Toni

@toniganzon (79253)

Philippines

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Discussions (1493)

Toni's Discussions

What's happening to these teens?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 6h

It was only recently that a school shooting incident happened in Thailand. A 14-year old gunman who killed himself after what he did. This morning, there'a school shooting incident in my country. Surprisingly, it's in one of the...

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What's a PHILTRUM?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 17 Aug

Didn't know there is such a term for that groove on our upper lip until I came across the word philtrum. Have you heard of it? Here's something funny that we all believed when we were kids. We have this mythical human-like...

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How are you?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 17 Aug

It's commonly taught in non-English speaking countries that the best response to how are you is "I'm fine thank you. And you?" It's something that I don't usually use when a friend asks me that. I usually say I'm ok. However,...

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What do you do when you're too frustrated?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 16 Aug

I become a monster! When I'm frustrated, I get so mad. And then I'd end up crying. I hate the feeling of getting frustrated. Who doesn't? They said writing a journal helps. But I don't want to record any negative feelings...

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Have you ever ruined somebody's life?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 16 Aug

Intentionally or unintentionally? I was told I did. I was graduating in my senior year of high school when I started dating this university guy. He was 18, I was 16. But we dated only once and with a chaperone. We never saw...

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Where will your feet take you next?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 15 Aug

Amber's (@AmbiePam) discussion reminded me of the days I spent under the sun. Laying on that powdery white sand, enjoying the sea breeze and the warmth of the sun! Staring at the window right now, I could see our palm tree...

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How often do people mistake your age?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 15 Aug

It happens quite often to me. When I was in my mid-20s a gay man thought I was just 16. When I was in my late 30s, I was told I looked like I was in my 20s. I am often mistaken for an adult because of my age. But the truth...

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Do you know what a TITTLE is?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 14 Aug

Well I didn't but now I do. It's a new word of the day for me and I find it really interesting. We see a tittle every single day when we mylot or when reading something. A TITTLE is that dot you see on top of letter "I" and...

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And then there was Jay...

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 14 Aug

When I went to Bangkok, my Filipino flatmates, who were like family to me, introduced me to Jay. They were leaving Bkk and they didn't want me to feel alone so they left me to Jay. Jay is another gay friend of mine whom I spent...

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Have you ever had a jet lag?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 13 Aug

Wednesday early morning when my friend finally arrived from France. I told him to take a nap and just relax because he would be going back to work right away the following day. He told me everything was good and he was feeling...

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How's your Thursday?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 13 Aug

Thursday is supposed to be one of the busiest days of the week. Today, however, didn't feel like Thursday at all. I could hardly take a break on a Thursday but I even had the time to browse my phone during the day. I made my...

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A bucket of tears!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 12 Aug

Happy Thursday morning from my side of the world. I wasn't able to sleep much last night. Craig left home around 9pm and Yuki, his favorite fur baby cried a lot. When he saw Craig with his bag she already started crying and...

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He's home...

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 11 Aug

My son is home. Yepeee! But he'll go back to his place again tonight. I thought he was going to stay until Thursday morning but he said he will drive back to his place Wednesday evening after dinner. My friend is also back...

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How many is too many?

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 10 Aug

A friend of mine married a man when she got pregnant and later on separated because she found out he was gay. She vowed never to have a Filipino guy ever. So her boyfriends were mostly South Koreans or Chinese. These Asian guys...

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Just like the movies!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 10 Aug

Mark is another gay friend of mine with a very interesting life story. He's adopted. He was told that his biological father was an Englishman and biological mom a Filipino. Thank goodness for Facebook, he later on learned his...

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Spent time with the kids!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 9 Aug

I had dinner with my son, nephews and nieces last not. Well, they're no longer kids anymore but I always call them kids. They're like my kids. And my son is like an older brother to them. I like spending my time with them than...

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I wasn't imagining it!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 8 Aug

I thought I heard a tornado pass by our house last night. It was quick but it was scary. For one moment there, i thought it was gonna damage the roof because of the loud noise. My fur babies started barking loudly and then it...

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Fly paper isn't attracting the flies!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 8 Aug

I came home early today and what greeted me? About 6 flies hovering over the dining table and that just annoyed me. Searched for any fly paper in the house oz we usually kept some and saw one in the kitchen. Placed it where...

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Happy and Gay!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 7 Aug

I love gay people. In all my life stages, there's always been a gay best friend around. From when I was a kid, university days, working days, traveling days. In this photo, the gay man next to me was my best buddy at work. I...

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My first 70km ride!

Toni @toniganzon (79253) • Philippines 7 Aug

Pre-pandemic days we'd usually go for a long ride on our bikes every single weekend. Climbing that hilltop is quite a challenge but it was something we enjoyed doing. My first one was tough though. It was my first 70km ride...

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