xianshuixyz

@xianshuixyz (91)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you have a good handwriting?

happyforever @happyforever (191) • China 1 Jun 09

Hello mylotters, Do you have a good handwriting or not? Is it important to have a good handwriting? In China, there is a saying that we can judge a person by his or her handwriting. It means that your handwriting is a...

handwriting

life

study

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xianshuixyz In order to have a good handwriting, frequently pratices are needed, i always practised it before i entered the senior school, so my hadwriting seemed much better at the period of time, i sedom have some handwriting after this action can be replaced by typing...

2 Jun 09

what do you feel if your "friend" is always trying to appear better than you?

littlemoon @littlemoon (12) • China 20 Apr 09

I think,you will not know someone well until you spent enough time with him or her.I have a friend,who seems to be very kind,considerare,friendly,frank at first,but as time gose on,I found something hiding in her charactor,such as...

what do you feel if your friend is always trying

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xianshuixyz It seems that someone have the intension to do that, honestly to say, the action like that will make anybody else feel unhappy, when my friend doing things like that, i just pretend that he or she is better, but i know the reality is always not the as he or...

22 Apr 09

Do you listen to music while studying?

Flowfire @Flowfire (77) • China 17 Apr 09

I often listen to music while studying. Music can keep me out of the noisy surroundings and help me to concerntrate on books I read, problems I solve. But some of my friends say that their attention will be attracted to the music...

music

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xianshuixyz Me too, but sometimes i will not listen to music while studying if the studying need huge spirit concentration, i have the same opinion that the music sometimes will distract the attention for studying as your friends said.

19 Apr 09

an old lady and a young man

rocketsky @rocketsky (1013) • China 13 Apr 09

today my mother told me an old woman in the town married a young man . she said she con not accept this kind of things , she thinks that it is quite abnormal and worse ,morally unaccepted . I dont knwo what to say ,maybe...

strange

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xianshuixyz I have the same opinion about this thing in most situation, but it seems that everyone has his freedom to choose the life he want even thought the choice seems abnormal in the eyes of others, so i just give my best wish for them.

14 Apr 09

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Have u suffered from 'I need to wake up early but can't get to sleep!' before?

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 11 Apr 09

I used to suffer from that quite a lot. I have always been nocturnal. I prefer sleeping late and waking up late to sleeping early and waking up early. However, there are times when I need to wake up extremely early (ie. 5am). When...

cannot sleep

wake up early

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xianshuixyz It works for me in most times, agreed with you, i think talking pills to help someone to go to sleep seems not so good for the body. Have a nice day.

13 Apr 09

Have u suffered from 'I need to wake up early but can't get to sleep!' before?

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 11 Apr 09

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xianshuixyz Yes, i encounter the problem that you described sometimes. In order to get up early in the next morning, i will go to sleep one hour or more eraly than usual, but i find myself can't get to sleep as soon as i expect, then i just lie on the bed and count the...

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How do you react when a colleague is fired?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 9 Apr 09

One of my colleagues has been fired. He has been a total disaster as a teacher. The kids did not help him much but he was a zero at classroom management. The administrators found him an alternative work. Anyway this guy did not...

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xianshuixyz It seems a embarrassing situation, if i am in this situation like you mentioned, i won't do anything before the guy who are dismissed have say anything, because his/her mood at the situation is hard to confirm and i don't know what the things he/she want to...

11 Apr 09

Do you ever check other members' profiles?

bayernfan @bayernfan (1430) • Canada 28 Mar 09

I know that many members have a limited time to spend on my lot and some would like to devote as much of that time as possible to posting, but do you ever look at another member's profile page? I sometimes check the profile of a...

profiles

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xianshuixyz I soldem check the profile of any member except that the discussion he/she started is really intersting and attact me a lot.

28 Mar 09

Wife swap.....Husband swap? Would you swap for 2 weeks?

moondancer @moondancer (7433) • United States 17 Mar 09

The program on tv called Wife Swap and I've even seen one call Husband Swap, they have taken it to the extreme. They find people that have totally opposite lives. I mean a family of people that don't believe in God or any...

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xianshuixyz I have not seen the program like it yet, the swapping seems interesting and very challenging. But i would never do that if it comes for me in the real situation, i just enjoys the situation in my family now.

18 Mar 09

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Whom you go shopping like to with?Spouse?Friends?or just lonely?

candy811123 @candy811123 (334) • China 17 Mar 09

Do you like go shopping?When you go shopping,whom you like to with?Spouse?your friends?or just go shopping by yourself? I like to go shopping lonely.Because I needn't take care of others and just look what I like and buy what I...

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xianshuixyz I don't go shopping frenquently, i only go when i have to buy something and i would buy things from the web shop more often. I would like to go with my familiar friends or relatives in the shopping process, this is a relax time for us, so we can communicate...

18 Mar 09

What would you do really?

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 16 Mar 09

We've all said it - "I wouldn't kick him/her out of bed" or [insert name of heartthrob]" if s/he turned up on my doorstep I'd be in heaven". But what if they did. There's a knock at the door and standing there is the man or woman...

oh no

phoebe nicholls

reality

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xianshuixyz Honestly to say, i would accept s/he happily, my dream have come true at that moment, why don't i just forget everything and enjoy it.

17 Mar 09

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Suicide...bad or good?

mkeanel01 @mkeanel01 (974) • Philippines 16 Mar 09

I have friends who committed suicide back when we where in high school. But luckily no one of them died because of that because they were prevented by people around them. some of them told me that they dont want to live anymore...

people

suicide

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xianshuixyz In my opinion, suicide is indeed a bad thing, some people just use suicide to escape from this world, but they can't imagine how deep their suicide action would hurt the people around them especially the people who care about them.

17 Mar 09

Do you take the free stuff when you stay at a hotel?

Toofancy @Toofancy (548) • United States 15 Mar 09

When you are ready to check out at a hotel, do you take the complimentary items, such as shampoo, conditioner, shower caps, pens, pads, coffee, sugar, creamer, etc.? I, of course, would never take towels, or anything like that -...

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xianshuixyz No, i won't do that except the things which i must use. Actually i just want to be simple, so i always leave the hotel i live in only with some things that i must take with when i am on my travel.

16 Mar 09

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Do You Sleep W/ The Light On?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 15 Mar 09

Hehe... im sleepy while im typing this discussion. I can sleep with the light on and light off... no prob with me. But most of the time, i will sleep with light off. I can sleep more with light off because there no color white...

light on

sleep

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xianshuixyz No, i would feel a bit uncomfortable and even diffcult to fall in sleep when i sleep while the light on, what's more, leting the light being on while sleeping seems wasting electricity for me, so i just turn off the light when sleeping.

16 Mar 09

What town or city do you live in? how is it?

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 15 Mar 09

Now, i live in davao city, the largest administration city in the world. Hmmm... actually most people live in the central but not in the urban areas... i dont know why this city is very big, because most population is concentrated...

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xianshuixyz I currently live in a city in south Cina, a large city, the population of this city is so huge too. The commerc of this city is flourishing, a lot of stores open for 24 hours. But the life rhythm seems a bit tight, sometimes i would think that life may be more...

15 Mar 09

Do you wear your seatbelt?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 13 Mar 09

It's a law here that you have to wear your seatbelt as it is in most places now. Even though, a lot of people refuse to wear one as they think they may do more harm than good. They'd rather get a ticket than risk not being able to...

law

seatbelt

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xianshuixyz yes, i do. Safty is the first thing, even thought wearing the seatbelt would make me feel a bit uncomfortable, it seems that i have been accustomed to it since i have persist to wear it whenever i drive.

14 Mar 09

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How many hours you sleep normally?

achinthya @achinthya (1216) • India 13 Mar 09

Sleeping for 7-8 hours is a must for adult but nowadays people work so much that they feel that by sleeping so much we are wasting the time. How many hours do you sleep?

sleeping

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xianshuixyz About 7 to 8 hours per day, i would feel tired at day if my sleep time does not reach the amount the night before the day, actually i would sleep more than 8 hours at the weekend. It seems that different people have different need time of sleeping, one of my...

14 Mar 09