Do you have brain farts? Do you have a hard time thinking of a word?

Do you use a dictionary? - a dictionary
United States
March 18, 2008 8:08am CST
I'm getting ready for a meeting today about a problem I'm having with a neighbor and writing notes so I won't forget anything important. In a couple of cases I know what I want to say but can't for the life of me think of the right words to use. I know I'm getting old and this happens often but it makes me crazy. I actually called the person who is going to the meeting with me just to ask what a certain word would be that I was looking for. If you ever can't think about a word how do you figure out the right one to use? Do you experience "brain farts" often?
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@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
18 Mar 08
Oh my goodness, how did you know? I notice that it is getting worse and worse. I teach nursing at a small, private college in our town. I first noticed myself not being able to think of a word about two years ago, and it gets worse by the day. I will be lecturing and just stop...unable to think of the word I need. I have quit trying to cover and just told the students and we all laugh. I've told them the first person to figure out the word and say it outloud will get a bonus point! For instance, one day I was lecturing about carpal tunnel syndrome and wanted to say the word 'secretary,' as they are very prone to the disorder. I could not for the life of me think of the word, but in my mind I could see a secretary and all! I said, "you know, the person who sits in the front of the office and answers the phone and types." The students found it hilarious....and of course, will never forget that secretaries are prone to carpal tunnel syndrome! I laugh about it (what else can one do) but it is very frightning! My grandmother had Alzheimer's very bad and it scares me to think of ending up like she did.
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@karma118 (294)
• United States
19 Mar 08
Your mind is a very powerful thing. Try not to think of it in terms of getting a disease. You're just like the rest of the world, busy with too much on your mind!
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• United States
19 Mar 08
crazynurse I found your situation very funny and applaud you for such fast thinking offering bonus points for the kids helping you find the words you need. I don't think about getting alzheimers because it's not something anyone in my family has had YET (I'll probably be the first ) I just chalk it up to getting old.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
18 Mar 08
I have these all the time. It really gets discouraging to be having a conversation and come to a word and you can't think of it. Then there's the time you see someone that you know real well and can't for the life of you remember their name. Then there's the times you go into a room to do something and forget why or what you were going to do.
• United States
19 Mar 08
What bothers me the most is that I've always had a rathter large vocabulary and can use some of the larger words but when these things happen I end up using a smaller word and looking less "intelligent" than I really am!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I know what you mean when I can't find the word I feel like I'm not very smart. Some people responded about using a dictionary, but that doesn't help when your talking. Hold on a min while I go get the dictionary really wouldn't help a conversation very much
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
19 Mar 08
I saw on the news last night that good exercise is supposed to help with brain farts but I'm not in any shape to go doing strenuous exercise three times a week.
@Darkwing (21583)
18 Mar 08
Yes, I have them quite often, and I'm quite pleased to see that I'm not alone! When I encounter this problem, I tend to look up a descriptive word either in the online dictionary, or thesaurus. The online dictionaries often say "see also" and put another word underneath, so I just surf about until I find the word I'm trying to think of. It's time consuming, but it works! Brightest Blessings.
@Darkwing (21583)
20 Mar 08
That's right, my friend.
• United States
19 Mar 08
As you can see you are not alone! I've gone the thesauraus route too and find it's very helpful for me every time I do. Yes it's time consuming but whatever works for us right
@lucy02 (5016)
• United States
18 Mar 08
Yes I do. Its been more so since I've been on antidepressants. It gets really frustrating at times.
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@lucy02 (5016)
• United States
19 Mar 08
When I saw your post I wondered if you were taking any of those meds. They are bad on the memory but I have to take them.
• United States
19 Mar 08
I am on a lot of antidepressants and asked my doctor about it and she agreed that most of my problems in this are are from the meds.
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@Foxfire1875 (2010)
18 Mar 08
I do but then I've always been like that. I shouldn't be because my vocabulry is quite big from reading so much but it just happens. The thesaurus is my best friend, as I can usually think of a word that is close to what I want and it provides plenty of alternatives. I also look at some words and they just don't look like they're spelt right, they usually are though.
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• United States
19 Mar 08
That's another problem I have....thanks for reminding me... . Yesterday the word maintenance just didn't look right to me and I had to check to make sure I spelled it right!
@denae77 (33)
18 Mar 08
I think that it not only comes with age but stress, the more you stress and worry about the less room you have for your current tasks, like the back of your thoughts are crowding whats at hand, I think this happens alot to mothers and bussiness men, the only thing you can do is breath and try to handle one thing at a time, it's really hard but it's healthier for you
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• United States
19 Mar 08
You are sooooo right about that! Stress makes a big difference in the way we think and can make it so much more difficult.
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@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
19 Mar 08
Oh yes I have them all the time. My suggestion to you is to write important things down, if you really don't want to forget something during they day, then my suggestion is to ALWAYS write it down. I know if I don't I will forget easily.
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• Philippines
19 Mar 08
I'm really not having those "brain farts" since I'm still young and my mind is functioning really well. Though there are times when I 'accidentally' forget something, it's not regularly and repeated though; I learn from my mistakes. Well, probably, I would have those "brain farts" once I got older. I hope my brain would function as good as it was for the next few years. Good luck with your endeavors, ctrymuziklvr!
@laurika (4532)
• United States
18 Mar 08
The same with me, so I guess I am getting old too. But the most time I have problem when I talk in one language and then have to switch to another one. And I just cannot find the right words for it.
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@jtr115 (722)
• United States
18 Mar 08
I sometimes have trouble finding the right word. Finding the right word is especially important for me since I'm a radio news writer. Thankfully, there's a dictionary and a thesaurus on my shelf to aid me, to assist me, to help me out.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Mar 08
Lord if I had to talk in front of a meeting I would not only have brain farts,thats a great term, I would be totally mute as my greatest fear is speaking in front of an audience even a small one. Brain farts happen to me every once in awhile and I am old,eighty one. I hate it when I cannot think of the certain word I want, and its usually the only one that really makes sense. and I graduated with a BA in English gee whiz. I often make great use of Webster's dictionary.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
19 Mar 08
It's not because of you are old.Eaverybody will be like that sometimes.I think it's very comman.And I 'm only 18th but I also will have that situation too.So I think it was just brain fart that eaveryone has.