Why do so many people believe that their religion is the only true religion?

@Pose123 (21635)
Canada
May 3, 2009 8:43pm CST
Throughout my lifetime I have met many very sincere people, who were absolutely convinced that their religion alone was right. Within Christianity, there are a great many churches who feel that only their way is right. The Roman Catholic church is a little more open today, but has always taught that they alone are the true church. I have friends and family who are Mormons and they are positive that there is no other way but there way. Their sincerity is beyond question, they feel they are doing right when they go from door to door preaching the gospel. The same can be said for Jehovah's Witnesses, no matter how much we disagree with them, in most cases they are genuine. While groups like the Pentecostals, Southern Baptists and other other fundamentalists don't go from door to door, they certainly try to convert others to their way of thinking. Among these too, you will find many sincere people who believe that they are doing what God commanded them. How is it that so many people can look at the same book and read it so differently? I have mentioned only a fraction of those who believe that they alone are right and there are literally hundreds out there. Then too, we have only talked about Christians, Muslims and others are equally convinced of the truth of their scripture. No one can prove their belief to another, they say that we must accept it on faith. There is much that is good in all religions but why must one be always trying to convert the other to their way of thinking and why do they feel that they alone are right?
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
18 May 09
Hi, This is the planted seed that you can not undo even if you try. Those who think theirs is the best religion or faith are the utterly ignorant people who are pu0shed to the twinkling darkness. I really take pity on them who are of the opinion that without applying their own thought and reasoning they start believing that their religion is the best. This is simply stupid.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
18 May 09
Hi Rajib, Thank you for responding and we agree. Such people are indoctrinated as children and it's very difficult to get away from what's been put in your head in the first six years of your life. A lot of times it can only be described as brainwashing, and such people have little hope of ever thinking for themselves. I too feel sorry for such people. Blessings.
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• India
6 May 09
I think the issue between which christian denomination is right is quite different from which religion is right. Even among Christians there are some groups who think that the other groups are equally right as they are, though on certain issues they may have difference of opinion. But groups like Mormonism or Jehovah Witness, the rest will agree that they have deviated from what Christianity in the past has always been. Of course the question which religion is right is not an easy one. But if religion is to do with truth, then I believe all religions cannot be equally true. Because there are religions that claim opposite things as true. Truth has to be just only one. Wrong ones can be many. For example, the sum of two and two is four. But the wrong ones can be five or three or twenty or many many numbers. Suppose one were to argue that religion has nothing to do with truth, then I won't want anything to do with non-truth.
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• India
18 May 09
I would quite agree that there is certain amount of truth in all religions. But I think there is also the possibility of one religion which has all the amount of truth in it. Of course, which is that one is a different question.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
6 May 09
Hi headhunter, An interesting response, thank you. I feel that no religion is right for everyone. I don't think that one religion has to be right and all others wrong, but rather that there is truth in all. Blessings.
• Canada
13 Sep 09
Oh, I know what you mean!! I married a Mormon!!! I'm Presbyterian, and he's Mormon. He's not the door-to-door type, but there are those in his church. We alternate, going to eachother's church every second week. Anyway, the first fight of our marriage was when he thought I was too harsh on some Missionaries who tried to convert me after I told them NO. I told him that no one should mess with another's religious beliefs, and that they pushed me way too hard. After a few minutes he understood. It's just that I'm more confrontational than he is, but also more assertive. I don't just go along with the program to stop fights, I can be as sincere as they are. A couple of Mormon missionaries were surprised that I wouldn't be happy if the whole world was Presbyterian. I just told him that if I tried to convert the world, after a while people would really start to resent me, and isn't that what I DON'T want to happen? What ever happened to LIVE AND LET LIVE?
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
14 Sep 09
Hi danishcanadian, Thank you for your comments and I understand. I have relatives who are Mormon as well. One of my half sisters and a half brother joined the Mormon church years ago. They were very sincere people but could not understand how anyone would think that Mormonism wasn't for everyone. They have both passed on now and the one niece that I see often does not push it as much. Blessings.
@hiddenwing (3719)
• China
10 May 09
I don't know about that! But if someone totally believes in something, they will plough into it! They believe everything that the religion tells them. On the other hand, the things that are different from their religion are lies, so far as they concerned.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi hiddenwing, Thank you for responding and you're right. My question is why they act that way instead of being logical. Blessings.
@sandal13 (142)
• India
4 May 09
Here i would also like to add that its important to love and be confidant about your religion unless you dont practice "shirk". As long as you dont do "shirk" other things really dont matter Let me tell you what "shirk" is There are 3 types of shirk, shirk in worship, shirk in personality and shirk in attributes.... 1. shirk in worship-----accepting anyone or anything other than allmighty as being worthy of worship 2. shirk in personality-----considering anyone equivalent to allmighty 3. shirk in attributes-----Considering another's attributes similar to the attributes of allmighty. If we can understand this all and practice i think we will have a better understanding of allmighty and all the religion. thanx
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi sandall, Thank You for your comments, I hadn't heard of shirk before. Blessings.
@sandal13 (142)
• India
4 May 09
actually i must thank you for bringing up this entire discussion.I hope people like you help others to have a better understanding of god, n behave just as we human beings are supposed to behave! god bless u too dear good luck in life
• United States
4 May 09
If someone didn't feel their religion was right, of course they would switch to one they felt was "more" right!Another way to look at it.. at least the fact that we all think we are right... is something we still have in common!
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
6 May 09
Hi macdinggolinger, Thank you for responding and I got a chuckle out of that comment. Blessings.
• United States
6 May 09
lol! I am truly glad you enjoyed it!! you know there is oddly enough an element of truth in it though, right? :)
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 May 09
Because that is what they have been taught and what they believe, but whether it is the true religion only those who follow it will know and that is because God reveals it. However there are points to know if it is the only true religion and it does not matter if you sing the hymns before the service, whether you evangelize the neighborhood in October, whether you go do to do with tracts, whether you attend church service at 10 or 11 am, whether you have an afternoon or evening service, whether the preacher is called a pastor or minister, whether you believe in this catechism or that. What makes a true church is the belief in the Bible, that Jesus is the Son of God and came down to earth, that HE saved HIS elect from sin, and that you have to live a godly life and be moderate in all things. Also that you have to hate what HE hates and this is not popular. I will not get into this in detail, but I am sure you know what I am talking about. It is what happens at the end of life and how closely one sticks to the Ten Commandments and how one lives.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
4 May 09
Is really confusing if you really start noticing that every religion claims that they have the correct path to salvation. I consider myself a roman catholic ,but in my opinion there is so much that we don't know yet. I really believe that the sun comes out for everybody ,and we all have the ability to better ourselves regardless of our religion. Let's be judge by our actions and not by our words.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi Mirita, Thank you for responding and amen to that.Blessings.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
4 May 09
Good question......I imagine it has something to do with a scripture that encourages us to find new lambs for the fold....I have had a few that come to the door trying to convince me that their church is on the right path....I simply say.....I have my own church...and most of the time they leave happy.....I am not one who tries to convince my church is best....I also took my kids to church and Sunday school then later let them decide what they wanted to be.....one is catholic.....two lutheran....but one studied other cultures and religions too....
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi jillhill, Thank you for commenting and I think you are very wise. Letting your children decide for themselves is the only way to go. Now I suspect they will be equally open with their children. This would could use a lot of that kind of thinking. Blessings.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
4 May 09
People think that way because they are brainwashed into thinking that way.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi angemac, Thank you for commenting, some are certainly brainwashed but others believe they've found the truth at the beginning - their brainwashing comes later. Blessings.
• Malaysia
4 May 09
Most atheists believe that by having a religion, a person will stop enjoying life and be devoted to something that is not true and thus not having a life that is enjoying. Actually, I disagree with this. having a belief will only serve it's purpose to calm our minds that some things are unexplainable by science or logic. People with religion are convinced that theirs is true because that is the way they live their life and religion is their saviour.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
6 May 09
Hi koharukusumi, Thank you for commenting. I am not an atheist and think it's fine to have your own belief, but some people think that there is only one way. I think that we should respect all religions and belief systems. Blessings.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
5 May 09
It's the old need for power, the I'm better than you so that means I rule and your serve. In all the animal kingdom this applies, we thinking, reasoning animals have just taken it many steps further.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi savypat, Thank you for commenting and you make a very good point. I feel that is certainly true of the hierarchy in the church, but not so much for the ordinary people. Blessings.
@PinkyPosh (226)
• Canada
4 May 09
Answer is in your question... It is atmost faith that each one has in his/her religion. This is pretty natural and very difficult to make people to understand. And yes... as you said, there are much that is good in all religions. And it is more that enough that each tries to keep up that good values and morals in ones life. That is more than enough to be a good human.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi Pinkyposh, Thank you for commenting. I don't believe that there is any one religion that is right for everyone. It is also very difficult for me to understand how anyone can think that way but often I guess it is indoctrination at an early age. Blessings.
@RickyOld (15)
• Singapore
4 May 09
I guess it boils down to the selfish nature of man, when they want their only belief to be the only true one, which explains how "holy" wars are being constantly fought. If only everyone remained as free-thinkers...
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi RickyOld, Thank you for responding. I suppose most people are so indoctrinated in their religion that they cannot see beyond it. I agree that we could use a lot more free thinkers. Blessings.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
4 May 09
How is it that so many people can look at the same book and read it so differently? LOL yea I've often wondered that myself...and IMO its just a one more thing that says though the bible MAY be "inspired by god" the fact that 10 people can read/hear or see the exact same thing DOES NOT mean they will interpret it the same SO that said, the bible most likely IS NOT REALLY the word of any god...(make sense?) There is much that is good in all religions but why must one be always trying to convert the other to their way of thinking and why do they feel that they alone are right? Straight up arrogance...that and some ridiculous desire to gain brownie points..
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
10 May 09
Hi Ravenladyj, Sorry to have taken so long to response but I seem to have missed a few comments from this post. In any case I'm pleased that you took the time to respond. I do believe that there is good in all religions but none of them is perfect and certainly none is right for everyone. I don't believe the Bible or any other book to be inspired and I certainly don't believe in the traditional God. As I've said before I think we are spiritual beings and that life doesn't end with this body. I don't think it matters what one believes or doesn't believe and I guess that's why I can't understand people who think there can only be one way. I don't think Jesus Christ came to start a new religion but to teach a way of life. It was those who followed him that messed things up and the same may be true for other religions. I have relatives who tried to convert me to the Mormon faith but have pretty much given up on me now. Recently, another family member has joined a completely different church, now he wants everyone to follow him. To me it is all mind boggling. We are all however still on speaking terms and I hope to keep it that way. Blessings.
@bdugas (3578)
• United States
4 May 09
I don't know about religons outside the USA, but I have always wondered how each church has a different way of teaching. It is all one book, so how can anyone be the right one. I know Catholics pray to the virgin mary and I though that was praying to a graven image. I heard a paster tell a friend of mine she was going to hell for praying to mary, instead of to god. I guess it is what ever you fall into as to where you go to church and start to believe. NO matter what we should all believe there is one god, and I would assume that goes for all over the world. As for you trying to change me, I have really stopped going to church, as it seems that they are there to look down on you if you aren't dressed as nice as they are, or if you can't fill up the collection plate every week. And I will not watch any precher on TV other than the one woman.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi bdugas, Thank you for commenting. My belief is that we are all one and should respect each others views. I think it is very wrong to tell another they are going to hell for practicing their religion. Most TV preachers are not for me either and attending church or staying at home is one's own choice. Blessings.
• Philippines
4 May 09
Well personally, I am a Roman Catholic but you see, I am really open about other religions.. in fact, I often attend to some churches by other religions as invited by my friends. However, I don't entertain debates among religions and I don't really want to convert myself to them because I stick to what I believe in. What I mean is that I respect their own faith but I also want others to respect mine. You see, the thing is that somewhere inside of us, we individuals are actually in need of something vital in our lives--what will drive our lives or the purpose of it. I believe that no matter who we preach or believe in, it is still the same person, the same absolute being we are believing which in fact unites us all. -- How does God talk to you? Find out at http://rightfulliving.blogspot.com
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi cecillecarmela, Thank you for commenting and we agree. I think it is very important that we respect the beliefs of others, but also our own. Blessings.
• Philippines
4 May 09
Well, my friend for me, faith isn't what religion you are in right now, it's how you project to other people what the religion has been doing to you. Words are not enough to say that you are in a good religion. Everyone has their own way of thinking and to be honest, I don't judge them through what they are in. Honestly, I am a buddhist and I am proud to say that I am though I don't encourage other people to be like me, I want people to decide for themselves whether to like it or not. People has the right to choose and nobody has the right to tell them what to do. Thanks!
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi iceblade, Thank you for commenting and I couldn't agree more. People must decide for themselves and we should all respect each others views. Although I was raised Christian, I know something about Buddhism as I have a nephew who has adopted the religion and another who has married a Buddhist and I have great respect for their views. Blessings.
• United States
4 May 09
Pose- It's the universal question, isn't it? I don't feel anyone is 100% right or wrong. I feel that each has validity, and valued. We're all spiritual beings on a journey and are connected through the Divine regardless of practice or name. Namaste-Anora
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi Anora, You are absolutely right and thank you for coming here. Blessings.
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@John4Christ (1597)
• India
4 May 09
Ok just think about this....... If I place a glass of water half filled and I ask two different individuals to tell me what do they see ??????? One may see a glass which is half full with water And The other may say it is half empty but if you see both the sentences mean the same, that answers your question as to why people read the same book and still can interpret it so differently..... I fell this entire thing about this accepting thing and telling people that their faith is the right one is approved by psychology...... Whenever we experience something good in our lives and we feel that it is cut from the rest......you are always anxious to tell the next person that you meet......I feel that god has done such good things for me, when I fasted,did my confession,attended retreats that god did this for me......now when I look at this, I will say that it was because I did all the above mentioned things and hence god was so gracious to me..... So this chain is very normal.....whatever people do and something works for them they try to tell other people to do this and god with be merciful to them..... This very thing has resulted so many sects within the same church......nobody is wrong or right here.....everybody worships the one same god, but when we look at certain things in a different way we tend to change our minds..... I am a Roman Catholic by birth and still I am.....but I really don't like the way the church is going about its evangalisation work......there are many things which I disapprove of......but that does not mean I should leave this sect and join some other sect of Christianity....... I feel I was baptized once and I am really happy with it......why don't you bring about a change without any sect or religion.......JESUS never came about with a different church although the same people killed him he still used to worship in synagogues.....he could have come up with his own little sect if he wanted to...... So my question is when Jesus did not bother to divide Christians into small small groups then why are we as humans so interested ????
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
4 May 09
Hi John4Christ, Thank you for commenting and I like your well thought out response, it makes a lot of sense. I know it's true that when people find something that works for them, they are feeling so wonderful that they want their friends and family to experience the same thing. Many people forget that it may not work for the other person, but when you are on a natural high it seems hard to accept that this isn't right for everyone. When people leave one church for another, they eventually find things wrong with that sect. My thoughts are that we should all respect each other and agree to disagree. To me it's all about living, our whole life, our every thought is a prayer. Live as Jesus Christ and other great leaders taught, and there is no need to worry about the future. Blessings.