worker65

@worker65 (160)

New Zealand • Age 51

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Do you like to have son or doughter?

fitsuresh @fitsuresh (25) • Sri Lanka 7 Mar 09

I believer both mother and father love them children. They look after them children. But when it comes to father, he likes to have daughter. And he loves daughter than son. Mother likes to have son and she loves son than...

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worker65 I don't think it matters when your child is actually born. When I hasd my first child I wanted a girl but when I had a boy instead I didn't care. Now I have one of each and I love them both the same. So does my husband. I think it depends more on personality...

11 Mar 09

Two Extra Kids At Home

sassy28 @sassy28 (834) • United States 5 Mar 09

I just realized I have two extra kids at my house, they are "Not Me" and "I Don't Know." Ask my boys who left the light on, neither or them did it. Must be Not Me and I Don't Now. I tell you these are 2 forgetful kids. Everything...

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worker65 I know exactly what you mean . I apparently have an extra child who comes in and hits my daughter when my son gets annoyed with her!

11 Mar 09

Character names?

sanjanaraman @sanjanaraman (237) • United Arab Emirates 24 Jan 09

I always have trouble giving my characters names. Could someone give me ideas on what I could name my characters. Just a whole bunch of unique names will do. Thanks! Good luck and happy MyLotting!

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worker65 While I understand you wanting to have unique names, I have to say that when I read books I get really annoyed if everyone has weird names. It just doesn't ring true and often giving your characters common names is much better. Depends on your genre of course...

29 Jan 09

Waiting for your husband

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 28 Jan 09

Have you ever felt yourself a little frustrated from waiting for your husband to get ready for a special affair? I know that it seems that we women are the ones that take a while to get ready but sometimes it...

felt

husband

waiting

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worker65 Yes, I always seem to be waiting for my husband to get ready and I do get frustrated , especially since I usaully get myself and my two children ready and still have to wait for him! But that is he he is and I love him anyway!

29 Jan 09

Watching The Sun Come Up, Or Set....

Darkwing @Darkwing (21583) 2 Aug 07

...is something I have always wanted to do with somebody special in my life, but I have never had the opportunity. I often watch the Sun rise from my dining room window when I'm eating my breakfast, and I watch it set in the...

golden edging to clouds

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worker65 Yes, when I first met my husband we stayed up all night talking one night and watched the sun come up together in the morning. We were in the tropics at the time and it was beautiful something I'll always remember. Also I used to work on a dairy farm and...

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Is it right?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 29 May 07

We got a notice in the mail yesterday to inform us that on May 31, a movie will be filmed on our street. I live across the street from a big park. We are asked not to go out of the house on that day after 6pm at night to 2am....

filming a movie

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worker65 They haven't really given you a lot of notice though have they? Its your house so you should be able to come and go when you like, without seeking permiossion from other people, unless they are willing to compensate you in some way.

29 May 07

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parents

joshdale08 @joshdale08 (2320) • Philippines 7 Nov 06

when your parents are really old already, will you opt for a home for the aged or do you think they should stay with you?

growing old

home for the aged

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worker65 I would like to think I would be able to take them in , but I guess it wouyld depend on thier needs. If they needed better care thamn I was qualified to give them then I would look art a home. I would be very careful choosing one though and make sure I...

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Do you think candy cigarettes sets a bad example for kids?

rawpoet @rawpoet (2045) • United States 12 Dec 06

My daughter (12) and I were at the gas station tonight. Inside the store, we saw candy cigarettes. She said, "Mom, that's a bad example for kids." They've been around for years, and I used to eat them when I was a small. Do...

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worker65 I ythink ythey should be taken off the market. We had them when we were kids in NZ but they no longer make them here. I'm surprised they still do insome countries.

13 Dec 06

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Do step Moms love to their step babies???

sweetie88 @sweetie88 (4556) • Pakistan 3 Dec 06

What's urs opinion that do step Moms give same time, importance, love, attention, education etc. to their step-babies which they give to their own babies???????

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worker65 I don't think you can make generalisations - every situation and person is different. Step mothers can love thier stepchildren as much as thier own kids. A lot depends on how much she has to do with them, eg do they live with her, and alos the personality of...

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DO I tell my son about his biological father?

tanyakapler @tanyakapler (146) • United States 1 Dec 06

I got married to a wonderful man last September. He is the greatest thing that has happened to me. I came into the relationship with a three-year-old boy named Jeremiah. Paper work is already in process for Christian to adopt...

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worker65 I think it is important for your son to know. Chances are he will find out one day , and it would be better if he felt that you had been honest with him. I would simply let him know that he has another father , but I don't think you need to tell him why his...

7 Dec 06

STEPMOTHER IS BAD... IS THAT TRUE??

MANTOY79 @MANTOY79 (150) • Malaysia 4 Oct 06

child dont want their father merried againt because children are scare with a bad stepmother.. is that true??

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worker65 Of course kids are freaked out by the idea of stepmothers because every fairytale has a wicked step mother in it. I am one myself and I do a far better job with the lids than thier real mother ever did, and yet if there are any issues the finger is always...

29 Nov 06

Do you think fat people deserve to be laughed at?

ShatterOfDreams @ShatterOfDreams (824) • United States 28 Nov 06

Do they put it on themselves. Or can they really not help it.

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worker65 Why would you laugh at them. Do you laugh at people who are addicted to smoking, or alcohol, or video games or anything else?

29 Nov 06

Do Cellphone truely cause car accidents?

Island_Geko @Island_Geko (3758) • Canada 15 Nov 06

Does driving and talking on the cellphone cause car accident by limiting ones response time?

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worker65 Doing anything that means your mind is on two things at once will increase your chances of having an accident. People become so blase about driving and forget they are in charge of a very heavy , dangerous weapon. I can't belive the number of people who text...

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If somebody close to you has died...

ContentWriter @ContentWriter (954) • South Africa 28 Nov 06

What were the most comforting gestures that others offered? There is a lot of death around my environment his year (close friends) and I am at a loss as to how to be of a comfort to the grieving. How do you offer support in a...

bereavement

comforting the bereaved

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worker65 I think that just being there, and allowing people to talk - if they want to -is the most important thing. Also i think being there long term is important. Often a lot of people will offer support , help etc in the first week or so, but the grieving process...

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Have you ever wanted to be on Jerry Springer?

ContentWriter @ContentWriter (954) • South Africa 29 Nov 06

I can never understand how people can want to go on TV solely for the purpose of humliating themselves and their "loved ones". Have you ever wanted to go on Jerry Springer? Have you ever known anyone who felt it was their...

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worker65 No, I would never wantto go on. What I really don't understand is the people who agree to go on shows like this at the request of someone who wants to "reveal a secret" or similar, without themselves knowing ewhat it is. Talk about setting yourselves up for...

29 Nov 06

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Do you wash your shoes?

snakequeen @snakequeen (1299) • India 4 Jul 08

Am i kidding? But, i have seen people washing their shoes once a month or so! I don't know whether it is okay or not? what's your opinion? Do you wash?

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worker65 Am i kidding? But, i have seen people washing their shoes once a month or so! I don't know whether it is okay or not? what's your opinion? Do you wash?

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How many of u Love your Mother's cooking?

prash2807 @prash2807 (163) • India 24 Nov 06

I do and miss it when I am out of home. What do you guys feel?

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worker65 I think everyone loves their Mums cooking. Even if everyone else makes the same thing I always prefer her version.

26 Nov 06

Being laughed at

LovingIt @LovingIt (5396) • United States 24 Nov 06

When you do something ridiculous, how much does it bother you to have other people notice it and laugh at you?Explain ....

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worker65 Yes, unfortunately I am very self conscious and hate beeing laughed at.

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