I had to buy stock in band-aids because....

nose piercing - small and cute
@mommyboo (13174)
United States
August 24, 2008 11:04pm CST
I have to cover all my piercings?!No, this is not about me. I took my daughter to Chuck E Cheese a few weeks ago and the girl at the counter who took my order had a small band aid on her nose. I don't recall who brought it up first but the fact of the matter was that she had a nose piercing and was required by her employer to cover it with a bandaid. This seems strange to me. I asked her if she got constant questions about what was wrong with her nose and she said yes, people never failed to ask her. You would think that if she was just allowed to wear the piercing (it was TINY) that there wouldn't be ANY comments or questions, much less negative ones. So many young people have piercings in nontraditional places these days. If I had a piercing on my nose or eyebrow or lip and had to cover it with a bandaid, I would almost rather find a place to work where I wouldn't have to cover it. I'm really not sure why it's a big enough deal that an employer would prefer people think you were injured or hurt rather than you had a piercing. Am I alone in wondering about this?
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@relundad (2310)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I've never noticed this that I can remember. However I think its a good lesson as when the younger people are going crazy with piercings and tattoo's they need to realize that it is very possible that it may cause problems in the work force. This is why they have to know that its a decision that they will have to live with and there will be many jobs that will find this in appropiate and in order to work for somebody or a company they will have to comply. At least someone gave her the job there, its possible that a lot of people would not have hired her as a result of. Of course they wouldn't tell her thats why they didn't hire her, but the piercing would have disqualified her in some people's mind.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Isn't that a mild(er) form of discrimination? I do understand why they have certain requirements but it still seems discriminatory to me to hire or deny a job due to a piercing. I generally feel people who are offended over piercings need to get over it, BUT that is only my opinion, and that only refers to a few. I'm not usually fond of someone who looks like more piercing than body...
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
It's too bad that people can lie and say 'of COURSE we didn't NOT hire you because of your piercings' but you know that's obviously why. They just wouldn't admit it, doesn't mean it isn't true. It is also true that people consider appearance important, but this is why I prefer to surround myself by people who aren't as surface as others. I think it should tie into things but it isn't as important as personality, skill, and knowledge. I have to chuckle about the fact that people should think about how whether something they do today will affect them tomorrow. I told one of my kids that I didn't mind if they did (insert thing here) but think about whether they'd still want that in 10 years. Neither of them have any tattoos. Yet. I do get an idea from somebody's appearance, but I usually wait until they've talked a little. If the combination of appearance and personality is discordant and uh.. dysfunctional, then I go on my merry way. If they don't match, like someone who looks a little off but is very nice, then pretty quickly their appearance doesn't matter, same as if they LOOK classy but talk like they've been in prison for 15 years. I try to take it all into account, partially because I hope that's what people would do with me and not base everything they think only on my appearance.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Of course it is, but don't expect a call back saying that "we didn't hire you because of your piercings". That person would have no way of knowing why she didn't get called back. Tactics of this nature are done all of the time for piercings,hairstyles, appearance etc. It's another form of elimination when hiring. 9 times out of 10, when a job is posted almost everybody applying will meet the qualifications, so the process of viewing pro's and con's come into play. It is at this point that other things like your appearance, your personality, your ethics etc. come into play. Unfortunately some things that we decide to do at the spur of the moment will last a lifetime. I can say that the workforce has come a long way in accepting people for the way that they look and express themselves. I can remember when if your body was tattoo'd visibly that your career choices were tattoo artist,rock star or mechanic. That was it! And if you think about it, how many times have you looked at someone's appearance, hairstyle,etc. and pre-judged what type of person they must me? Most of us have at one point or another. That doesn't necessarily mean it was bad, but that you judged by what you could see and associate it with.
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• United States
25 Aug 08
my hubby had an eye brow ring and had to cover it with a band aid (didnt think about it till he already had it done) and it made the piercing screw up!! his body ended up rejecting it and pushed the ring out i guess from not getting enough air to heal right or something.. now he has a scar because his work had a stick up their butts about it!!
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
That's a shame. Sometimes I dream of a society that turns on its ear and makes the abnormal things NORMAL just to stick it to those who have a stick up their butts. I know that sounds bad but think about it, after all those squares judging everybody else for years and pretending everybody was perfect, it would be so cool to show them their idea of perfect is flawed!
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
30 Aug 08
You know, that's TRUE! It's the quiet normal ones you have to worry about, they do everything by the book, to the letter, you know, the picket fence, the 2.5 kids, the family dog, they go jogging, they go to church on Sunday - bam, murder and hostages! People who seem too perfect often have something buried under the surface. Everybody has little oddities, the trick is to embrace them and enjoy, not go on about how you don't match 'aunt mathilda' so you should be erased from the family. Ugh lol!
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• United States
27 Aug 08
i totally agree.. whats funny is the "normal" people tend to have more messed up lives than the "Freaks" because they freak out at everything and dont want to be perceived as anything but normal and then by doing that whole charade they screw up their lives even more.. they just want to feel better about themselves by pointing at everyone else.. then years later you find out they were like killing people or cheating on their spouse etc.. lol
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
25 Aug 08
I would definitely not work there. There aren't - at least in this state - any health codes requiring such non sense. That must be a corporate policy. I would never take a job like that.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
It just shocked me. I guess I'm more liberal than a lot of people, but I never really thought I was. I kind of thought that by now people would be less judgemental but I am finding it is almost the opposite!
@34momma (13882)
• United States
25 Aug 08
i too think it's silly that she would have to wear a band-aid. i would not work at a place that would not respect my nose ring. even more so if it is really small. i would want to work at a place that will allow me to be and not walk around with a band-aid on my face
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
No kidding. I don't have a nose ring, but if I did I would want to be able to wear it freely.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I'm not sure why, but usually the covering is because of health codes. Otherwise it is covered up so as to not offend customers that would be offended by such piercings. Better to have them look at a band aid than the nose piercing.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I never considered health codes BUT when was the last time you saw someone required to cover their EARS? I can't think of a single time lol.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I have seen them with covered ears as well. It's either cover those piercings or take the items out of your skin I guess
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Well, I might be able to understand if they have like 10 holes or the holes are stretched, but I have a hard time understanding why someone would have to cover a TINY nose ring when 9 out of 10 people have two earrings on daily, and some of those earrings are bigger around than my wrist lol. I'm wearing 4 earrings actually.
• United States
25 Aug 08
She should of just got a clear nose ring.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I bet they'd still make her cover it
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Aug 08
i think it is certainly somethimg weird. also it is beyond thought. just a small nose piercingh can never seem to be bad. i would have worked else where.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I just thought it was odd because so many people these days have a piercing or two. I was at Chuck E Cheese for goodness sakes, everybody they hire there is YOUNG. I don't know what else they can expect from people who are 17-22 years old.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I think this is really incredibly dumb and stupid to say the least. Like what next? Are employers going to ask their workers to put bandaids to cover their pierced ears as well? There are all kinds of weird rules and regulations with any place of work. My mother used to work for a chiropractor...one of the clients/patients was Native American...a guy with really long hair. He was a corrections officer and was reprimanded for having long hair....it was either get his hair cut off to "regulation" length or be fired. He took the case to court, stating it was his Native American heritage and he had a right to have long hair...HE WON...All that is required is that maybe he ties his hair back in a ponytail, but he didn't have to cut it off. I just really don't see why the 'bandaid" issue though. There used to be this gal that worked in a local Walgreens...she had piercings all over ..nose rings, cheek rings, eyebrow rings...the works...she wasn't asked to cover them up
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I guess it depends where you work, what company etc, and what the majority of your clientele might be. Since Chuck E Cheese is a kid-friendly place, perhaps they thought it would turn parents off. Now I don't really see WHY, most of the kids who would be coming here have relatively young parents and these PARENTS have tatts and piercings themselves! I honestly wouldn't care that much about having one or two people decide not to come because they don't like it than to pretend it is 1962 instead of 2008. The whole idea of conforming for somebody else's benefit (beyond a reasonable degree that doesn't conflict with your personal style) is really icky.
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
25 Aug 08
When I worked at JcPenny, and Red Lobster, piercings had to be covered, except for your ears. I'm not sure whether it is a health issue, or they feel that it will offend people. A lot of time the option is either take them out, or cover it up. When I worked for Red Lobster they even made me cover my cartlidge ear piercing.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
30 Aug 08
It just seems odd to me that ONE piercing a different place than your EARS would offend anybody - and if it does, do you really want them coming to your establishment? I always consider that, consider the source I mean. If someone deems something offensive and it is to a small group of people but isn't to a much larger and varied group of people, sorry but the larger more varied group is going to win. I'd rather appeal to the majority of normal than the small minority of stuck up.
@gemini_rose (16264)
25 Aug 08
I have never noticed this before in any food places I have been in. I wonder if that is in case it fell out into the food. If I was told that I had to wear a big plaster on my nose I would just not wear the stud, I would rather go around with a little hole in my nose than a big plaster on it. How embarrassing.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I just felt so bad for her. I was waiting in line to order some breadsticks and drinks and my daughter asked her if her nose hurt. I was mortified! That's when she told me she had to cover the piercing, I looked at her as if she had two heads lol. I honestly wouldn't have thought twice about it if she had just had the nose ring.
• India
25 Aug 08
This is Rediculousl,and if anyone doesn't have that much of freedom to look after there own wishes then it is waste to work at that place,it is nothing but slavery.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I figure they probably only make minimum wage too.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
25 Aug 08
I agree this is a very strange practice, but they also do it at our local McDonald's. One of the lads had an eyebrow piercing when my son worked there a few years ago, and they made him cover it up. Naturally this gets far more comment than without it - but apparently it's company policy for 'hygiene reasons'. Go figure!
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Well, my daughter also will ask about bandaids because she will proudly sport a bandaid if she gets an owie. She assumes this means anybody with a bandaid has an owie. I can't imagine it's very fun for someone to keep explaining that it's because SOMEBODY doesn't want their piercing showing. If I wanted strangers to think I was hurt all the time, I'd wear bandaids all over instead of getting a piercing lol.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
25 Aug 08
hi mommyboo! That is really stupid! I agree with you. Why don't they just let her wear the damn nose ring. It would be a lot less noticable then the bandaids. The banaid is just bringing more attention to it. What a stupid thing to do on the part of the management. Since when is a nose ring a health hazzard? It's not like it's going to fall into the food. She's not even touching food! Don't get me started! I have to tell my girlfriend about this. She will really not believe this. She's got a nose ring. I'll ask her if she wants to go to a Chuck E Cheese to see if she can get a job.lol
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Aug 08
omg your post made me laugh! It's exactly what I was standing there thinking when the poor girl was telling me that she didn't hurt herself, it was JUST A NOSE RING. I mean when I see someone with a bandaid on their face, I think it could be a cold sore, a zit that won't go away, a cut or scrape, a burn from a curling iron, I mean you never know but my first impulse is not to think 'gee, they had to hide a piercing'. Oh and yeah, it wouldn't fall into the food because it was a closed ring, and she WASNT SERVING FOOD! She was at the cash register. I am still laughing! Thanks for improving my evening!
• United States
25 Aug 08
Yeah, when I was alittle bit younger, I worked at Burger King and they made me take my eyebrow ring out. I didn't mind, until I went to get my paycheck and there was a girl working the morning shift that had a huge nose ring. I asked my manager about her and was told that she had worked there for a year. Lol so I guess you can only have a huge nose ring and not a tiny eyebrow ring when working at Burger King.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I wonder if it has anything to do with the location on the face, or maybe it's the length of time you worked there BEFORE you got the piercing? Some of these things just don't add up to me unless 1 and 1 really do equal 3 these days and I'm old school or something.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
27 Aug 08
Well, from what I understood once when I asked about something similar it is to conform with health codes or specific dress codes. I am quite divided in this because there are always many sides to one thing. A person that is working with food products should be expected to cover them. Specially in places where it has more of a chance of infection. Why? it's obvious of course - the same way that a cut needs to be covered. Even if it's healed it's still a hole in the skin and can become contaminated. Dress codes should be checked when applying for a job. If it says no visible piercings or tattoos, it stands to reason that a person having one or both can either not apply for that job or expect that he/she will be asked to cover them. There are still many jobs out there where piercings and even tatoos are not accepted, and you know, the employer has the right to ask for it. It's his/her business. The same way that the prospective employee has the right not to apply for the position or quit his job for not being allowed to wear them. I have shared my views about both in here before. I have nothing against them and I actually like to see some. SO I'm not saying this because I don't like piercings. It's just that nowadays we tend to see as injustice things that often are not. I personally don't get offended by people wearing them. But I understand rules and tend to follow them. When someone tells me this is the rule in my establishment, I either follow it or leave. Yes, a band aid would be more visible. But it covers an area that can become infected and contaminate the food - how many time do we scratch or touch our nose without even noticing? I haven't seen a problem with piercings in any other areas than food handling, so I think it's fair. It's a precaution and when it comes to things people ingest any precaution, even if it seems trivial or of minimal risk, should be accepted.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
30 Aug 08
Ok but I worked in food before, more than once. I have double pierced ears and they have been pierced for about 12 years. I don't see how a healed piercing can get infected or contaminate anything, are you talking about something that doesn't heal all the way and if you take it out for any length of time, it's likely to close up? I never was required to take out my earrings or cover them up. I did CHOOSE not to wear large dangly earrings but I was never told that I couldn't. I feel that people should not take the liberty of being so picky. Sure, it's their business, but you have to balance that with where are your customers coming from? I don't generally boycott anything, I just go to places that offer me what I need for the best value. However, I don't like to see discrimination, especially if it could be directed toward me because I have something in common with someone ELSE who is being discrimnated against openly. This might influence my behavior - say for instance someone isn't allowed to have piercings or tattoos or different colored hair - more than someone deciding to boycott a particular place because of work practices,labor laws, foreign issues. I don't like people using appearances as a reason to treat someone less than someone else, independent of their actions. The other things I think are less shallow and less ridiculous, in my opinion.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
25 Aug 08
[i]Hi mommyboo, I have never encountered any situation like this but if I were the girl too, I will be looking for another place to work with and whom I can be myself! LOL! People look at piercings differently, I mean more than one, for those conservatives, they don't like it and I can't see any point though![/i]
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Aug 08
It's because if you work with food and if you have a piercing there is a possibility of an infection and you wouldn't want that to get into your food. My husband was telling me about this. His employees that work with food and have piercings other than stud earrings have to do this.
• United States
25 Aug 08
I have to say that I am more likely to notice a band-aid than a piercing. Some of them ARE for health reasons, but still, a band-aid on the ear or the nose or eyebrow is much more noticeable to me than whatever you have there in the first place. Where my son works, they make them wear long sleeves or an ace bandage type thing if they have tattoos on their arms. Again, this raises more questions than if they just let the tattoos show.....as long as they are not profane.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I feel that way too. You'd think someone would get REALLY SICK of being asked if there's something wrong. Then you have people who are like health nuts and germophobes and they are the sorts of people that don't want anybody who might have a cut or a bruise or anything wrong with them preparing or serving food. Oddly enough, a lot of these types of people probably wouldn't even NOTICE a piercing.
@lira23 (208)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Yeah wearing a band aid is ridicules especially over a piercing, they are meant to be seen in the first place I would think. I would hate to wear a band aid and people teasing me because of it, and as long as it's small why should people care about it?
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
27 Aug 08
It would get old saying 'I am NOT hurt, it's just a piercing'. LOL!