Do you think that eyes can lie? Are people who can control all emotions?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
May 29, 2009 8:49am CST
How they can control all emotions? I can t imagine that somebody can control even eyes, when they lie. I know somebody who can control all, i mean can so easy to lie even he look in your eyes. I am just courios, how they can make this? if i have emotions, i can t hide, maybe only if i don t care...but what must to do somebody to hide all what he feel?
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@rselga (38)
• Philippines
29 May 09
yes...it can...lots people that i knew knows how to hide what they feel toward things...even you look into their eyes you'll see no emotion..its just they know how to control it or so called "deceiving"...but only few in million knows how to...
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
you right, i read definition, seems that is very hard for somebody to lie everybody, but is possible
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@amitnaik (471)
• India
29 May 09
well its good that you can't hide emotions because that tells how much honest and true you are to the people.even i know a few fellows who can easily control their eyes!.i think its just the great confidence in them for such things.if its for good cause (like depression),then definitely its good to hide emotions. Anyway nice and unique question!!
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
I never can hide my emotions, i can hide just my fairs, maybe because i don t like to let people to see that i am afraid.
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• United States
29 May 09
I think emotion is controlled. People who lie repeatedly there eyes stay the same because they are beliving what they are saying. I know some people who try to lie and are thinking as they do it and their eyes through them off. There are some people who are stronger than others so their emotions don't show as much as others.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
I think that who can hide emotions and can lie all time, have a lot of self confidence, and need a lot of exercises, i mean that they lie everybody...
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@hanah87 (1846)
• Malaysia
29 May 09
Yes,eye can also lie people.It is depend to some people.Some people cannot lie because their eye show something they try to hide.Today,many people know how to lie by hide their fear inside deeply from their eyes.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
if i try to lie, i can t look in somebody eyes, this is sure.
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@Margajoe (4721)
• Germany
29 May 09
A person that can hide his/her emotions, has no feelings. That is why you cannot see it. Could mean this person have been hurt or disappointed in life too many times. They tend to shut off there feelings. Have a great day.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
so, he lose trust in people and now try to revenge? and first question will be .."why me?"
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@rselga (38)
• Philippines
29 May 09
not all persons hide their emotion has no feelings....its just that they dont want other people know what they fell...or they dont want to be a burden from others...
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@Margajoe (4721)
• Germany
29 May 09
No, he is not trying to revenge. Some people just don't do it on purpose. I am sorry it happened to you. Have you tried talking to this person? Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that what this person is doing is good. I am just pointing out, how people become this way. Keeping this in consideration, might make it easier to forgive?
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@jugsjugs (13046)
29 May 09
Alot of people can lie without any facial expressions at all as well as look at you when they lie.I know someone who can do that very easily and has done for alot of years.I think the reason people can lie with out any expression is because they dont really know when they are telling a lie and they have always lied so they are very used to it.
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
30 May 09
Hi, you want to say that are people who all time lie?Is possible?
@qiyunhai (254)
• China
29 May 09
i recommen you to watch the series "lie to me'',it sure eyes can lie to our normal people. if you are trained and expert, you will recogniz eif eyes is lieing,the TV is very nice, have a chance to enjoy it
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
I don t know if we have here this series, but i am sure that is very intersting.
@silvercoin (2102)
• Lithuania
29 May 09
Yes,eyes can lie too.Once I looked in the eyes of a person I loved.I looked carefully to understand what's the real state of his soul.I couldn't find an answer.Two beautiful cold diamonds that say nothing.It was like white page in a book where I could read nothing.I was upset.Some people can hide and control emotions so you can never figure out what they think and feel.I don't like them.It's so inhuman.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
29 May 09
Hi, you very right , is unhuman when somebody try to hide his feelings
@thebri (38)
• Philippines
31 May 09
yes.. I could tell coz sometimes I do that..even if I'm lying I still look on the person's eyes..If your a good lier you could look at a person's eyes even if you are lying..
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
30 May 09
The eyes are the mirror of the soul. There is NO way ANYBODY can hide their emotions when it comes to their eyes. I don't care how sly they maybe or they think they are, there is just no way. Believe me, I have met A LOT of people in my life and have ALWAYS been able to tell if someone is lying or not. It's not that I think I am an expert or anything like that, it is just absolutely impossible to hide it when it comes to a person's eyes.
• China
30 May 09
his eyes show nothing just because he always tell lies,lol such a people so to speak is crafty scoundrel
@Ritchelle (3797)
• Philippines
30 May 09
everybody is different. everyone has a talent. as they say: a talent is a talent is a talent. some people are born liars. some are practiced liars. so, some people can get away with lying even if we look them in the eye.
@syankee525 (6298)
• United States
30 May 09
if i try to lie i smile. so i dont even try. but yeah there is other things people do when they lie, sometime they dont even know that they do them. and i can tell 85% when someone is lying
@soumeshp (103)
• Australia
30 May 09
Physiologically speaking, your pupils dilate when you lie, due to sympathetic activity associated with lying. Basically, your fight-and-flight response is activated as lying is associated with stress, and your body instinctively turns up certain mechanism in preparation. Things like measuring BP, respiratory rate and other minor things will betray your honesty. You can control your face and keep your eyes straight and lie without getting caught, assuming the other person is not observing your pupils, which is unlikely unless you are talking to a psychiatrist, psychologist or therapist in these regards who know about these things. I like to remain stoic and keep emotions in check, because I tend toward a logical path. I don't find it hard to hide emotions, which is both an advantage and disadvantage in society.
@vnrsudhan (1514)
• India
30 May 09
hi icesmile, i can control all my emotions except my eyes.whenever someone tries to hide their emotion their eyes won't hide them.no wonder in the saying"YOUR EYES HAVE BETRAYED YOU".
@xParanoiax (7005)
• United States
30 May 09
No one can control all their emotions...there are people who can control almost all of what you SEE of their emotions, though. Being a good liar takes practice. It's a skill. Some people're naturally born with the ability. Me? I'm not a half bad liar in this sense. I'm very good at hiding my emotions or true thoughts when the need arises. I can smile, look a person in the face, etc. HOWEVER, lemme debunk one myth; The best liars' biggest flaw is making a point of looking people in the eyes. Looking away is only done by people who feel guilty about the fact they're lying, or if they suck at lying. It's a good tell. ^_^ Anyways, I don't use my skill unless it's needed (like if my life's in danger, or someone wants to otherwise hurt me or someone else). I do seem to be very good at lying, camoflaging my actions, and such...but it's never been something I'm always proud of. I've never used my skills for malicious purposes and I hope that I'll never have to.
• India
30 May 09
sure eyes can lie if matter is serues but eyes can not lie when you are wrong i life i see many people they can control every emotions .. and about feelings if you need to lie for saveing someone you will never feel bad. but if you are lieing for bad thing you wil regret it latter in past life