How do you handle people who come to your door wanting to sell something

United States
November 28, 2007 10:45am CST
Are you open to people who come knocking at your door to sell something? Would you rather they not come to sell their products? What do you say to them? Do you let them go through their sale's pitch and then tell them you are not interested?
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@shakeroo (3986)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 07
I do not really welcome the door to door sales people since there were cases when they were actually criminals posing as sales people and try to get into your home and do something bad to you. Normally, i would just politely tell them that I already have whatever that they are selling and bid farewell to them.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
At least you are polite and dont just slam the door on them without saying something decent. It really is a gift and sign of maturity not to give into one's temptation to be impatient.
• China
29 Nov 07
I like sales people .Because I have done it ago.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
Yes, usually those of us who have done sales or work in sales know how hard it is to sell things.
@mizrak07 (557)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
For security reasons I prefer not to entertain sellers coming to our home. I admire the true sellers for their hard work but these days we need to be extra careful, because it's true some sellers are just using the job as a front. We're not sure what plans they have in mind, better be safe than sorry. Also, I'm not going to buy anyway so why waste both of our time. I make sure to do it politely so they won't feel hurt, just few words and a facial expression that would make them feel I'm not interested in the products.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
That is nice that you are polite about saying "no". Some people are quite rude in their handling of sales people.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I gotta say the solicitors are rather rude in the first place - at least my experience. They ask their "do you want to buy.." and if someone says no, one more try on their end and then they should understand they are not going to make a sale here and go. But they don't, they are pushy and rude to the point I have to say "No thank you " and just close the door! They dont' stop and they are not very nice about it.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
That is part of their duty to offer alternatives..most sales peole make money for making a sale and not by the hour..
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
I say, thanks, but, I'm not interested and shut the door. Unless it's kids in the neighbourhood selling something to raise money for their sports or school, I buy something.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I'd listen to the kids - figured if they were out there selling at least they weren't causing problems elsewhere! but more than that I like to think they were trying to learn how to make money instead of constantly just spending it or just learning "you gotta make a living" kind of thing. Don't think kids should have jobs but at the same time, nothing wrong with them learning all about it and doing ia little something from time to time. I'd buy from the kids. They were nice back to me. The adults were pushy and all but rude. While I commend someone for persistance and dedication - they have to also know when the gig is up!
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
Hi littlefranciscan! I usually tell these persons that i am not interested in buying products politely. But most of the times they are persistent in letting you hear them out about how good and reasonably priced their product is. As always i am consistent in telling them that I am so sorry but I am not really buying the stuffs because i have no money. Then they will leave. LOL! Take care and have a nice day. :)
• United States
29 Nov 07
If they keep insisting you could ask if they have anything for free..or if they want to let you try a product for free and then they could come back and hear if you liked the product. Usually with a sales person if you ask for something free..they will take off;)
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
3 Dec 07
Hi littlefranciscan! haha..that is a very neat idea! I am going to do just that, i will ask for free samples. haha..Thanks for that idea my friend. Now, i can't wait to try that line on them. haha.. Take care and have a nice day.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
Part of the problem with me is that there were so many - constantly - daily. It got to where we thought our neighborhood was inodated with them and then we have to wonder why - we weren't high income or fancy houses... hum,.... why so many?
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
28 Nov 07
Nothing like that happend to me yet. We didn't ahve anybody at our door , btu if someone would come, i will not let them in. that is what i knwo for sure. I am just too scared of strangers. But something similar happend to my mum, someone who to my parents house to sell something product abotu internet and something else. my mum just let them in. I was so worried about her, how she can let the strangers in.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
You are much braver then I am . I will definitely listen to what they have to say but not inside my house..Since I have no one here if the sales turns sour or goes wrong..
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
NEVER after dark did I ever open the door for anyone! I didn't even got to the door. If I am not expecting anyone I don't answer. Safety comes first.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
28 Nov 07
Hello, littlefranciscan! my door is open for all those who come for discussion of their problems.i have no liking for the sales agents.when ever they approached me to sell some thing i politely say that i do not feel the necessity of such stuff,and let them go their own way.i do not like to purchase from these sells men because i always prefer to purchase my brands from the company show rooms.it ensures the genuineness of the product.thank you and all the best.
• United States
29 Nov 07
That is nice that you are welcoming to those who are seeking a casual discussion and that you are not too mean when confronting a sales person. Sometimes I buy things from a sales person..especially if it's a child selling girl scout cookies.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
That's a little different - girl scout cookies - you know for sure what you are getting and tere is usually an adult in the background and you know it is an honest solicitor and sale. But I have not seen a solicitor in a uniform or anything to recognize him/her as an employee of the company he is selling. They are almost always sloppy, dirty looking people. I'm sorry, but it seems to me that if a company hired them to represent their company, they'd want a little better appearance for what is the first impression a customer would have of their company.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
19 Dec 07
I usually tell them that I'm not interested before they start their sales pitch. I'm very wary of salespeople at my door (after hearing lots of cases in the newspaper where women have been robbed or worse murdered). Besides, I've bought stuff from door to door salespeople twice and both the times I've got something faulty.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
Unless we are interested, we tell them no thank you. I believe it is a waste of time to let them go through their sales pitch, when there is no intention of us buying. Let them go where they can make a sale. Besides we can take their name as reference and the information and latter call or write to the company and say that So and So showed us the new whatever it was, but we could not afford it at the time. Now, however, we want it and can So and So get the credit.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
Funny you say that - I did the a few times and they looked at me like a calf looking at a new fence. I'd let them say a little bit and then say "let me save you some time that you can better use elsewhere. I dont' need that (or don't have the money to spend this month,,whatever) so I'll just say no thank you right now and you can move on to the next house where you'll have a better chance of making a sale" They'd just look at me and turn and walkaway - no thank you, no nothing. Here I was nice to them and they were rude to me!
• Singapore
29 Nov 07
Unless it is something I am interested in (not likely), I will just decline politely then close the door on them. I don't want to waste their time and I rather have my time to myself too. :P
@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I'm very lucky because I live in a secure apartment building where they have to ring a bell to get in so this never happens here!
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
29 Nov 07
well it depends what they are selling. eg last week I had this man insisting to demonstrate his carpet cleaner and products only problem is I dont have carpets. After I told him this he isisted again and again after which I told him I would not spend hundreds of dollars when I only have a 2m by 2,4m rug. If I am interested than why not I will talk to them. If its some charity again I do my best.
@foxygirle (376)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
Good thing people can't just knock on our door without passing through the security desk. But when friends would like to come over to sell some stuff, I ask them first what they have to offer. If its an interesting offer, why not, but most of the time I would say "sorry, tried that thing before" or "we are low in budget", and somehow they would get what I mean.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
NOthing wrong with honesty. I don't see them around here too much..Mostly here in this area with get children trying to sell stuff; and you feel sorry and buy something. But where I use to live it was popular..even magazine and newspaper sellers.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
We just moved from a track home that was inodated with solicitors. Literally. 2-3 every day selling anything you can think of. We either saw them coming and closed the door and just didn't open it or just told them no dont' need anyting and i won't tell you what my husband would say - when they interupted him while washing his truck! I never buy antying door to door - you never know if they are legit or scamming. Just cause they have a clip board in their hands or a "business" card, doesn't mean you are getting what you paid for.
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• United States
29 Nov 07
I can imagine what your husband would say when he is washing his truck..LOL.. I think we have to remember though that as we wish people to respect us in our work ..we should respect others in theirs.
• India
29 Nov 07
just to get a kick i let em in let em talk and tell them i am not interested. that way its fun and they lean a lesson too. but door to door salesmanship has yielded useful results. i mean there are people who have actually bought the stuff and they have worked.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
29 Nov 07
IF they want to do door to door that is fine and good for people to get "out there" and talk to people and work on people skills and all that. No problem with me at all. But being rude and pushy are two things that they do so often they give honest solicitors a bad name
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Nov 07
Most of the time we try to look who are at the door before opening it. We at first deny if we find they are sales persons. Again if still we have to open the door, we politely tell them at this moment we don't require that thing.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I don't get door to door sales people as I have a lock on my gate and they can't get through. :P Plus, I live out in the boonies, where sales people don't usually go as they wouldn't make any money around here anyway. LOL However, I was a door to door sales person when I was about 12 years old. (A classmate/friend/neighbor of mine told me about how she was selling chocolates and other candy and as I wanted to work and make my own money I wanted to give it a shot.) I had at least one door shut in my face before I could finish my sales pitch. Most of the others let me finish it then let me know they weren't interested, which in a way was worse than getting the door shut in my face, because it wasted my time and theirs on something they weren't interested in anyway. I did get a few sales in, but with the long hours (about 10), crappy pay (about 80 cents for every $5 box I sold), and being outside in the hot summer heat, I quit after getting sick from running around selling candy all day long (and even into the night) . My boss had no remorse...that is until his whole crew (my friends and neighbors) quit on him because of it! LOL If one doesn't want sales people coming up to their door than I suggest to them that they get a "no soliciting" sign and put it on their door or front window. :P
@Vivianh (331)
• China
29 Nov 07
If i know its the one sell sth,I won't answer them and if I have opened the door ,after his or her speech I'll just tell him I'm not interested in that.
@youless (112126)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Nov 07
I don't like strangers knocking to our door. As today the crimes are becoming serious. I don't know whether they are real salesmen. Basically I just say I don't need anything and I won't open my door.
• China
29 Nov 07
it is true that someone came to knock at my door for selling something.several days ago,a beauty knocked my door when i was playing PC game.i was angry to ask"who is it".she said "it is me,please open the door!",absolutely,very very nice sound.then,i opened the door and saw a angel standing in front of me.i stared up at her when she gave fair words as much as possible to sell cosmetic to me.i bought some because of her beauty and "nice" words.at that time,i thought i got so cheap things and enjoyed so good looks. i used the product in next days and it was harmful to my face.i had to turned to the doctor because of the fake cosmetic.55555 so never believe them!
@husi_007 (304)
• India
29 Nov 07
I'll let them go through their sale.....