Cheating..Do You? Have You? Is it right?

@raydene (9875)
United States
June 13, 2008 8:05am CST
Hi All, I don't! I haven't! I don't think it's right! What about you? "After three years of marriage, Kim was still questioning her husband about his lurid past. "C'mon, tell me," she asked for the thousandth time, "How many women have you slept with?" "Darling, " he protested, "if I told you, you'd throw a fit." Kim promised she wouldn't get angry, and convinced her hubby to tell her. "Okay," he said, then started to count on his fingers "One, two, three, four, five, six - then there's you - eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve, thirteen....." unknown
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@ravinskye (8247)
• United States
13 Jun 08
lol thats funny! well, i have cheated once but i was a teenager then and the whole situation was a mess. it was on my highschool boyfriend. our relationship really should have ended after the first year. then he cheated on me. we tried to make it work but i ended up cheating on him. then i started hanging out with a friend of ours and fell in love. so i broke it off with my boyfriend and ended up marrying my friend.
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@stephcjh (32387)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I haven't cheated either. I have thought about it times though because I have always been cheated on in my life. It is very hard for me to trust people because of it. I feel like people do not care for me at times and some people act like they do care. It makes me want to cheat sometimes but I don't do it because I am now married and know that it is not right to do it. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I ever done it to my husband.
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@horsesrule (1884)
• United States
22 Jul 08
When I was married, I never cheated on my husband. In fact, I am very much against marital infidelity, to the point of being completely unreasonable about it. I don't see any reason for it and there is no excuse that can excuse doing it. Cheating destroys a marriage and it hurts the kids so much. Oh, my own parents were unfaithful regularly. My ex was unfaithful, my fault though you know because I didn't understand him LOL Yeah right!!
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• India
18 Jun 08
ha ha, why would she still ask him that after all these years. Is she insecure in her marriage. If so she should talk about it although his past has nothing to do with it. How many women he has been with him should not be an issue dont you think so? I think it is wrong.
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@jdyrj777 (6563)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I never cheated while i was married. I never cheated while in a common law. Untill they did first. Then when i did it was not to get even. It was i was on the hunt again. When i find them cheating then i just figure they dont really want me so im movin on.
@sturner03 (326)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I cheated on my boyfriend in the first month we were together, because he went to jail for robbing a house and it was to soon to know if this was the one. After he went in I found out I was pregnant with his child and I stopped the second relationship. We have been together for 3 years but I still hear about it today.
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@ayrin03 (319)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
hmmmm.. We all knew that cheating is not right. I never done or happened to be cheated. Maybe they do that because they find something to that person that you don't have. Some of them are like that. They were finding something nothing in us. That's why they cheat.
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@GardenGerty (81552)
• Marion, Kansas
13 Jun 08
No, not in my book. No cheating. I also think that if you have to be asking questions and asking about the past, you still do not trust them, do not marry them.
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• United Arab Emirates
14 Jun 08
It's a big NO for me.. I cannot cheat anyone and cannot live if I cheat. I cannot just do it. Once a person is committed to anyone, then it is not right to cheat that person who loves you and trust you.. So, be loyal to the one you love and be happy.
14 Jun 08
To tell the truth,I hate cheating,but sometimes I will do though I do not want
@Carrie26 (1587)
• United States
23 Jul 08
No I would never cheat on my husband nor would he on me.At least I hope he wouldnt.LOL.I dont like when people do that.I know people canmake mistakes but I have a consecience and I would never do that as it hurts the kids and the other one that is cheated on.My mom cheated on my dad and now they are divorced.We never knew until the guy called and asked to speak with my dad .My dad was willing to work it out and go to counseling but she wouldnt do it.So my dad is married to someone else.He got married this past Saturday.My step mom is nice.My mom I talk to her ocasionally but is seems at times that she is to caught up on being single and dating men.Kind of like all her sisters do and still are.But I feel it is wrong and very deceitful to the other person.
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
Hi raydene! haha..that is another good one my friend! really good to just laugh once in awhile. However, I don't and haven't cheated on my husband. Lucky him! haha..But is having a one night stand with a gorgeous man in my dream counts? haha.. Take care and God bless!
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
People cheat because they are given the opportunity to do so. Don't blame only the cheater(^^,)
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
I never meant to cheat on my boyfriend, but something happen past few years. It's involve my ex-boyfriend so i don't know whether it's called cheating or what but what i know is, my bf hurts, yet, he still chasing me and it's been 3years now. And i really don't wanna lose him. Seriously
• India
14 Jun 08
Nope, never considered or did or even thought about it after my marriage, yeah before, i did cheat, and i have my own share of guilt and feelings later on...but not now. And yeah the story was funny.....
• China
14 Jun 08
Ithink it is not good for her health too! If she really love his husband ,she should belive in him and put more attention on their future life which is more important, the past life never could be change!
• China
14 Jun 08
As to me,cheating is a very bad habit.Usually every four weeks we have a test for maths.Even my maths teacher allows us to read reference books during the test ,I doing my test without anything else.If we cheat in usual tests ,what can we do in the final exam?Do you think so?
@Hatley (135370)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Jun 08
no I never eventhought of such a thing while my hubby was alive.I loved and trusted him and he loved and trusted me as well. that kind of thing destroys marriages and the cheater cannot ever really be trusted again. it is so wrong in all ways. My husband and I were best friends as well as lovers and that has made all the difference in the world.
14 Jun 08
Cheating is stupid if you really loved them you wouldn't cheat so the answer is break up
@mummymo (23709)
14 Jun 08
I have never cheated on anyone and I never intend to but then again I don't judge others for it, well not the unattached person anyway - they do not have a relationship to be loyal too! I would end a relationship if I couldn't be faithful as I would know I wasn't with the right person for me. xxx
@scapula (760)
• Jordan
14 Jun 08
I don't cheat I never do it, I don't like people who cheat, cheating makes one miserable and let your friends go away from you. I like people who are honest and don't lie.