angrybarcode

@angrybarcode (16)

United States • Age 53

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Should You Ever Change for a Man?

elayneonanad @elayneonanad (10) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

you've met the most wonderful man.In fact he'll be the perfect man you wanted to have.But should you ever change for him,what if he told to leave your work and what if he told you to loose weight.But i think it's okay to change...

relationships

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angrybarcode I think that if the changes bring you closer to who YOU want to be and betters you as a person then there's no harm in changing. But to change for someone else just because they want you to? If you have a bad temper and they ask you to take some anger...

22 Mar 07

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he says i'm beautiful and i please him, but why is still looking at other women

MABEL24 @MABEL24 (63) 16 Mar 07

MY HUSBAND WILL NOT GEY TIRED TO TELL ME HOW GOOD I LOOK SOMETIMES AND HOW HAPPY HE IS WITH ME, AND HOW I PLEASE HIM, WITH ME HE HAS IT ALL, HE DONT NEED TO LOOK FOR NOTHING ELSE BUT YET, WHEN WE GO SOMEWHERE, AN AVERAGE GIRL WILL...

girls

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angrybarcode Really, if you're pretty sure he'd flirt with a girl in front of you, maybe you should really take a good look at your relationship. I couldn't imagine letting anyone treat me like that. I'm sure he must have some good qualities, but why do you think he's so...

22 Mar 07

I am jealous...

wishiel @wishiel (19) • Philippines 19 Mar 07

My husband is a teacher just like me, everytime I saw his students especially girls looking at him with desires (huh!) I felt something bad inside my heart. Perhaps I am jealous. My husband just ignore those students but still I...

jealous teacher

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angrybarcode Have you thought about why you are jealous? Is it just a natural response that you can work at channeling in a positive way? Is it fear that your husband will have an affair? Do you just not trust other women (especially girls who are younger than you?) Are...

22 Mar 07

do we love only to get hurt?

bernice1187 @bernice1187 (2) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

i am in the minimal level of heartbreaking 1 month ago i decided to let go. for i know that i couldn't work things out with him. we are miles apart and since he left our country i had never seen him again. i showed him how much...

girlfriend

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angrybarcode When you're young you tend to believe that love is this beautiful, pure thing that only good can come out of. I think naive romance is cute, but I think the most romantic notion is knowing exactly what you're getting into (the possibility of heartbreak and...

22 Mar 07

Persians looked so bad in 300

foxybrown @foxybrown (16) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

i am so happy to see this movie. i now appreciate more the movies of the same kind. but i heard that Persians were not pleased of this movie. they said 300 has given the viewers bad bad impression about them. tsk tsk... but that...

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angrybarcode Well, I'm sure plenty of Germans don't appreciate being depicted as Nazi's, Italians that don't like to be associated with the mafia, and so on. The fact is that this is a historic fantasy piece. Fantasy elements were added but it's based on the Battle of...

22 Mar 07

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My Dad is retiring...he still wants to work?!

desiree0627 @desiree0627 (18) • Philippines 22 Mar 07

Iam greatfull and bless to have a father like my dad. He is a loving, sweet and a hundred percent good provider father. His Turning 57 this comming april 2.And he is retired effective March 21, 2007. Dad start working when he was...

hero

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angrybarcode For someone who seems like they enjoy structure (such as the military) and probably the satisfied feeling of hard work, retirement can almost be scary. When my mom retired, at first she didn't know what to do with herself. She had to take on several hobbies so...

22 Mar 07

tattoo with an ex-boyfriend's name...

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 16 Mar 07

What would you do if you have a tattoo somewhere on your chest with your ex-boyfriend's name on it? Would you have it erased or leave it as is 'till your new partner finds out about it? OK. I have a friend who was pretty in...

memories

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angrybarcode I'd get it altered. If I liked the actual tattoo I'd keep it, but I would get rid of my ex-boyfriend's name. I think it's important to do what it takes to separate yourself from the human instinct to hold on. Whether it's in the foreground of your mind or not,...

17 Mar 07

When you realize enough's enough...

diannebcrs @diannebcrs (1549) • Philippines 17 Mar 07

i happened to like a guy who's taken. i've stooped so low just to make him notice me. i never really thought about the consequences of what might happen to me if i continue to try to win him. he's a really good guy. one of the...

love

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angrybarcode Hey, it's better to learn that lesson sooner than later right? I think we all do immature things motivated by the blind need for self-gratification that make us question our own values. You should be proud of yourself for realizing that both the guy you were...

17 Mar 07

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he says i'm beautiful and i please him, but why is still looking at other women

MABEL24 @MABEL24 (63) 16 Mar 07

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angrybarcode I've heard this debate among my friends(male and female). Here's a question for you... If your husband never looked at any other women, how would he know that you are beautiful? Any statement on the quality of something, without any base of knowledge to...

17 Mar 07

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partner's!

xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4421) 16 Mar 07

how many nice words would you you use to describe your partner?! okay i'll say mine and this is true! he is, selfish, a tramp, a lowlife, a no mark, doesn't have respect for anyone but himself, takes anything he can off...

relationships

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angrybarcode To be honest, he doesn't sound like a "partner". He sounds like a "place-holder". Judging from your comment about not being with him for much longer, I guess he was just a place-holder. Does it drive you crazy that maybe with the right person he would be...

17 Mar 07

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When you die, would you want your spouse to visit your grave every day?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13388) • United States 16 Mar 07

How would you feel if your spouse or significant other visited you at your grave every day or almost every day? Would you want them to not visit you that often and move on with their life? I have heard of this one person here that...

death

moving on

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angrybarcode To be honest, I would want my spouse to do whatever is the most healthy/progressive thing that they can for them self. I'll be dead and no matter how much I loved someone, they have the rest of their life ahead of them; I don't. They have all the troubles...

17 Mar 07

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Will you help a beggar?

lucy67 @lucy67 (819) • China 16 Mar 07

Today on my way home, I saw a beggar who was very dirty and in rags. It was raining at the moment but he had nothing to shelter himself from the rain. I gave him my umbrella and shared another umbrella with my friend. My friend...

beggar

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sympathy

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angrybarcode I helped out a beggar once. I worked at this coffee shop in Seattle. I bought him a cup of coffee and gave him what little cash I had (which wasn't much because I was broke myself.) After my shift ended--which was hours later--I was about to walk home and I...

17 Mar 07