My husband's a woman on Saturdays

My first thoughts were 'yeuk, he'd have to go. But then I remembered it's him that likes shopping, sews buttons on and gives the girls fashion advice. He was brought up with two sisters and has three daughters so I think he's more in touch with his feminine side than I am with mine. I think seeing him in a skirt would be taking things too far.

I saw a man wearing womens clothing in Coventry a few weeks ago, he looked really daft, he had the build of Frank Bruno and was wearing stilleto heels! Very strange indeed, fair enough some men actually make rather nice women but some men certainly shouldn't wear womens clothes as it just looks daft. I don't understand why men would want to wear womens clothes, mens clothes are so much more comfortable, men don't have to worry about which bra to wear under which blouse or which trousers go with which top, they also don't have to worry too much about which clothes look good on 'fat' days. I prefer wearing trousers myself, they're far more comfy than womens clothes oh and as for men wearing high heels, why on Earth would they want to do that, walking in heels takes loads of practice and wearing heels regularly can lead to back pain, swollen ankles and other random hurty bits. As for my partner deciding to wear womens clothing, the first thought that came to mind was.........'hahahahahahahaaaaaaa', then I thought about it, my partner is 6ft 3in, with size 11 feet, he looks very much like a man, he's not got a 'pretty' face he's got a mans face so he'd look a bit silly. If he wanted to wear womens clothes I don't think I'd be that bothered, just as long as he didn't mind me borrowing his clothes too.;) I would wonder what was wrong with him first though as he's certainly not the type of person who'll want to wear womens clothes.

As I believe you are aware, sir, my partner is far more feminine than I am already! I would be rather surprised though if he chose to actually be a woman, even for only one night. I'd tell him that as long as he bought his own clothes - and washed, dried and ironed them - that it would be perfectly ok. Although I wouldn't recommend that he go out in this area in all seriousness because I'd worry that he'd get beaten up.

As far as anyone else is concerned, I don't care what they do! As for my hubby though, there is no way! If that was something he really wanted to do, then he would have to be single... unless it's halloween of course! I don't think it's something I could handle my hubby doing!

I really don't know how I'd react in that situation. I think the thing that would bother me the most is that I would feel it was something that I should have been told about before the marriage as this sort of thing doesn't "just happen". I would feel betrayed, I'm sure. Beyond that, I could not honestly answer what I'd do. Good thought provoking question!

Thats tough. I've put up with some pretty interesting things my boyfriend would do. I don't think I could handle this though. It'd play with my emotions a lot that's for sure.

Rotflmao I may not show him the door just yet but I most certainly would call moccasin bend ( our local mental health hospital) and have him commited for observation. That is after I picked my self up off the floor and contain the fit of laughter I would have been having. Seriously POPS dressing as a women? that is such an absurd thought it makes me giggle just thinking of the image now :)))

well considering my hubys views on that subject.. i would have to check him into a phsyciatric ward i think. . He's not against other people doing it, we have a chuckle together when we see something like that.. not to be rude, just cause we think its sort of funny to see a man wearing a dress and sporting fake boobies. lol. There is many more men that do this where we are from then where we live now. Halifax must be the gay capital of canada i swear. not that every man that dresses like a women has to be gay, but i'd think most would be.. what do you think ?if not gay, then why would they be interested in dressing like a women ?

I would have no problem with that and would encourage him to act out & explore those feelings to whatever degree he felt he needed to. A person can't change what they feel inside, all they can do is choose to accept it or repress it. If it's not something that is harmful to themselves or others, then accepting it seems the healthier choice to me.

i think i would be looking for a new hubby if mine did that.i really don't care about anyone elses odd habits ,that would not worry me,but i would begin to question my relationship with my hubby if he started to want to wear dresses all of a sudden.cheers sue

Wow. What a question. Well, here's my answer anyway - I'd feel betrayed! Why? First of all, I'd have to completely give up on women and become gay in order to be with a he. And then what???!!!! He wants to dress and act like a woman????!!!! But seriously, that'd be my luck if I did change over.

I am not in a relationship so really don't know how I would feel. Each to their own, but don't think I would be too happy. Dressing for fancy dress as a woman fine, in fact my dad did this once and actually got chatted up at the bar by a guy who thought he really was a woman, guy must have had a few because before he got ill my dad was a pretty big stocky guy even in a dress and high heels! LOL There is a couple who live in a town not far from me and the guy has dressed as a woman for many years now. He cycles wearing high heeled boots, long hair and makeup, but still wears trousers most of the time. He wife is very accepting of it and after the initial ridicule people have also just accepted. Someone coming into the town for the first time is often shocked but the townspeople are used to him now. I think it is because we are conditioned to men being men and woman being women so if we see someone dressing and acting in a different way it shocks and confuses. Ellie :D

LOLOL...well i dont think i would be too alarmed!!!..worse things happen at sea!!!...Once stood at the traffic lights i had a similar experience..quite jaw dropping lol...the `man` was so beautifully dressed..i just couldnt take my eyes off of him!!!..and theother couple of people stood at the lights with me were mouthing to each other...oh my lord ..thats a man!!!...but he was happy..and totally oblivious!!! My friend had a guest house in wilts ..one evening the doorbell went..and she opened the door..to find two `ladies` looking for a room for the night...the ladies were dressed as twins..in matching lemon crimplene suits and they both sported little handbags...the only thing was that they were transvestites!!!! She was very very embarassed!!...but in all fairness to her..she gave them the room for the night!!!..a story many wouldnt believe..but so very true!!!!

oh i would be scandalised at first.not that i have anything against them but only the fact that am not too comfortable sharing my life with one.It has something to do with not being able to understand what they really are and why do they need to do it.expressing oneself is good but to such an extent i really dont understand.I would definitely show him the door!!

If he were my boyfriend, I would not only show him the door, but push him through it. If it were my husband, I would drag his twisted butt to the alter. Now I do not believe in divorce. But either the demon goes or I do.

Well if he wants to that is fine by me but I somehow doubt he would be bothered shaving or waxing his legs or trying to look his best - Good Grief he loves to slob out too much! lol You have made me think of my sister who has gay friends and sometimes goes along to a G,L,T &T (Gay, Lesbian, Transexual and Transgender )club with them. Well she was telling me about this gorgeous woman in a beautiful outfit on a gorgeous figure she saw - until the woman turned round to speak to her and she had immaculate eye make up and a big, bushy beard! My sister said she just couldn't accept it - why should she spend so much time and money over the years getting rid of her facial here and this 'woman' could have a beard! lol I thought that was hilarious! xxx

I wouldn't know what I would do honestly. That's a good question. I would have to say I would question his views on his gender and see where he thought he fit in. I don't think I could be attracted to that person anymore. I like a manly man and someone wearing my underwear would freak me out a bit. I would be sensitive to him and not make fun of him. Who knows maybe he would have some great make up tips for me???? I like a person in general to know themselves and know who they are...I would think that my husband would be a little confused about his gender identity which would also turn me off. To each their own I guess.

Half of my male friends were dresses. Perhaps that is because of where I live. Funny world we live in. Ainge

maybe i would take him out with the girls

I will take him to a psychiatrist first give him all the food that induces male hormones in him.He is my man I can't abandon him. I will try my best to help him out.