Do you ever wonder if you and your partner have crossed paths...

Norway
January 8, 2009 3:40pm CST
before you knew each other? or before you have introduced to each other? i do.. just an hour ago, i was asking the same question to myself. Me and my hubby lives in a places miles away from each other, and then we met somewhere in between. He is 5 years older than me, so, can you imagine how possible can two person meet even they live miles and miles away from each other and have a different generations? is it destiny or what?
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15 responses
• United States
9 Jan 09
I do believe certain relationships are meant to be. I met my husband while playing a MMORPG game online with millions of players. He lived in Colorado, and I lived in Pennsylvania, we were involved in different professions and would never have normally met. The funniest part about it is that he was at one time stationed just 3 hours away from me while in the Navy. I think that fate or destiny sometimes takes a heavy handed role in our lives to bring us together with the one person we were meant to be with. I know that someone or something had to take a hand in helping me to find my soul mate.
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
it's not destiny...God has prepared plan for the both of you..I don't really believed in destiny..It's love works..It's a choice to marry him..to marry her because of the love present in the heart..you have the choice to not marry him/her if you think there are person out there whom you think is better to be a good wife., or is better to be a good husband....hope you can see my point of view here...it's not destiny, but it's people "choice"
• Norway
8 Jan 09
yah, marrying someone would definitely one's choice.. but meeting with someone, (a future friend or lover) isnt that weird? How two people meet and became friends or partners? when he could have meet someone else? I mean, there are millions of people around the world, then why him or her? you live miles apart from each other but then you were made closer to each other to be together. Its weird, right? but wonderful..
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Actually, we might have. Shortly after meeting her, we started talking about concerts we've been to. At that time, I had been to over 200 concerts in my lifetime, (I keep my ticket stubs)she had been to four. Me and her have been together since 2001. We discovered that we were both at the same Van Halen concert 20 years ago. I thought, wouldn't that be funny if we were sitting next to each other. But we wern't because I was in the upper level, she was in the lower. But maybe on the way in, or while walking to our seats we crossed.
• Norway
8 Jan 09
talking about a concert? thousands of people must have been there, so i think its only 1% that you have crossed paths on that time. but we dont know? maybe, somewhere there, you saw and bumped each other and didnt know..
10 Jan 09
Yes, definitely!! Before I was with my current boyfriend, I emailed a friend that he was in a band with so that they could play a gig I was organising. She couldn't play the gig, but he offered to do an acoustic set without her for me, and so we were emailing and flirting a bit. I didn't even realise this until we'd been together eight months earlier this year! We'd talked before we even met, but didn't end up dating until about four months later, when we met by chance at a party.
@ulalume (714)
• United States
9 Jan 09
This is an awsome discussion. Yes, I've thought of this on occasion. My girlfriend lived right down the street from me for basically the entire duration of our lives, yet only a few years ago did I meet her. I would not be surprised if we did run into each other somewhere down the line. I considered this about friends I've made as well. There were a few I became friends with through other friends and school, that ironically show up in my baby videos and the home videos of my younger birthday parties. It is kind of funny and wierd in its own way.
@irisheyes (4373)
• United States
9 Jan 09
My brother and his first wife were in the same high school Spanish class and barely noticed each other. She remembered that there was a guy in her class that was on the basketball team but couldn't remember anything else about him. He didn't remember her at all. LOL
• United States
9 Jan 09
Oh yes!!!! When I met my husband it was a blind date set up by mutual friends. We began talking and realized that we had just barely missed each other our entire lives. We had about 10 mutual friends, I used to clog when I was little and he had been at a performance of mine, I had admired his car because of a unique bumpersticker, and 2 of our mutual friends had tried to set us up in the past. It's so funny now because when we talk about it we agree that it's a good thing that we met when we did because had we met before then, we probably would've hated each other. We think that we are destined to be together and I guess that's all that matters. Excellent discussion topic... Thank you.
• United States
9 Jan 09
My boyfriend and I I know crossed paths in the past when we were young. I feel it was destiny as well because he was born in another state far away from where I live now. To me god has a plan and no matter what we want he has the plan and will allow it to happen. This is how I feel and yes I think no I know he is my soulmate I cannot wait until we get married either. This is a great post, so I hope the best for it. Happy mylotting, and good luck:)
• China
9 Jan 09
I think it should be that the destiny takes two people together. Certainly this is only a prerequisite.It could called really together when two people get along well and understand to cherish each other.I bless you sincerely.
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
Same here! I cant believe that my boyfriend and I met around 2002 at a University wherein he was a friend of my sister's ex-boyfriend. He was taking Architechture and I was taking Medical Technology. He's in his 3rd year I think and I was a freshman. We have seperate buildings but we hangout to a certain place after class. We became friend for a year, I had my 2nd boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. I broke up with my boyfriend by then and he and his girlfriend has a rocky relationship. We always talk on phone and we went out to eat just the two of us. Then he and his girlfriend are officially broke up, that was the time we are already developing on one another. He told me he loves me and I told him I love him too over the phone. The following day we meet up for our official day and start of our relationship. Now, we are already 5 years and 7 months and continuously counting... We are also miles away apart when he was still here in the country. Now we are hundred miles away apart because he was working abroad. But we still continue are love and we have constant communication.
• India
9 Jan 09
not really, actually our love story is totally different we staret talking to each other by phonefor6to7 month ,after long time we decided to meet ,then we meet and staret living the way we want to be
@vinyl123 (21)
• United States
9 Jan 09
I've wondered this also! My boyfriend and I met online, and we frequented a lot of the same sites over the years. I often try to think back and try to remember if I've met him on any of them, but of course I can't recall. It seems unlikely that we haven't met at least once before, however.
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
9 Jan 09
Hello poisonivez! I have been asking about it many times. My husband and I live in different world. He lives million miles away from me and he grew up in a different culture. He is a lot older than me too. Sometimes I wonder how come we met when in fact we live in two different worlds. Probably it is destiny. I do believe that my husband and I were really destined to each other.
@rsa101 (14885)
• Quezon City, Philippines
9 Jan 09
For me I think it is impossible as we grew up far from each other back then. I practically grew up in my province and as well as she. I do not remember going to her place back then. It was only when we were both adults that I saw her and the rest is history.
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
Oh yes!! when we're still in highschool we did crossed our paths because of a Volleyball League. It happened that his&her ex-girlfriend's school was ne of the schools we play tune-ups so,they always go to our schoo; for a game. my boyfriend was already able to see me before when we still dont know each other. And when we were together we were amazed that we do have a very small world when we remember the same place for the same event of the season which is the volleyball League. so cool!1 I guess its what they called Destiny!! so please pray that we'll end up togethermy mylotters!!