xiongyijun

@xiongyijun (171)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 19 years ago

only if the dream is big enough

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After break up, what will you want to say to him/her?

youless @youless (113952) • Guangzhou, China 28 Aug 07

I don't think I will say something because I am unable to say anything. As I want to say is I am still loving you.

break up

say

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xiongyijun thanks!^^

29 Aug 07

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Is there any place on Earth you WILL NOT visit?

ibuemma @ibuemma (2953) • United States 28 Aug 07

Usually the question is where do you want to go? Now, I just wonder if there's any place on earth that no matter what or even if you get paid to visit there you won't even go? Any specific reason why? For me, right now maybe...

place on earth

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xiongyijun maybe yes. if one day his love for me can make me feel confidence and forget where they'd gone to. i always feel jalous about this kind of things when i am not confident enough in front of him.

28 Aug 07

Do you treat people nice just to get the return back?

teddy @m_5ugar (1013) • Malaysia 21 Aug 07

I mean did you do nice things to people so that the people will treat you the same as you did to her or him?

nice

same

treat

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xiongyijun when i treat people nice, i don't mean to get something return. it's just i love them and want them be happy.

27 Aug 07

Do you treat people nice just to get the return back?

teddy @m_5ugar (1013) • Malaysia 21 Aug 07

I mean did you do nice things to people so that the people will treat you the same as you did to her or him?

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xiongyijun i don't mean to do the same things they do to me by saying "keep distance from them and treat them according to the social moral or ritual" . i just want to protect myself from harm by keep a certain distance from them. i would not do bad things to them but be...

27 Aug 07

Do you LAUGH even when you don't understand the JOKE?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 22 Aug 07

Imagine yourself to be sitting in a Movie hall along with some friends( suppose, not so close ones). You are in no mood to watch the movie, you just came over there because you are too sweet a person to say "No" to your friends'...

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xiongyijun but you can not foresee what they would talk about when next time they get together. maybe it would suddenly occure to them. don't you think it is more time wasting to watch it after that than just asking the one sitting beside you?

22 Aug 07

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Do you treat people nice just to get the return back?

teddy @m_5ugar (1013) • Malaysia 21 Aug 07

I mean did you do nice things to people so that the people will treat you the same as you did to her or him?

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xiongyijun a good guy you are. but i can not do this if people are evil to me or to others.

21 Aug 07

Im in love with a married man....

myliezl0903 @myliezl0903 (2726) • Philippines 21 Aug 07

i know its just going to be bloody messy and very painful.it's kinda a dead end relationship but how can i can tell my heart not to fall in love with a guy i've been with for 6 years now.,i know im going to hurt his family but i...

love

relationship

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xiongyijun by the way, it's not " it not easy to stay away that situation" . it's about your will. if you are willing to do so, then you can. let your heart grow stronger and you can make up your mind.

21 Aug 07

She's a cleanliness freak.

imenmatrix @imenmatrix (65) • India 22 Feb 07

Having a cleanliness habit good enough. But i guess we must change according to the situations and surroundings. Her attitude towards a cleaner surrounding is great but i feel that it must not interfere in others feelings about...

cleanliness freak

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xiongyijun sorry, it should be "menace".

21 Aug 07

what is the sweetest thing you bf have done for u?

nikko84111 @nikko84111 (368) • China 14 Aug 07

as title~ i think the sweetest thing he done for me is that one night, when we were not that relationship~ i feel sad because i fail in a very important exam~ and he is be with me~ we are in the seaside all the night~ and...

love sweetest thing

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xiongyijun thanks very much for your donation and i hope your sweetheart had come back now.^^

21 Aug 07

do you have dreams every night?

lifeiselsewhere @lifeiselsewhere (135) • China 19 Aug 07

I don't know if this is a kind of symptom,but i do have clear dreams every night. these dreams are not nightmare,but not good ones either.most of the times they do nothing with the real life,just weird imaginations i can't imagin...

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xiongyijun it's not, actually. only my mum has the same feeling as me and we are not supermen but common men. it's just our sixth sense are stronger than others' and we care for our loved ones so much. have you heard that twins can feel the other one's feeling or...

21 Aug 07

Do You Prefer To Watch a DVD/Video Alone or...

Malyck @Malyck (3425) • Australia 20 Aug 07

with your partner/friends/family? Sometimes I enjoy renting or buying a movie and watching it alone, but I find that it's always nicer to have someone to laugh, cry, joke with, or just your partner to snuggle up close...

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xiongyijun sorry, two mistakes. through----thorough; priciple----principles

21 Aug 07

what is your effecient way of fighting aginst anger?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 14 Aug 07

we live in this world in which we can not escape from anger. what is your efficientt way of fighting aginst anger? share here, and we can learn from each other.^^

anger

effecient way

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xiongyijun hum,it's funny to say i had dreamed that one day i would tell you about my dreams, because i am not a fortune teller or someone like this, and i could not remember all my dreams as well as i can not dream every little tiny thing in my life. if i can, what i am...

20 Aug 07

do you have dreams every night?

lifeiselsewhere @lifeiselsewhere (135) • China 19 Aug 07

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xiongyijun yes, sometimes i was scared if i had bad dreams. especially when i dreamed that there was something wrong with my family members. so i would call back home if i had such dreams. my mother knows this and hers dreams also have meanings.

20 Aug 07

Why can't we collect rain water and send it to places that experience drought?

fidainc @fidainc (410) • Singapore 26 Dec 06

Some places get SO much rain, and others are so dry. Does anyone know why this can't be done?

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xiongyijun by the way, money that used for this project is paid by the government.

18 Aug 07

What can a person do on a Rainy Sunday with a 4 year old?

nikkiwith @nikkiwith (1074) • Australia 18 Aug 07

No car, don't drive, no licence, it's raining, it's Sunday and i have a 4 year old. We are stuck in the house :( It's a small house and she is bored, i am on computer but i can't stay on here because i feel too guilty.

rain

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xiongyijun sorry, it should be stitch. i've made a mistake.^^

18 Aug 07

what if my younger brother is addicted to computer games?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 2 Aug 07

my younger brother is 11 now and he is addicted to computer games. but these games he plays are not the ones in which people play roles or violent or blue. is it harmful for him playing such games? what should i do? or should do...

addicted

computer games

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xiongyijun i really appreciate your suggestion. maybe it is true that almost every teenager boy likes playing computer games. but what i am worring about is there seems nothing else but Tv can arouse his interest. maybe you are right, i shuold just wait and he will grow...

13 Aug 07

Judging the wife on the physical looks of her husband.

juliefaye @juliefaye (1214) • Philippines 11 Mar 07

My boss once asked me a favor to sew buttons of his poloshirt. My officemates whispers.. what is his wife doing? why he have to ask somebody to do it for him? I remember that incident that when i got married, i see to it that my...

husband

relationship

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xiongyijun thank you so much!^^

12 Aug 07

You want to talk with your mother or father?

free_forward @free_forward (199) • China 4 Aug 07

As to me,I'd rather have a slow discussion with my mama.Because we are more common in many things than with papa.What do you think ? Give me your idea ,maybe we should have been good friends.

talk with your mother or father

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xiongyijun that's the point^^

6 Aug 07

who do you want to see most when there is only one minute left for you?

xiongyijun @xiongyijun (171) • China 5 Aug 07

we have lover,mon, dad, brothers, sisters, grandparents, friends...they are all important for us. but if there is only one minute left, whom will you devote this little minute to?

one minute

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xiongyijun you are so clear how this problem came up and why you haven't solve it. then why not take the initiate to step closer to her? you know there would be one to do it first. why wait for the time comes when you have only one minute? there are plent of minutes for...

5 Aug 07