when do you stop your search

India
April 9, 2008 3:37pm CST
when do you really stop your search? when can you truly say. yes i wanna stop now i have found my soul mate. i am happy now. this question has crossed my mind so many times. i do feel i have come to a cross road and found the person i would love to spend the rest of my life with. the perfect soul mate. now what??? what if he does not feel the same. what does that mean. does it mean i have come to the end of the road. friends help me figure this one out. do i stop here or is there someone else somewhere waiting for me.
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@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
10 Apr 08
I think when the person stop search is the oldest age. Nobody want to stop search the thing make all life to search
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@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Apr 08
Hello, Monishavakil. I do not believe in a soul mate. However, I am glad that you found someone who loves you, and who you love. But hey, does life really has something prepared to us? What if it doesn't? Is there really a road? Perhaps there is no road, but the one you create. You are creating yours by living. So, you should not try to follow it if you're blind. You should just stick to him, and if he doesn't love you, then keep building your road in a new direction. Think about what I said. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
9 Apr 08
This is not something that you should be worried about you just simply need to ask him and if he does not want what you want then at least you know and can move on instead of waisting another minute of your life. Finding your soulmate is something that just happens you do not look for it. Some times you do not evn know when you have found it. Just go with the flow and let things play out but when ever you find yourself in a situation like the one your in now you have to have communication to make sure your on the same level. He owes it to you to let you know where he stands. Its your life dont sit back and wait for him you go and get what you want.Life is to short.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
10 Apr 08
First of all i am not into relationship. i also did not have anyu. so luiterally i have not searched. But i think when you find that you are quite comfirtable for the partner, you can stop the search. otherwise you wll continue searching.
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
I think that in relationship there is no guarantee that it would last and that the person we think is the perfect one would be there the rest of your life.
@kezabelle (2974)
9 Apr 08
I think even if you have found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with if they do not feel the same way then you have to move on unless you would be happy being alone for ever? You can love people differently and just because you have found what you think to be your soul mate does not mean there is no one else out there for you if things do not work out how you wish them to
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@2btrueinu (700)
• Philippines
10 Apr 08
Feeling that you love that person and feeling that you want to share the rest of your life with that person does not necessarily mean that she/he is your soul mate. If you feel the same or mutual to each other it means that maybe he is the one you are searching for. If he/she did not feel the same as you do well I must say she/he is not the one. He/she is not your soul mate. Do not stop searching everyone of us has a partner to spent the rest of our life with them. Keep on waiting you will meet the right person soon. Be patient Have a nice day!!!!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Apr 08
Somewhere is the perfect person meant just for you so keep on searching if you do not succeed the first time. I found my true love when I was thirty and married him six weeks later. we were married for thirty four years and we were happy.