Who has/ have been so generous? Thanks anyway!

@mimpi1911 (25455)
India
June 29, 2009 6:07am CST
I just noticed that I have been pulled down to NO 3 from NO 1 in the leader board of this PS group. Now, some one has been kind enough to do it. The rankings hardly matter but the vindictive air of myLot still prevails. That's most annoying and alarming. I know this will cost me more of my mylot reputation, but how does it matter! To make a discussion, why are people so vindictive even on platforms where we hardly have anything to do with another??
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@paula27661 (15900)
• Australia
29 Jun 09
Like James, I am at a loss to understand how it all works and although I realise that rankings are not the be all and end all it is still annoying to consider that the results may be due to maliciousness. You’re number one as far as I’m concerned. You post excellent well written discussions! People are just nasty…
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
Awwhh sweet of you! You make me feel special Paula. How have you been? Sorry, I keep missing your discussions. Will catch up with you. I am hardly bothered about the grade fall though but as you have said the maliciousness is gross. Love you dear.
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@paula27661 (15900)
• Australia
30 Jun 09
I have been fine mimpi, keep doing what you are doing! Take care xx
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
Thanks Paula. I keep missing you a lot. You be fine and happy.
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@drannhh (15002)
• United States
30 Jun 09
Bummer, grrrl. I haven't even checked to see what color my star is lately. Maybe I don't want to know. 'Tis a sad thing when my friend Mimpi takes a hit in the rankings. Sad indeed, but cheer up as you have many more friends here than enemies.
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
Hey, it's more about the maliciousness around. I am hardly bothered. I just have an eager pair of sharp eyes! lol.. Thanks for being my friend.
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
29 Jun 09
Hi Mimpi! How are you/ Have been totally tied up in the home front but when I saw this discussion on the mail notifications , I just could not resist it.What does this ranking signify and what is PS? I must go check mine .All that I know is sometimes people sudenly mark us negative [ perhaps they do not like some responses of ours or what I just cannot figure out] because one fine day my blue star turned red and it has remained so ever since. This I can understand -- that people mark it negative; but what is the ranking part and how does it work? Does it also come down when people mark our responses or discussions negative?
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@kalav56 (11503)
• India
29 Jun 09
Or is this related to Best responses? Today after I read your discussion I went over all my rankings patiently and I did not even know it was so significant [ what is the significance?]Does it affect your star?
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
29 Jun 09
Yes Mimpi! I too found it very strange when my star dropped suddenly.What is the point?--but does this have any adverse effect like our account getting terminated or anything ?Or is it just jealousy and negative marking of responses??--and I have a ranking of 2/2 [in one particular interest] what is the meaning?
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
29 Jun 09
another intersting thing is -one minute back it was two out of two now it is 1 out of 1 I jsut cannot figure it out
@Opal26 (17694)
• United States
29 Jun 09
Hi mimpi! I don't know what to say! I have been wondering the same thing myself for quite awhile now! I don't know why some people feel that they have to be so competitive and vindictive. I have only tried to do my best to have a good time here, but lately even my supposed friends have been pushing me to have to defend myself and I am really getting a bit tired of all this drama! I have enough drama and backstabbing in my real life and don't need it here too!
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I agree Opal. People are malicious and they are jealous even when they have any clue! Having said this there are good people who get us going. You being one such person and I really love you.
@Opal26 (17694)
• United States
2 Jul 09
And you are one of the sweetest people that I know too Mimpi! And I truly love you too!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
2 Jul 09
You just made me day and I guess you know that its mutual!
@doryvien (2293)
• United States
29 Jun 09
I find it odd that I'm responding to a discussion dominated by "high-ranking" members with thousands of posts already, while here I am, someone who hasn't even reached 100 posts. But the topic come to me as something new and very interesting, and very intriguing too. Until now I haven't really paid attention to the rankings that you and the other respondents talk about so passionately, apparently so because I don't have any reason to worry about it yet...I understand your feelings, I would feel the same way if it happens to me. The good thing is, with your stature here at myLot, there's not a doubt in my mind that you would be able to regain the glory in no time. When I joined myLot I found a warm and refreshing community where members share and support one another in whatever way they can. But just like any group there are some members who are not so friendly and to some extent, opt to do unfriendly gestures. Whoever that is, can you imagine how he/she feels now just reading the exchanges on this discussion? Must be very difficult already. Talk about karma. Cheers!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
It feels very good about the fact that someone is so kind to have judged the whole scenario so impartially and your opinion counts very much since you are unbiased as we are meeting for the first time ever. Thanks doryvien. I really appreciate your viewpoint and thanks for sharing your story with us. Many here tend to take difference of opinion as a negative criticism and things get worse with not so pleasant speech patterns. I look forward to a great proactive interaction with you. Have anice time and happy myLotting.
@doryvien (2293)
• United States
30 Jun 09
Hi Mimpi, I know I'm in good company here at myLot and I intend to stay the longest time possible. Warm regards and happy myLotting!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I know you will doryvien and I will look up to your discussions. Thanks.
@Sreekala (18782)
• India
30 Jun 09
Hi Mimpi, How are you? I am sorry to learn that you have pulled down from the number one position . Do you think it happened due to negative rating? I think the leader board is based on the activities (the most active person will come up to the top) and if the other person becomes more active than you, then you dropped from the first position. This is my guessing dear I don’t think somebody rated you negative because you are so sweet and a hard worker and I really appreciate your works. Anyway I understand your feelings when going to down from top because once I lost my10 star, it may not be a big issue but the loss is a loss. I hope you will regain the top position soon.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
It could be a cumulative pattern of pro activity and ratings. Anyway, I am not bothered about my rankings as much as I am with the maliciousness around. Thanks dear for your sweet words. How was your holiday? Hope you had a great time!
@ShellyB (5244)
• United States
30 Jun 09
I do not believe I am no 1 in anything on mylot. I am sure it was not done on purpose tho. To answer your question, some people are just mean spirited in the net and real life, there is really not a reason but their nature.
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
You are just so right!
• Malaysia
29 Jun 09
Normally, it's done by a group in the society of "people with no problem always creates problems". Whatever, you have done good social engineering work by saying the words "Thanks anyway" - hopes it repetitively beats their eardrums and "jiggle" their brain or should their eyeballs pull out from the sockets?. They are not the Jai Ho group. Not much can help, calm down...take deep breath...push your drive gear and keep moving forward with 4words.
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
Well said! And we MUST move on and ignore or else they get on us. And I know for sure that you are a forerunner in the "Jai Ho' group , a leader so to speak.
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
29 Jun 09
this situation has been happening for quite some time now and there is nothing really that we can do about it... my advice to you is just to ignore it and don't let it affect you too much... otherwise, you will let the trolls to get the satisfaction that they want by doing this to you... i am sorry that this is happening to you... but it happen and just hang on there... take care and have a nice day...
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@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
Thanks Lingli, I have succesfully moved on from this.
@dpk262006 (53738)
• Delhi, India
29 Jun 09
Hi Mimpi! It is really bad that you have been relegated to No.3 from No.1 position in the Leader Board of Panda Spanking Group. I am not aware how the position gets changed on the Leader Board and if members can influence the position on Leader Board or is it done by mylot. Anyway, you deserved to be number one in the each group, in my view because of your excellent contribution in various discussions here on mylot. Have a great day!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
29 Jun 09
C'mon Deepak! You are being sweet as always. The ranking hardly matters though. I just cannot stand the jealousy. You must give them a consolidated class on weekly basis. What do you think?
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@dpk262006 (53738)
• Delhi, India
30 Jun 09
Mimpi! Honestly speaking you deserve all accolade for your relentless efforts here on mylot and making it a wonderful site with your quality contributions. C'mon Mimpi, please leave your jealosy aside, it is not going to do any good to you. Please be broad minded and just carry on the way you execute your activities here on mylot. I won't mind giving them a weekly consolidated class, provided I am given an opportunity.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
Thanks. Thanks. thanks. And you are going overboard. lol.. And what kind of oppurtunity?
@James72 (26832)
• Australia
29 Jun 09
You know what mimpi, for the life of me, I can;t work out how he heck these rankings are determined??? You were number 1, posted a discussion with close to 20 responses and then the next day you go to number 3??? A similar thing happened to me a few weeks back too. The more active I became, the further down the rankings I slid and at one stage I was 4th! At first I was concerned about it and then I decided to not give a toss anymore. All I know is that my own activity in this interest is more than double the nearest person's, so the only thing that could be happening is that I'm getting negative rated. Good for whoever's doing it I say because they're the ones with issues, not you or me! You'll always be known as a dedicated spanker and you have been from day one. Bugger the lot of 'em!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
29 Jun 09
James, when I see vindictive souls around who have an issue or two with whatever, go around spoiling the sanity of a beautiful forum like this, it hurts. I find this gross and NOT SO MYLOTTIAN! I know your case and now my case. I have no problem with you all. I love to see you and Mabel and all my friends ahead of me. That's not the point and I know you know that. But why on earth, pulling down someone!!?? Having said this, I am not going to give up to their whims! I am going to push myself further and upward and forward. I will spank more, i will spank like never before. This is an open challenge to them.
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@James72 (26832)
• Australia
29 Jun 09
That's the spirit! I say spankyou, spankyou very much to the negative people for they shall never win in the long run! Many peple may wonder why it even matters, but when you put so much effort into something lik this, it DOES sting a little when things like this happen. Anyways, onwards and upwards and let's spankify the world!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
29 Jun 09
Was I not doing that!! I guess, not the way I should have been or it was deserved from me. You know - the work pressure and monotony stuffs..and all that! But thanks to this act of cowardice that's gave me a real push!! Congratulations on your 6000 and thanks for pacifying me. It got on me too hard!
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@mathss1 (1182)
• United States
1 Jul 09
It's the curse of the pandas you started a discussion (imitating pandas) maybe the gr8 panda lord sitting in heaven found your discussion derogatory and punished you for it Lol
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
So, that then!! I am sure that must be it! You are spot on mathss!
@mathss1 (1182)
• United States
1 Jul 09
I have another theory about the panda curse I dare not talk about it or it may bring wrath upon me I can only implore you to stop spanking innocent pandas
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
2 Jul 09
Hi! The more you spank, the more you liberate yourself, your peers, your surrounding and the Pandas as well. BTW, you can PM me about it.
@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
1 Jul 09
I don't really understand the ranking system in leader board, mimpz! I thought the more active we are in one particular interest is a better chance to stay in the rank, but that doesn't seem to work! I guess some people are just jealous and enjoying what their doing! Just try to ignore them, dear.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I think, its a combining effect of our active participation and ratings. It is really confusing. Anyway, I am over it now. Right now, I am having a nice time with the kids. How have you been? Hope you are good now.
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@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
23 Jul 09
Thanks for the BR, mimpz.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
27 Jul 09
@nanajanet (4437)
• United States
29 Jun 09
What is the PS Group? I do not pay attention to rankings, just discussions, but wondering what it's about.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
Sorry dear. PS as in Panda Spanking interest group and you need not bother. These are petty stuffs!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
1 Jul 09
I'm the same dear, thanks. I'm glad to hear that your having a nice time with the kids.
@CJay77 (4441)
• Australia
1 Jul 09
Oh, sorry, this supposed to be up in your comments! I didn't know what happened then, lol.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
Nice to see you and as long as I can do that nothing matters. Yes, the kids are fun fun to be with. They are monkeys literally jumping on me!
@krajibg (11942)
• Guwahati, India
30 Jun 09
The leader board is a mysterious thing for me. I was at no 1 in 'Listeners' and yesterday saw that I was at 3. Ok no problem. Same thing as it happened to you. An act of generosity. Your PANDAmonium must have done this I guess. Just relax, nothing is going to change your earning and reputation. Vindictive people are around and therefore the world is so beautiful.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I love it! The bad people makes the goodness in others so very find and beautiful!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
'fond and beautiful'.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10424)
• United States
30 Jun 09
Hi Mimpi...I would not pull down anyone's rank, even if I knew how, which I do not. This has happened to me on a poet ranking site. I don't know what to say, except that jealousy and competiveness make small-minded people do petty things. I am sorry that this happened to you :( Karen
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I am sorry Karen. These things keep happening and that what makes good people so beautiful!
• India
30 Jun 09
Hi mimpi, I am also not one who has even reached five hundred post. But I do check the leaderboard to see who are at the top to get encouragement to reach there once. It really hurts when some members here undertake negative activities and most of the time without enough of reason, just with the intention to harm others. I was thinking if mylot introduces some measure to find how the people are acting - with proper reason or otherwise to separate these group out who are spoiling such a nice forum where there is no place of things like jealousy. I have also tasted the effect of negative minds. However, for now, please keep on your activities without bothering about them, which you will do and perhaps I am not yet qualified to put forward any such suggestion to one like you who is at the numero uno position. Happy that I am a part of this nice social group.
@mayka123 (9549)
• India
30 Jun 09
The last I checked my rankings in the groups was about a year ago. After seeing the rankings swinging so rapidly I just gave up. How can we be No 1 one day and No 3 or 4 the next? I just failed to understand this and stopped checking. All that matters to me now is that all my friends here are still around and starting enough discussions for me to respond to!!!
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
1 Jul 09
I think, that's the best thing to do.
@bjcyrix (6857)
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
Oh, hmm, I guess politics is everywhere, even when we least expect it, even when we dont expect it at all I guess. Sad thing about this is,.. even on myLot. At first I was thinking that perhaps in your absence(in this interest)another member has been very active on this interest, making discussions, responding to discussions under this interest or just plain commenting on every response. I know that in this way, one can be the top 1 in an interest. Then again, that made me think that rating someone negative might have a bearing on one's interest rankings. Im just not sure about this. But that is also a possibility. Well, in any case, I know you can be number 1 in this interest's leaderboard again.
@mimpi1911 (25455)
• India
30 Jun 09
Thanks BJ. I am not that bothered my fall in rank. Both the guys leading before me are great spankers and they are very good friends. I am more concerned about the congeniality of the place. Anyways, things like this will happen and it happens. we can only ignore and move on. Thanks dear.
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