What Do You Do When You Hate Someone?

United States
April 4, 2008 10:58am CST
Ok I promise not to judge anyone I want to know the worst thing you have ever done to someone? Are you a nice person or do you do something sneaky? The worst thing I did was to my ex husband I sent tons of junk mail to his new place after he left me. And not nice stuff either stuff for hair loss,blatter control issues,viagra info and the best was a pamplet on how to tell people you are gay. Im sure his new 18 year old lady friend was wondering what all that was a bout hehehe. I know not so mean as funny but it was all I could manage. I wanted to key his truck but Im too nice to do that. So time too spill those dirty little secrets.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I guess I am just not so creative. I can't actually think of anyone that I hate or even dislike enough to seek out some sort of vengeance upon... well, hmmm, there is the villain who has reduced my star rating from 99 down to 92 currently within the last two days.... but, nah, what good would I get out of retaliation?
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Oh that mean little stinker. Theres always gotta be a few mean people out there. Well I gave you a few positives now hope it helps. I rate responses to my discusiions positive all the time. Its so easy to do I dont see why people wouldnt lol.
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@Modestah (11179)
• United States
6 Apr 08
;) thanks for the boost.... it appears to have helped! I feel so much better now. I also rate my discussions and those that I answer, I appreciate that I do not have to wait for pages to load in order to do so.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
4 Apr 08
I can be very vindictive, but I can not honestly say that I hate anyone. I have this thing about showing people how much they hurt me, by hurting them. Though they usually feel that what I do is a lot worse. I would do the same thing that you did. To me that is a good one. The worst thing that I have heard done to someone is to put hair remover in a woman's shampoo. To me, that is pure evil and I don't think that I could bring myself to do that to anyone.
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• United States
4 Apr 08
Wow hair remover that is pretty cruel I hope this person did something really bad to deserve that one.
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Oh sure your friend sorry my bad hehehe. Sorry just messing with ya.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 Apr 08
Oh no, I never did that. I simply heard about the idea.
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• Romania
5 Apr 08
well to be honest I'm a person with two sides, no wonder my starsign is gemini. I'm a person that values love and "kills" his family with all my love I have (unfortunately for them it's endless hehehe) but because of this i have an evil one when i have a grudge on someone it's like being cursed for life by me. Even now I hate some people and try to get every chance of revenge on them. A friend of mine said many times to me to get over the hatred i have for a classmate of ours, my insults to her (yes it's a big fat stupid girl) are more bad than your revenges on your ex husband... funny is that every person even the teachers don't like her, she truly has her ways of killing everbody's nerves. everytime she asks me to do for her i say no or ignore her and i insult her in German right in front of her (she doesn't even now what they mean and this makes it more funnier). I had many acts of making that person's days a living hell but then insulting in a language they don't know is more sweeter. Still if you want a list or acts of baddies i recall that I took some people's books or other objects and throw them or making they full of dirt without knowing that it was me. There were other acts but mostly of them I can't remember, still i admit that i have a devil inside me and gives me all the oopurtunities to do a bad things to the ones that they hate me and that i hate them. What can we do we are all humans, I have a huge heart full of love so as a payment i can bare a huge hatred to someone. It's the way or nature's balance.
• Romania
5 Apr 08
I want to add that our anger needs to be consumed in way, there are two ways either to express your anger in a isolated room or you get your vengeance, it's not healthy to keep the whole angry inside you, one day you'll end up as the Volcano Etna. But if you end up of having some contact with your grudge it's better to express your anger in your room and alone, therefor you'll be more free and your hands remain clean cause you haven't done anything wrong. I use this strategy and it helps but I still I have some moments of oops (intentionaly) meaning that i do some little sneaky things.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I am not a real revengeful person and I don't hold on to hate so I had to really give this some thought. I cant think of anything I've done to anyone in anger. I'm sure if I go back far enough, I must have but it couldn't have been too bad...maybe write a nasty letter. I think my ex did to me what you did to yours. Shortly after we split, I was overrun with junk mail like that where I rarely got it before.
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Well at least it was a harmless joke. Im not usually revengeful but i needed a good laugh that time I mean i wasted 8 years of my life with him.
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@victorjc (86)
• China
5 Apr 08
leave him as soon as possible.i think it's my first choice... if i hate someone or look someone down,i will regard him as hollow air.
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Sometimes easier said than done. When kids are involved you cant ignore them. Dont get me wrong my ex sure is hollow air lol.
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
5 Apr 08
i just dont talk to them, cuz whts the point of it if ur mad at them.
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Well sometimes you have to talk to them me and my ex have kids together. The little prank helped me to smile everytime I had to go get my kids and see him with his new girl friend. Ive moved on now so no more pranks on him lol.
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@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
5 Apr 08
ya thts ture
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
4 Apr 08
Hatred has got the better of me I ashamed to admit and my ex's have suffered, they say nothing worse than a woman scorned, well that's true also of me, my ex's have manipulated and controlled and abused me in the past so forgive if I have plotted revenge against them! Revenge is a dish best served cold, the colder the better. I am quite vengeful person and I know you should move on and satisfaction is only fleeting but boy does it feel good and pays back for all the wrongs they have done to you in the past. I may be a cuddly, soft wolfie but cross me and I bite and I mean really bite! So no I don't blame you for what you did to you ex, in fact if I was a friend offline to you too I would have encouraged you!
• United States
4 Apr 08
Yeah most of my friends took the address and helped I can only imagine how much junk he got. My one friend signed him up for as many travel packs they would let her and those well they charge you the postage hehehe I wonder if he paid for them. He never said anything to me so I dont think he suspected me.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
4 Apr 08
Trouble is you miss out on the satisfaction of being there, if only you could be a fly on the wall and watch and no they never suspect you which is half the fun, and that was so funny! I would love to have seen his new girlfriends face and I bet she had some questions to ask him, wriggle out that one matey!
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• United States
4 Apr 08
Yeah I did see some of my handy work sitting on his table a few times when I went to pick up the kids. So I do know he got it and alot of it hehe.
@GardenGerty (158311)
• United States
4 Apr 08
I am always too chicken to be mean, however, my younger sister put dog poop on my mother's neighbors' porch because the lady always was calling the cops on mom's cats, which were also indoor cats, never outside. She just called the cops, and called mom, too.
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• United States
4 Apr 08
Thats a funny one too. I hope she stepped in it lol.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I broke into my apartment and took all my records and stero dished pots and pans. That other women wasnt gonna get them!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Apr 08
lol np its cute
• United States
5 Apr 08
Props - Many props can be sexy
Good for you they belong to you.
• United States
5 Apr 08
Sorry about the pic for some reason mylot is messing with me today and missing my posts up. A different post got what I meant to send you we need a delete feature lol.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I ignore, forget and never think they still exist!
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
5 Apr 08
I hated my jerk ex. The worst thing that i done to him was when i slapped him to hard in his face infront to the girl he'd flirting with. Many times he did it and even in front with me and i lose my patient that time.
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• United States
5 Apr 08
Wow hit him thats brave of you. If I did that to my ex i really dont know what hed do but it would have been bad.
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
5 Apr 08
slapping him is not that hurt to compared of what i felt that time..he lose my patient..After that i broke up with him and its over. Its only happened once in my entire life and i dont want to do it again.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Apr 08
When I really hate someone I just try to avoid them completely and not even give them the honor of my company. I once did call this nastynice lady's house then hang up on her and did that all morning.Then I felt so stupid and bad for doing it that I never did that again. I have never hated many people in my life but the one person who fired me unjustly. the last week I worked under her I deliberately refused to speak to her or to obey anything she asked of me. I just simply pretended I did not hear her.so she did quit asking me to do things. she knew she had done something completely unfair .
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• United States
13 Apr 08
Sometimes you gotta ignore someone to get their attention.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
5 Apr 08
if i hate that person i just usually ignore it even if when they're talking to me. sometimes i also hold grudges into that person but i don't do some revenge on them
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