xiaoyeye

@xiaoyeye (32)

China • Age 38

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what do you do if you have too many tasks to do in one day?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 16 Oct 12

Have you turned yourself into a superman or superwoman trying to accomplish many tasks in one day? I have because my motto in life is to not turn down any work or not to give "no" for an answer. There are times when I accept...

tasks

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xiaoyeye I also would like to keep myself busy so that I have a sense of achievement.But sometimes my boy friend thinks that i am a little bit self-abused. Just like what you do, I make plan for everything and check it when i finish one of them. However, sometimes i...

16 Oct 12

How Important Is Planning

ARIES1973 @ARIES1973 (11945) • Legaspi, Philippines 7 Oct 12

Part of our goals in life is to become financially stable. However, most of the times we fail to achieve these goals for one reason or another. And one of the main reasons for such failure is due to the absence of a specific plan....

planning

strategy

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xiaoyeye Making plan is important to lead a more efficient life. With a careful plan, I can have my task done one by one without missing one of them and make the most of my time. However, making plan doesn't mean anything if it is not followed carefully.

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Can You Laugh at Yourself?

Marja @buenavida (9984) • Sweden 7 Oct 12

I love to make people laugh! It is incredible how much fun I and my friends have had at my black eye.. Maybe you read about how I got it last week. It is getting better now, but I still go out with sunglasses on and look...

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xiaoyeye I sometimes laugh at myself if I make a silly mistake. But sometimes I laugh at myself just to erase the embarrassing case.

8 Oct 12

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What do you think about a part-time job?

Shanmoweiyun8132 @Shanmoweiyun8132 (48) • China 26 Sep 12

In this term,we have little lessons,I spend much time on Internet which makes me feel bored and tried,I think maybe I need to find a part-time job,not only can I earn some money,but also enrich my after class life. I am not sure...

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xiaoyeye I spent one seventh of my junior year and senior year life in college doing part-time job, teaching English in a training center every Sunday. Some people worried about my school work as what you thought. However, it quickened my life pace and made everything...

27 Sep 12

Too lazy to write?

arielpaige @arielpaige (257) • United States 24 Sep 12

Sometimes I just read the discussions, and think about responding with something, but get too lazy to really say anything. Do any of you ever do that? Sometimes it really gets to me because I know I could be earning with every...

discussions

lazy

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xiaoyeye With various purposes, we are motivated to respond those posts in different degree. The reason why I come here is to know what the people around the world are thinking and talking about and to practice writing as well. Therefore, I am highly motivated. While...

25 Sep 12

mobile phone fear..

chicksdigscars @chicksdigscars (5483) 24 Sep 12

This really shocked me when I read this this morning.. I don’t even know how I stumbled across it! “'Nomophobia' - the fear of being without your mobile - affects 66 per cent of us” Source:...

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xiaoyeye I think it's not a big deal whether with or without a mobile phone as long as I get uesed to it. Once I experienced going out without a moble phone and I felt uncomfortable or even lost at the very beginning, because I worried that I might miss some...

24 Sep 12

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I dont like my office mates..

iamJB7 @iamJB7 (122) • Philippines 22 Sep 12

When I got my first job..I was really excited to meet new friends especially my officemates. I expected that they will be friendly to me. But I was wrong,,I don't feel that I'm welcome to their company..They don't even talk to me....

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xiaoyeye It's lucky to be welcomed heartily by your officemates. However, it's not a big deal if they ignore you at the very beginning. After all you are a fresh guy and so you need to talk with them initiatively. What's more you have to adapt to the environment...

23 Sep 12

best friends are forever?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 13 Sep 12

well I tought so. but sadly I was wrong. we've been friends for over 7 years and I tought our relationship would stay that way. but as we grew we went to different colleges. still I wanted things to be the same between us. I would...

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xiaoyeye I think true friendship, like true love, lasts forever. But the friendship between you two is not that true, at least for her, and it's just the general relationship in a certain case. Your friendship changes as long as the condition is different. Maybe what...

13 Sep 12

Is TV a stress reliever or stress giver?

aubrey @averygirl72 (38803) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

I guess having TV can be both stress giver and stress reliever but which of the 2 is more pronounce? Lately I have skip watching news at night. Though it is good to know the happenings throughout the day, the news are simply...

peaceful life

stress

tv watching

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xiaoyeye I regard TV as a source of information and I can keep in touch with the whole world by watching news. As for other TV programs, I only watch those that i enjoy or from which i can learn something. Therefore I can not say whether it's stress giver or stress...

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i want a brand new start in life

hotsummer @hotsummer (13858) • Philippines 9 Sep 12

that is once again. i have tried a million times to make a brand new start in life. it seems like i hit a bump on the road and was not able to move with my change. so i have decided again to start all over again. it is just...

life

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xiaoyeye I think it's not easy to have a brand new start in life. Rome is not built in a day and so many habits can not be formed in one day, either. Therefore, you'd better make a plan to make those changes happen one by one gradually. For example, you can focus on...

10 Sep 12

How do you cope with death?

jdiltz13 @jdiltz13 (10) • United States 20 Aug 12

Everyone deals with death and it happens everyday. Personally I have lost many relatives. My other died when I was 6 years old. I am now 17 and have coped with it pretty well. My dog just passed away the other night so the subject...

death

loss

relationship

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xiaoyeye It's pretty difficult for me to discuss this issue. My mother committed suicide when I was nine. Since then, I have been frozening her in a hidden part of my heart. Therefore, I would not like to devote much passion to anything so that I would not be too...

9 Sep 12

Feng Jianmei forced abortion in China

freymind @freymind (1351) • Philippines 18 Jun 12

This story is so sad and I feel anger and sadness inside me. We all know that China has a 1 child policy since the 1970's due to the over population in their country. And one of its victim are mothers who are forced to abort their...

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xiaoyeye It's true that there is a family planning policy in China. The policy is strict enough but not as cruel and unhuman as what is mentioned in the accident. The government official in the accident is too extreme to be excused. As report goes, he has been...

18 Jun 12

Do you confirm friend request from a stranger?

IAmNena @IAmNena (178) • Philippines 14 Jun 12

We want to have new friends and meet great people.Facebook is for us to connect with real friends and family,but some facebook users prefer to meet new ones by accepting friend request without any doubts,though Facebook tells us...

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xiaoyeye In China, we use Renren, a social network site just like Facebook. If there is a friend request from someone, I can know how many common friends we have in renren. So confirming or refusing is up to whether we have common friends. If we are related by...

14 Jun 12

Better to know, or better not to know?

Amber @AmbiePam (109686) • United States 11 Jun 12

I was in Branson, Missouri with my family last week, and one of the things we saw was some of the damage left from a tornado they had months ago. I think there were three occasions where my dad would ask an employee of wherever...

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xiaoyeye I live in an inland city so I've never experienced such a situation. But for other similar cases, I'd like to know it and make sure that I can get the information in advance so that I have a sense of security.

11 Jun 12

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What are you doing to be healthier?

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11833) 10 Jun 12

Around a week ago some of you may remember that I decided to make drinking a lot more water a new good habit. I'm happy to say that I'm still at it. It's not quite a habit yet, but I'm quite proud of myself for keeping at it....

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xiaoyeye I moved to a brand new environment with dry air and frequent wind because of my job tansfer last June. Since then, I have tried to drink more water and supplement vatamin.In the morning, I drink a bottle of water before breakfast and have an apple or other...

10 Jun 12

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My ex called several times, but I still not having time to see her

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 31 May 12

For over a year and half, I broke up with my ex, and I think that I am moving on already. Although pain still linger a bit after memorize the past, I knew what is past is already passed. For last 2 months, she called me twice, and...

friend

hanging out

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xiaoyeye As a girl, I don't think it's fair to her.You know what is past has already passed and you are moving on already. However, she still needs time or she still wants to be reunited with you. So she calls you. If you think it's impossible to be together again,...

31 May 12

please help me

april_02 @april_02 (82) • Philippines 29 May 12

I have this colleague and college acquaintance and since the first time I saw him, I knew that I like him. We eventually had the chance to be close to each other. On the third year of our closeness, I expressed my fellings to him,...

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xiaoyeye In my opinion, there is not a clear boundry between love and don't love. On the third year of your closeness, you knew your feeling well and you expressed it to him. However, he might be not sure about his feeling or there was something bothering him. So he...

29 May 12

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i will wait for the sale

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90717) • Philippines 28 May 12

Yesterday , i went to the mall with the intention to scout for some shirts or blouses. I always like it to be shopping alone, because i will have a lot of free time for myself to look and fit those shirts and blouses....

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xiaoyeye Yeah, the saleslady was so nice that she leaked information to you and promised to reserve your size as well. Or you would be stuck in a embarrassed situation"You can't have your cake and eat it too".But if you were not lucky enough to meet such a good person,...

28 May 12

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