My favorite is a recipe he found in Bon Appetite. Its a Tuscan Ragu, where you simmer the sauce for hours. Its made with Italian sausage, carrots, celery, onions, garlic...

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thekenj My favorite pasta dishes are probably spaghetti and lasagna.

19 Jul 08

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ice cream

Talal159 @Talal159 (147) • Oman 19 Jul 08

For me I like eating ice cream in summer time. becuase summer seasion is very hot here. and ice crean is very cold. so it make me feel cool a little bit. so do you like to have ice cream in winter. for me I do not like in winter...

ice cream

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thekenj I like eating ice cream no matter what the season.

19 Jul 08

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Love, trust and understanding

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 19 Jul 08

This three things are the basic foundation of relationship.Do you agree?

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thekenj I totally believe that these are the basic foundations of a positive relationship. Without these simple, yet complex things, no relationship can last too long.

19 Jul 08

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do you think rap music is bad for young people?

nataliemurie @nataliemurie (96) 11 Mar 08

personally I don't. I've listened to rap music since i was very young & it has not made me a violant person as people expect. please tell me what you think.

life

music

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thekenj I agree with you and I fall into the same category. My favorite rapper is Tupac. And that's been ever since I've started listening to rap when I was little. I think if you take the music too literal you'll get caught up in all the hype and feel like you need...

19 Jul 08

Suicidal...Girlfriend!

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

Hi guyz..what will you do if your girlfriend who always feel that she's not beautiful?..to the point that she always tell you that she want to commit suicide..that she wanna die because she's ugly!..i mean urghh..as if she would...

suicide

ugly

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thekenj I would definitely be trying to understand where this depression is coming from. It's very important to closely monitor a suicidal person. And every threat must be taken seriously. As someone very close to the depressed you have to be sure to keep her morale...

4 Jul 08

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If you are Married and Your Co-Worker is Too Friendly that...

Muelitz @Muelitz (1592) • Canada 4 Jul 08

some of your colleagues are thinking maybe there is something going on between the two of you but there is really none. What would you do? Would you avoid the person? Would do anything to avoid this situation or just ignore it...

friends

rumor

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thekenj I definitely wouldn't care what everybody else was thinking. But it's very important that you and this person be on the same page of knowing that nothing is going on between the two of you. I would make sure that I verbally express this in a very serious (not...

4 Jul 08

Your Daughter Is Pregnant, Would You Push Her.....

eihdra @eihdra (3115) • Philippines 28 May 08

To Marry Her Boyfriend??? Have an Abortion?? You found out that your daughter is 2 months pregnant. She's scared to tell you because she doesn't know what you will say and do..She's still a minor, so you have decisions to...

teenage pregnancy

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thekenj I think marriage and having a baby prior to marriage is not a good recipe. Getting married shouldn't come from having a child out of wedlock. Marriage will then seem expected and lack a few of it's key elements for the bride and groom. I don't believe in...

4 Jul 08

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How Do You Feel About Teens Wanting To Get Pregnant?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 3 Jul 08

I started watching the "Baby Borrowers" and I am fascinated by this show. It really shows the reality of what it's like to raise a child. This comes on the heels of a story that teen pregnancy is one the rise and that some teenage...

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thekenj Umm... this may sound a little strange but I often think ahead for situations like this one that you've posted. In the event that your child be it a daughter or son of yours should have a child on the way. I feel that you should clearly explain to your child...

4 Jul 08

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woman

atyie89 @atyie89 (1) • Iran 4 Jul 08

i am a woman and it's agood thing in my life becuase i'm going to be a mother .

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thekenj Congratulations on being a new mommy. Just remember that being someone's mom is a huge responsibility and an even greater blessing that you've been given this opportunity. Best of luck to you.

4 Jul 08

My sister is 18 with a 4 month old and thinks she might be pregnant!!!

meganparsons_4 @meganparsons_4 (97) • United States 30 Jun 08

My younger sister just turned 18 in May. She graduated high school when at semester, and had a baby in Feb. She has been really sick the last week and thinks she might be pregnant. I am a mother of two. One is four years old...

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thekenj I think the best advice for a mother-to-be that may feel that she's not in the best position is sometimes nothing at all. Just let your sister know that she's beautiful for agreeing to have her children no matter how many she may have. But also be realistic...

4 Jul 08

Do these moms need to be taught about parenting? I think so!

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 3 Mar 08

I can't believe two mothers would act this way at a childrens party at a Chuck E Cheese's but as they say "it takes all kinds"....The mother of a 9 year old boy started a fight with the mother of a boy she said was "hogging" an...

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thekenj I know exactly what you mean and I've been asking myself that lately as well. My thing is that I think my child is being raised to be too friendly. Why is it that parents don't teach their kids how to share?

4 Jul 08

Have you ever done this?

lilybug @lilybug (21107) • United States 4 Jul 08

My son and I ran to the store a little bit ago to pick up a few things for dinner. We picked up a small container of strawberry ice cream and we ate it in the car on the way home. I have a box of plastic spoons in the glove box...

ice cream

shopping

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thekenj I had ice cream just last week, but it was those Dibs things. They were pretty good. So, no spoon was needed for them just like the commercial illustrates.

4 Jul 08

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Which is your favorite fruit???

joysebastian1985 @joysebastian1985 (25) 2 May 08

I prefer orange....there are a lot of fruits in the world....like...orange,apple,grapes.etc...which is your favorite,,,,fruits is necessary to our health....

apple

fruit

orange

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thekenj My favorite fruit would have to be grapes.

4 Jul 08

Prison Break Season 4

psalm1_3 @psalm1_3 (562) • Philippines 18 Jun 08

Are they gonna have season 4 for prison break? Season 3 was quite hanging. I just saw 13 episodes. Were there really only 13 episodes in the second season? Or maybe i just missed some of them.. (Hope not!)

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thekenj I didn't even get to finish watching season two of Prison Break. :( I hate myself for that. I was really into that.

4 Jul 08

I think this is the best movie ever. Who agrees with me?

truartiss @truartiss (386) • United States 20 Jul 07

Man this movie was the shyt for reel. I don't know not one person who said otherwise after seeing it.

stomp the yard

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thekenj I've never seen this movie before, but I wanted to.

3 Jul 08