vivaciouschic

@vivaciouschic (16)

Philippines • Age 37

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Do you party a lot or are you a home buddy?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 18 Aug 10

Hi guys.., i am the type of person who wants to enjoy life at its best.., in a healthy way.. i don't party at night.., i don't drink alcoholic beverages.., i don't smoke and i don't go to discos.. but i danced a lot at home with...

party

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vivaciouschic I don't like going out that much despite of the dangers I fear outside. I am much enjoyed staying inside our house watching movies, reading books or surfing the net.

19 Aug 10

What do you need to change about yourself?

Tresaqwe @Tresaqwe (376) • United States 18 Aug 10

What do you need to change about yourself? I personally need to change a lot of things about myself. I need to learn how to stop complaining about stupid things and appreciate the good life that I do have. I need to learn how to...

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vivaciouschic When I think about changing something about myself, I always look at both sides; who will benefit if I change and will it do me any good. Just think that when we decide to change something about ourselves, its because we want to improve ourselves not for...

18 Aug 10

Would you let a friend do this?

zenki08 @zenki08 (700) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

I have a friend who asked me if he could use my credit card to buy something. During the first billing date he was able to pay me but after that no more. He keeps on giving me different alibi and until now no payment from him yet....

debt

getting screwed

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vivaciouschic Money is the number one factor which can ruin a friend relationship. Of course at first you trust your friend but as that friend alibi's that much then your friend has no plans paying back. I believe on the quotation "If there's a will, there's a way" even if...

30 Apr 10

pregnant and separating

researchconsult @researchconsult (37) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

I'm currently 5 months pregnant and going through separation, what can i possibly do to reduce stress? I fear so much for my baby but my husband don't seem to care. I am ready to separate from him but i don't think i can handle...

pregnant

separation

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vivaciouschic Its hard to raise up a child all by yourself. Why won't you talk to your husband and discuss about your children's support from their father. What ever you and your husband are going through, that's nothing to do with your children.

30 Apr 10

How do you control your anger?

verptc @verptc (246) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

Anger is but normal to every one in a certain level of situation. It happens to me sometimes when my wife does not want to listen to what I am saying then burst of anger explode me.But suddenly in few seconds, I contained it by...

anger

control

listen

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vivaciouschic Whenever I'm at my boiling point I went to my pet cat, they are really my outlet of my anger. Call me weird but I do talk to my pet cats. You can feel that theirs an attachment or they can understand what you're feeling. With their looks, you cannot resist but...

30 Apr 10

Is it more difficult to make friends now than when you were younger?

zralte @zralte (4176) • India 28 Apr 10

I have find it quite difficult to make new friends these days. It is hard in my situation. Living in a different place, completely different culture, and also a business and children which demands my time 24/7. In schools and...

friends

making friends

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vivaciouschic As we grow up, we are conscious of making friends who we can mingle and have fun with when we are around them. During our childhood days, we are only concern with who we can play with and don't mind with the attitudes if we can mingle with them.

28 Apr 10

Do you share your sadness with your friend?

sach143_u @sach143_u (859) • India 28 Apr 10

It is very easy for us to share our happiness with all type of friends, but when we come to sad part we won't share all sadness things with all type of friends. So did you share your sadness feelings to your closed friend? if yes...

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vivaciouschic Whenever I am sad, I share this to one of my closest friend who won't judge me but instead he tries to comfort me and look in a positive side. With that, I lessen my anxiety and try to think for other possibilities..

28 Apr 10

Lovers will face so many problems?!?!?!?!

sach143_u @sach143_u (859) • India 27 Apr 10

So many people will get married, may be its a Love marriage or arrange. But Love marriage is very difficult and both girl and boy should face so many problems rather than arrange marriage. Is this true? because i am loving a girl...

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vivaciouschic Having your significant one will always be there through thick and thin. Love will give you strength with all of your problems.

27 Apr 10

will you allow your boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend be friends?

sheng84 @sheng84 (22) • Philippines 11 Nov 09

will you allow your boyfriend and his ex-gf be friends if you know that his ex-gf asked him to come back to her? I trust my boyfriend but i dont trust his ex. His ex asked him to have coffee and somewhat hangout together. When my...

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vivaciouschic If I was in your shoes -Yes, if you trust your boyfriend then let him even if his ex still wants to get back with him, its your boyfriends decision. As for you, you did your part and its his turn to do his part. He knows whats right or wrong especially if he...

26 Apr 10

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The day you said goodbye!

underdogy @underdogy (700) • Thailand 22 Feb 10

Two of my close friends here in Thailand will go back home for good. We just had a small party for them and it's kinda sad actually. I was so touched when they said that it's hard for them to say goodbye but there's no easy way to...

friends

goodbye

party

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vivaciouschic There are no goodbyes when it comes to friendship. These days, we can use email or chatrooms the only difference is you don't see each other face to face like what you used to but that won't hinder the times you've spend together. All it matter is that you...

26 Apr 10

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How to be Good Girlfriend

farashadine @farashadine (29) • Philippines 12 Apr 10

What is the main role of a good girlfriend? I've been in a 7 years relationship before. I thought he was the one whom I can spend the rest of my life. Until time seperated us coz I had to go overseas to fulfill my dreams and at...

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vivaciouschic There are no rules or different treatment even that person came from the other nationality. When it comes being a good girlfriend all you need is trust, understanding and lots and lots of love. Love is not perfect, when we love someone, we accept who they are...

26 Apr 10

What is your favorite animal?

wowee48 @wowee48 (11) • United States 25 Apr 10

I want to know what your favorite animal is! ex. My favorite animal is the Tiger.I love their patterns and colors.It is fun to watch tigers on Television. So tell me what is your favorite animal

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vivaciouschic I love cats. Cats are naturally lovable and playful. Whenever I came home from school,they run and try to grab my feet. They look so adorable. They are also my stress outlook.

26 Apr 10

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Is life worth living?

Lewejsam @Lewejsam (63) • Philippines 26 Apr 10

Life... Why do some people opt to end their lives when others fight with all their strength just to live? Why do others kill people when others do everything they can just to save lives? Is another person worth dying for? How...

life

living

worth

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vivaciouschic Hi! so many questions but I'll do my best to answer them all. *People think that killing themselves is the solution to all problems. Its not, believing in God makes us strong -remember God gives us challenges to make us strong and something to learn from. *...

26 Apr 10

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joint or seperate bank account after marriage?

beautifulBrooke @beautifulBrooke (191) • United States 22 Apr 10

I'm curious to know if you combined bank accounts after marriage? yes or no? And what are your reasons for what you chose?

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vivaciouschic Its okay to have joint bank accounts even after marriage. You can use it for your children's needs or any expenditures which you might both need.

26 Apr 10