After days

@TerryZ (22146)
United States
August 1, 2007 6:07pm CST
Okay ladies be honest. When your husband or boyfriend has been around you for days does he get on your last nerve? When my husband is home for a couple of days yes he can really agraviate me.LOL Especially if he has nothing he is working on. If he is busy with something its okay. So does this sort of thing happen with you guys?
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@brendakaya (2335)
• United States
2 Aug 07
As you probably already know, my husband gets on my nerves, just by pulling up in the driveway. lol But seriously, he gets on my nerves even worse, when he's just hanging around, and not doing anything. Which, to be perfectly honest, if he's here, he's usually doing nothing. lol Anyway, he finally got a job, si I'm looking forward to taking a vacation day on Monday, even more than usual, just because he'll be at work. lol At least, I hope he'll be at work. I love being at home by myself.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Oh Im so glad he got a job. You deserve to be at home alone. Im glad for you. Enjoy it!
• United States
2 Aug 07
Thanks. With his job quitting track record, I'm hoping he don't quit before then. lol
@Feona1962 (7529)
• United States
2 Aug 07
We are together 24/7, and it has been this way for 20 years now..We have been together 24 years and 4 of it I was working..we are used to being together and do everything together...I am sure there are times that he wants to twist my face off.....LOL....just kidding...tonight we went grocery shopping and he kept walking away. I was getting mad. I didn't feel good and I just wanted to get in and get out. But everytime I turned around he was gone...I hate looking for someone in the store...but I do the same thing..so we are even...LOL...so the answer to the question is YES...
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
OMG mine does that too! I wont go shopping with him anymore because of that. I spend more time looking for him just like a kid. And I forget to get things.
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@Feona1962 (7529)
• United States
2 Aug 07
It drives me bonkers..It wouldn't have been so bad if he would have just told me where he was going...LOL...
• Australia
2 Aug 07
If you think it is bad now, wait until he retires! I have spoken with so many women who dearly love their husbands, but once they retire - well, they are just about driven up the wall! They suddenly have a constant shadow. When we sold our sugar cane farm and retired, I had the same problem. He is not domesticated in the slightest, and couldn't even make himself a cup of tea. "Why can't you use the same cleaner for every job?" "Why... why... why...?" The questions weren't in order to learn HOW to do things: he still is not the slightest bit domesticated. Believe me, retirement can have its problems. He is at home 24/7. Mind you, when he isn't here I miss him. I'd rather have him here under my feet than not have him here.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Thanks for sharing with me.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
2 Aug 07
Yep I can relate to this, when my partner is at home for more than about 3 days he drives me insaine! I dont know why he does whether he gets bored when he is at home all the time and just talks to me alot more or whether because he is at home I dont get alot done as he wants me to do other things, but yes he does annoy me! I am often glad when he goes back to work! Oh what fun and joy I have just remembered my partner has all of next week off work wont that be fun!
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Thanks for sharing with me. Your too funny!
@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
2 Aug 07
My husband is retired so he is home most of the time. Right now, he is watching AMC, and we did go out this am, but sometimes he does get on my nerves, when I am writing on myLot and he asks me a question and my thoughts go out the window. I not only have to concentrate on writing quality, but that d'm keyboard has a mind of its own and wants me to hit the wrong keys. And I have to start over again. He has a lot of stock, but when we go grocery shopping, "this is too expensive, do you need this?" and yet he plays the lottery. Does that make any sense?
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Thanks
@maddysmommy (16243)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Well it doesn't happen to much for me because he usually works during the days and has the weekends off. I enjoy our time together on the weekends and make the most of it i.e. he babysits and I'm off to do my thing LOL
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Im glad to hear that. Stay happy!
@Galena (9124)
2 Aug 07
my partner has been in hospital for nearly 3 months. I'd give anything to have him annoying me.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Awwww Im so sorry. I hope he comes home real soon.
@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
2 Aug 07
It not like this for me you know my friend, I am very much kind of scare of feeling lonely all the time and as we two are only here, i do not like to be alone, I like him to be in somewhere in the house doing anything whatever it is, but he is at home is better for me, i feel so sad whenever i get alone i dont know why, i always want people around me.....
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Oh thats fine some people are just like that. Nothing wrong with that.LOL
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I am happy to say that no I do not actually have that problem. Alright it is because I do not live with my boyfriend so when we have reached out limits we can go our separate ways for the day or night or even a few days. When I lived with stupid he used to get on my nerves after day 3 of being home. I used to find "projects" for him to do in another room or outside so I did not even have to hear him. LOL
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
LOL yes you sound like me!
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@vanities (11351)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Aug 07
nope...i like my husband to be with me always and im happy if hes at home..coz if hes home we alwasy go out and have some fun watching movies and etc..
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Im glad for you.
@Calais (10905)
• Australia
2 Aug 07
LOL..Yes, I cant stand it, I cant wait for Monday to roll around...We start picking on each other and have little arguements over nothing..Its quite funny, but its great when he is not in my face all the time..
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
heheheh Im listening to everyone and it all sounds so familiar to me.LOL
@Thoroughrob (11771)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Sometimes he does. It seems he finds so much stuff to spend money on. I never have enough to buy all the stuff he thinks he needs.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Oh yes I go through that too.LOL
• United States
2 Aug 07
My husband usually shows up after he leaves work early, on MY day off. He tries to make me feel guilty for laying around the house and tells me that I should have been cleaning! Yea, like I want to clean when that is what I do all week!
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Oh geez why should you clean when he does it. Right?
@mflower2053 (3227)
• United States
2 Aug 07
lol yes always. When he stays home a couple of days he drives me nuts. Please go do something or sometimes I have to leave just to get away from him.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
Thanks for sharing with me.LOL
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
2 Aug 07
Hi TerryZ! That question put a smile on my face because just last night he got into my nerves...I don't know maybe because my hormones are getting out of control. (LOL) My husband is home most of the time because he works at home. He is a free lance design consultant but he is busy almost all the time but whenever he sees me he always show me something, ask for something and he usually does that when I am busy on something..but mind you when I just sit with him, watching him work, he will usually tells me, "Sweetie, I'm busy". It seems to me he always wanted my undivided attention when I am busy. Talk about men! LOL
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
LOL Oh your too funny but yes thats men for you.LOL
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
2 Aug 07
yeah, only b/c he wants me to be at his beck in call! he doesn't even really help out with the kids, so i hear him call me to handle the kids if i'm doing something else!
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I really hate when Im into something and I think he just likes to pull me away from something I like doing!
@usmcsgtwife (4999)
• United States
1 Aug 07
Oh yes it happens all the time, I tell him he is worse then a kid sometimes, I call him my 3rd kid LOL
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
1 Aug 07
Well I dont even have kids and I feel like he is my kid at times.LOL I guess they are all like that.
@brendalee (6086)
• United States
1 Aug 07
Oh god, yes, yes, yes. I feel so much better confessing that.lol. I love him dearly but sometimes I just want him to go somewhere, anywhere.
@TerryZ (22146)
• United States
1 Aug 07
heheheheh thats so funny! Why are they like that?LOL
@tad1fan (3373)
• Canada
4 Aug 07
Does it?!I hate it!He has nothing to do so he picks at the kids,about everything and anything they do......I just wish he'd get a friend in theis new town.....LOL
@sharkee (63)
• China
2 Aug 07
It is frustrating! My ex was always like that, lol and because I'm a loner, he's now my EX, haha. It's nice to know someone cares about you and can't live without you but after years of someone acting like a tail it makes you feel suffocated and if he can't understand that, tough.