I feel so insulted and upset

This woman has crossed the line and is not only disrespecting you but trying to come between you and your boyfriend. He should cut off communication with her and tell her why. Block her from his Yahoo IM and his email. If he's not willing to do that then don't bother talking to her yourself. Women like her don't care about right and wrong and she's already important to him if he won't give her up.

It's very sad, but it happens if you allowed it to happen. before, it was Ok because there wasn't much of a liberation and lust but today i don't even think allowing this man to talk and chat with another woman is a good idea either. at least he was open to you and since you're a girl too, things like that might lead to somewhere that you hate, illicit affair.

If I am in your place, I will talk to my boyfriend and not the girl. The girl is trying to seduce your boyfriend but the mere fact is, your boyfriend likes to entertain that woman. If your boyfriend will stop talking and entertaining her, she will stopped for sure as she is being ignored.

Females are so inconsiderate. Its rare that you find a girl that actually cares if he is seeing someone or has a girlfriend. I think your boyfriend should be the one to tell her to stop writing or chatting. He created the situation and if he loves you he will let her know to knock it off. Especially if its causing problems in the relationship. Both of them should be held accountable. Its not just her fault.

hi, i think you should first talk to your guy, with his response you will no the next step to take.

What's there to be insulted and upset?Well maybe yeah...you'll feel that way but that's normal. Anyhow,you don't have to feel like that at all cause after all among the two of you,the one he chose is you and that's what matters most. You should be proud with your boyfriend cause he's very loyal to the point that he even forwarded those messages and emails the girl sent just for you to know and that you'll never be suspicious with his actions and for that i would gave your boyfriend a thumbs up,a symbol for good job. Yeah,talking to her would be the best solution. Let her understand the situation and maybe you can give her an advise as a woman and who knows you two can be good friends just tell her to mess up the relationship you have with your boyfriend and it's settled.

Tell your boyfriend not to chat with that lady in phillipines anymore.She should in now way harm your relation and your discuss this thing with your boy friend rather than pick up a conversation with that woman.Thanks

Your boyfriend seems to think that, because he didn't hide it or keep it a secret, that it's ok for him to be in contact with this woman. Why is he showing you her emails? It's like he is trying to make you jealous or trying to show you, for some reason, that someone else is interested in him. Even if he doesn't take this woman seriously or thinks it's all a big joke, he is disrespecting you and your feelings. The problem is not with the woman. You getting involved and "fighting for your man" is just going to stroke his ego. He has already shown her, by keeping in contact with her when she knows he has a girlfriend, that he doesn't value his current relationship very much. So, you need to be focusing your attention on your boyfriend (and, to a lesser degree, his friend who seems to think it's ok to give out your boyfriend's information to other women). Your boyfriend has all the power in the world to stop this situation immediately. He can stop all contact with her, block her email address and IMs or what have you. If you have asked him to do these things and he refuses, that's going to be a problem for your relationship in more ways than one. I wish you much luck and hope things get worked out!

The right thing to do is, your guys shouldn't entertain that lady. IF he gives time to reply to her messages that girl will think that he likes her too...lol. Why bother yourself talking to her? If she wont stop contacting him, I guess that would be the right to talk to her and tell her where she belongs and whom to flirt with. But don't give all the blame to the girl. You should also talk to your guy.

Hi, annierose! I'm a filipino girl but I dislike the behavior of this filipino girl you mentioned. I'm sorry about her. Don't worry, don't feel so upset, here's what I can advise you: yes, you may get her yahoo ID and talk to her. There's no need for a woman to woman talk, you may simply drop her a short diplomatic message, telling that your bf is no longer available and ask her to leave you and your bf alone, she may understand this and go away. However, just in case, she's one of those stubborn girls and won't listen, well, please pass me her yahoo ID or email and I'll be the one to take care of this ( no kidding ). Me and her will have a serious filipino-to-filipino talk. Ooooohhhhhh.......she'll surely be very unhappy about this!

Woah,that woman's numb. If I were you, I would get her Yahoo ID too and have a talk with her. She should know how to tell right from wrong. I would never let any woman like her near my boyfriend. That's just.. insane! I would have a talk with her on YM or call her through telephone or cellphone. Or if possible, I will ask her to meet with me. She should know where to place herself. You've loved already so there's no place for her anymore. By the way, is your boyfriend showing interest for the woman too? If he is, then that would be trouble.. Try to talk to the woman in a calm way. Don't push her too much. Know her intentions and if she's kind enough, she'll understand you. Jiayou girl!

I think your boyfriend should stop the contact with that woman.If he loves you,he should avoid this personal communication.I have a classmate,he sometimes contacts with me,before usually send messeges to me,my boyfriend is angry.Then I stop.I don't want to make him angry.You can talk with your boyfriend and tell him your feeling.I think he will understand you.

I agree with you to have a woman to woman and heart to heart talk with that lady that is allegedly stealing your boyfriend. Please do not forget to have heart to heart talk with your boyfriend also. If he loves you whoever will come and interfere with your relationship, whatever will happen, in good or bad times, he will always be by your side and loves you. When this lady sees how sweet and how in love both of you with each other I guess she will stop what she's doing with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend must do something also. He should stop communicating with that lady. In fairness with your boyfriend he is honest with you and that is one of the proof that he loves you.

First of all you need to address this situation with your boyfriend and let him know that you dont appreciate the fact that he is chatting with another female. You also need to tell him how inappropriate it is for this woman to keep contacting him, and the fact that he keeps responding to her doesnt make matters any better. He needs to cut all ties with this woman ,especially if he sees that you are not ok with this. There are a lot of females out here that dont really care if a man is involved already or has a family, so I dont know if its going to do any good for you to confront her, I think that is something that he needs to take care of. He brought this problem,into your life so now it should be his responsibility to handle this problem before it gets blown up into something really big.

It could help if you chat with the girl but never in an angry manner. But, always remember this, fidelity starts with your partner. Don't tolerate him chatting to anyone. If the girl even stops chatting with him after you personally send him a message, how sure are you that he's not going to start chatting with another girl? There are girls who get attracted to charming men and we can't blame them. Girls act on their feelings. They easily fall. Make him understand how it makes you feel and ask him to stop what he's doing. Why, in the first place, is he still chatting with other girls?

well get her address and inform her that he is your boyfriend. your boyfriend should also make a move by stop chatting with him, change email or else never answer to any of the girl's messages.

First of all, I don't really understand why does your guy do that. He first keep a secret from you, then he intend to show you he's in an online relationship with someone by showing you the messages. Plus, the woman know about you and doesn't seem to care. Does your guy flirt with her? (check the messages...) or she is the only with the feeling? If he did flirt around, you should talk to your guy first. Then, you can chat with the woman via her yahoo id. Email won't do much, the message never convey your feeling properly. Plus, you'll need time to send and reply. It will be a long conversation.

Cos Filipina are one of the sweeties women in the world. Some are still conservative in nature. Asians are cutie like Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, Malaysians, Vietnamese, Lao, Indons, Taiwanese, Nepalese and Indians are cute and kind. I love to talk with them.

She definitely went too far with trying to get with your boyfriend even though she knows he's dating you. It's not only disrespectful and rude, but very insulting to you. I would probably talk to her, too, if I were in your situation, but just remember to stay level-headed. Don't talk to her when you're angry and try not to be unreasonable just because she is. Getting angry never helped a situation. If worst comes to worst, talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and ask him to stop talking to her for a while. It's easy to block people over IM (trust me, I do it a lot) and if he has any respect for you then I'm sure he'd be more than willing. :)