Very Low Down Discusting Thing To DO!

I hate when girls like this have "agendas" like that. I've recently had a similar situation happen with one of MY sisters' friends; and it just shows how conceited and self-centered some people are! I mean, having self-confidence is great, but being so horrible and conceited that you're willing to try to break up a long-term relationship just so you can get some more attention from guys is just RIDICULOUS and is majorly crossing a line that shouldn't be crossed. And honestly, it doesn't matter if she's cute or butt ugly - it would still be wrong, even if it was Heidi Klum trying to break up the relationship. That's just not morally and ethically RIGHT. Not to mention ILLEGAL if anything did end up happening (which..hopefully nothing will. Hopefully your brother is sensible and secure with his relationship, and hopefully his rejection will put this wild girl back in her place). I think it's good that you warned him. That's a very sisterly thing to do; it shows that you're looking out for him. I definitely agree with what you did - you shouldn't think twice about it. And on a side note, why would that girl tell you her vicious plans to begin with, considering her victim is your brother. Of course you're going to tell him. She obviously didn't think that one through.

You were right in what you did,,,setting someone up like that is never right, and someone trying to steal a guy is also extremely skanky,,,,you did the right thing in informing your brother that there was going to be a set-up on him,,,,I'm just reading this all and can't believe that your family would do something so backstabbing and devious, so no you are totally in the right and your family and sister's friend are in the wrong,,,good for y

That is a dirty and low down thing to do, for her and your family. He is the one that must love and care for the person HE will be living with. It does not have much to do with what they want, of course they want to get along with the wife he has. But for them to ruin his chance with the girl he wishes to marry is down right wrong, as you well know. I would have done the same thing as you did. I would also make sure that his girlfriend was there too, if this was possible. I would also tell my family that it's none of their business who my brother marries, he is going to live with her not them. I would tell the other girl that is doing this stupid thing the family asked her to do...that she needs to butt out. I'd tell her, no matter what the family has done that she is not welcome there and that she has to leave. I would have to stick up for my brother. I always have when I needed to.

Actually, I comment you! Aplause apluse. Your family did this to you and what they are doing is flat out wrong. Sooooo many shades of wrong. The brag point that she had to do pretty much spells out her character. Eww. It's good your brother has the heads up and you're right, if he gets into a situation with this little girl then he needs his head examed too. Aside for the whole relationship with a minor thing, he's in a committed relationship and doesn't need to be looking at anything. I would have done the same as you for giving your brother the heads up. I think I also would have said exactly what I thought of the little tramp and then gone to my other family members and spell it out to them just how low they really are. Hope you can find a place of your own soon and move up to a better standard of living. Sounds like they all drive on drama.

i would have told him aswell i think you did the right thing, you are right aswell if he falls for it it shows how weak he realy is, any loke in there right mine would be able to see it was a set up hopefully

I believe you acted very correctly. That is a very low thing to do. If your family had a problem with your brother's fiancée, the very least they could do was talk to him and try to tell him why exactly they do not like her. This is as much your family's fault as it is that girl's. Anyway, you did well to warn him beforehand. Kudos to you!

I think you did the right thing by notifying your brother. She's 17. If something happens, your brother might get into trouble messing with someone under age. Hope he remains faithful to his fiancee and doesn't leave with your sister's friend.

I think you did the right thing, what she is doing is disgusting, and if he really loves his girlfriend he will have nothing to do with it.

Nope...you did right but ya know...even if he fell for it not knowing...it'd still be all wrong. Obviously if he fell for it then he has no business getting married.

I think you did the right thing. that is a low-down trick, but like you said, if he KNOWS what she's doing and still falls for it, then he shouldn't be getting married.

I believe that you did the proper thing.