suppose... you see your bf/gf kissing other person???

Singapore
April 11, 2008 9:45am CST
suppose... you see your bf/gf kissing other person, whom you never meet before, and all you know that she/he is not a family... What would you do? Hi, mylot-ers, I just watched a drama and i really interested in the scene where the bf kissing other girl and unconsciously being seen by the girlfriend... The gf only standing... freeze... but her eyes... hehe over trouble water! Its really difficult to answer this question (even its comes to my mind), i really scary even only to imagine what will i do if its really happened... But if its really happens... i probably come to them, and slap my bf and that girl. Lets break up!!! I will curse them!!! its really drive me nuts!!! arrgggg!!! help me... but its really mean!!! How about you?
4 people like this
18 responses
11 Apr 08
if i were in that situation i would go straight over there and make sure he he see's me and no's that i have seem him then i slap the rat! tell the other woman she deserves him then walk off! i would prob be fuming for hours but would controll myself infront of them and not start screaming or shouting lol!
3 people like this
• China
11 Apr 08
I think you'd better ask your bf when you gets home,and let him kbow that you are really very about this thing and let him know how important he is in your heart,and then listen to what he says or explain,about his action,but don't be too exicting,as both of you can not have a fair conversation at that time.But if your bf refuse to talk about it,then you have to pay attention to it and had better say goodbye with him.
@crackhead (1826)
• India
11 Apr 08
Well i suppose this kind of situation will never arise for me. But still let me assume so what if my girl friend kiss a guy whom i dont know or whom i never had seen. Well it not the matter of me knowing that guy and its rather some thing which is of some concern that my girl whom i knew for so long and being soo close to her. I know what she likes and dislikes. Well if there is some thing that i unintentionally do and if that hurts her i know how to take care of her. Thats how the relationship stands as far as i know, and that how i will manage it. Well if my girl friend kissed some one whom i dont know , she might be knowing him for a long time and it is not necessary that i am the only one close to her. At the same time i wont be harsh or rude to her rather i will find out who it is and i may try to get along with them. If there is some thing suspisious, i guess there shouldnt be anything of that kind, i will just let her know what it really is. If i behave rude or harsh it will be like not having faith in the relationship. Well thats how it is if u dont have faith in some one there is no relationship. As long as that faith is there u can handle any kind of troubles in a relationship.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
OF course i will never like it but in western society that is how they respect and greet so i just learn how to
2 people like this
@olivemai (4738)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Say what? We might greet with a hug, not for everyone, and certainly not a kiss like that! If it is someone we knew before dating this person, maybe that is the answer, or if a peck on the cheek or lips very lightly, then maybe a relative! But she did say the other woman was definitely not a relative!
@clowdine (1402)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
I'll show myself to them and I would be happy to know what their reactions would be. Stare at them with a thousand meanings, and leave them alone as if I did not see anything. Then that boy has just lost his worth to me. I'll move on.
2 people like this
@kezabelle (2974)
11 Apr 08
I would make him know I had seen id show him up for the rat he was infront of everyone, not so sure id slap the girl I mean she could be free to kiss who she likes it would be my man who mad the choice to kiss her he would be in the wrong, but id be angry so while I prefer not to resort to violence seeing my man kiss another women might just tip me over the edge!
3 people like this
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I have been cheated on so many times, it isn't even funny. I have seen my ex-boyfriends kissing other girls and holding their hands before. i have also seen them take other girls out to eat and such too. I would get mad and tell them what I thought about their dirty selves. It made me so mad that they could not be faithful and honest to me.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
11 Apr 08
It depends on what kind of kiss it was. If it was a long loving kiss, I would never speak to them again. If it was just a friendly kiss, I would question what was going on.
2 people like this
@clamee (63)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
if that happens i would probably just stand there also and wait for them to finish their business. Then i'll surprise them saying "was that good?" then a slap on my bf's face will do and an evil stare for the girl. Then leave them.
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
I think and maybe.. i dont know..If ever and its really an unusual kiss then i will definitely say hi!! how is it? how is it kissing in front of your lover? Is it sweet??? i guess is it...can you try it again while im watching? lol.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Apr 08
I would probably be furious but would ask myboy friend what was going on then if he had no valid excuse I would tell that boyfriend to make like a tree and leave. at once. immediately if not sooner.
@jewilim (495)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
Well i would really get hurt if something like that happens, but i think my love would never do anything like that. I really trust her very much and i just want her to be happy. I think my purpose here is just to make her happy. I'm just happy to see her happy maybe thats why. But i guess if anything like that would happen i would not get mad at her even if i would get hurt, i just dont want her to get hurt and be sad, seeing her happy is already enough for me. :)
@artemeis (4194)
• China
11 Apr 08
I am sure we can determine with some approximate accuracy their relationship on how the way they kiss, you may call it our girl's sixth/seventh sense. So, if it is a betrayal I would definitely would want to know where the fault might be between the both of us and how the third party could come into our relationship. I am a firm believer that for every cause there is a reason and as much as a relationship needs two to clap it also needs two to break as well. Besides feeling devastated, I think I will be too shock to do anything to the girl myself. It is also my hope and every girls' as well that this will not befall on us. However, we just need to realize that we need to be prepared for this to happen too.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
whooooooooooah! My boyfriend kissing another girl?! Hmmmmmm, i will stand beside him, wrap my arms around his waist then interupt... " Hey Girl, cant you find a guy that can teach you how to kiss? This guy belongs to me....so move out!" Then if the girl is out of sight, i'll spank my boyfriend really hard... hahahaha... Serves him right!
@lovedude (4447)
• India
12 Apr 08
Love - its just natural thing
Hmm. I will ask her who is he? if she will feeling love for him, I will let her go because you can't force any person to love you.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
12 Apr 08
Hi! i think i will do the same thing that you wud have done.of course i will only slap my gurl-not the guy-coz guys are always on look out for newer ways to lay hands on some other gurls,and unless the gurl gives in its not possible for the guy to kiss someone elses gurl.i have been faithful to my gurl so i expect same frm her.if she feels like kissing someone else she can tell me-we can easily split.
• United States
12 Apr 08
First it would all depend on the kiss. If it was a peck kiss there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe she is a friend he has not seen in a long time or something like that. But if it's a kiss kiss oh no there is no tolerating that. I think I would just stand back and watch what they did for awhile to see what he was up too. But if he's kissing kissing her than noooo way, thats cheating. He's not even worth the time. He would be out of my life so fast.
@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
12 Apr 08
I think it's a normal in the modern life now. Man and woman are the same level and they want reveal their emotion everywhere and every time they want. No body can't ban them