How does your child get to school?

@thea09 (18305)
Greece
July 4, 2009 12:36pm CST
My son often complains about having to walk to the bus stop to get the school bus in the mornings even though the walk is less than ten minutes. I tell him that when I was a child I had to walk to my primary school which was a mile away. When the school bus driver went on strike at the end of last term for 4 weeks I had to drive him every day as there is a busy crossroads with lots of traffic early on. Even so it would take at the most only 25 minutes for him to walk. I'm sure there are many children out there who still have to walk miles to school. So how does your child get to school?
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@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
12 Jul 09
I drive my kids to school and pick them up each day. It is only an 8 minute drive to their school but much too dangerous for them to walk as it is a winding country road. There is a school bus that goes there, but cannot see the point in paying for that service when I can drive them. I work from home so I can easily do this. :-)
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
12 Jul 09
Hello RawBill, your drive seems to take about the same amount of time as mine and ours is also a winding country road, quite narrow, but with an intersection that makes it too busy in the mornings for my son to cross. Unlike you I don't have to pay for the school bus service, it is free. However the return service only operates for the end of morning lessons at 1.30 and does not run for the end of the optional school day which ends at 4. So as this service is not provided the parents who opt for all day school are credited with a yearly payment into our banks to cover the lack of service. I think that is pretty unique and have never heard of it being implemented else where.
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@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
12 Jul 09
Wow Thea, I have never heard of a school day like that before. I thought everyone in the world just sent their kids to school for the day and that was it. It seems strange to me having that option! I am not sure if that would work over here in Australia. :-)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
Yes, RawBill...it's safer for the children and you have 8 mins everymorning to talk each other before they go in to school..it's a nice family moment :)
@bin22l (160)
• Guwahati, India
5 Jul 09
I understand the problem.Todays kids wants to live a luxurious life and sometime they don't bother for their parents.My kids also don't like to walk even to a farlong to the school bus, even the don't like the idea of goin to scool in schoolbus.They incist me to buy a car for them.But proper counseling may find a solution.Be friendly to them,teach them that walking is a good healthy exercise.In my times we too walk more than a mile to our school.But in those days we lived in a joint family, and all my cousins and friends form neighbour walk togethr to the school.That's a great pleasure,we walked playfully. But now a days that environment is not there, we become nucleous family, even neigbours kids are in all different schools.As lots of schools come up. For diferent status different schools. Most kids become alone.So the problem grows. We have to adjust with the situtation.
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@bin22l (160)
• Guwahati, India
6 Jul 09
thats sound nice,problem of heavy school bag is also here, but most parents carry it for the kids either to bus or to the school,if school is near.As one primary school is their all your neighbours' children must go there, as it in our childhood.It's very enjoyable.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
6 Jul 09
Hi bin, well the problem is my son's school bag is way too heavy for me to carry, I really wish they would introduce some kind of locker system at school so the kids don't have to cart their books around every day.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
The children here don't really care about a luxurious life as they have so many natural things to enjoy. I suspect that my son's reluctance to walk is more down to the weight of his school bag and the wish for an extra ten minutes in bed in the morning. We only have one primary school in the area and for children's after school activities which are further afield we are able to share the driving with the other parents.
@littleone3 (2063)
5 Jul 09
My three eldest children who are at secondary school all walk to school as it is only about a 15 minute walk from our house. My primary age son used to walk to school but that was when he was attending the school across the road from us. Since he changed schools he does occasionally get driven to school but that is usually when the weather is bad. I will usually walk him up to school and take the dog with me as that means the dog gets his morning walk as well. My 3 year old attends pre-school which is just across the road from us so of course he walks as well with me his dad or one of his bigger brothers.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
Your children are lucky to be close enough to walk to school. I agree that it is when the weather is bad that the car has to come out.
@azlin_04 (112)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
Hi thea! My kids goes to school by schoolvan ( 2 of them)together with my neigbour's kid. Their school is queit far and I am a working mom so that's the best solution here. When I in Primary and Secondary School, I used school bus since my school is so far away from my village!!I remember that my big brother used his bicycle to school together with all the neigbours boys...my father trusted him then because he's the only boy in family so his upbringing a bit tougher than me.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
That's interesting that only your bother was trusted to go by bicycle.
@TrvlArrngr (4045)
• United States
5 Jul 09
luckily we have a school bus. Though school starts way too early here. They have to be at the bus stop at 620am - ugh!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
Gosh that is early, I thought school started early here at 8am.
@RawBill1 (8531)
• Gold Coast, Australia
12 Jul 09
Wow! I have enough trouble getting my kids ready for their 9AM start!!!
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
School here start at 07.00 am, thanks God that his school near from our house so my son could wake up at 06.00 am every morning and never late arrive a school :)
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Dear thea, Oh yes, during our time our school bus is real pack like a sardine can. Since I'm staying in rural area in a secluded estate, the pulic transport is so irregular, sometimes only 2 hours once to go downtown. The Government school is in town, the one in estate is the Indian school where they taught everything in Tamil and only up to Primary Six. Most of my brothers and my sisters will walk five miles daily if they have extra co-curriculum. The school bus only makes 2 fixed trips, that's it! But the new generation is luckier, parent will make arrangement like school bus, private transporter, drivers, car 'pool' or personally send by parents or those well to do they have personal 'driver' too! Those who stay like a block or two away, they walk. When those smaller children, they will have maid to accompany them walking and carry the school bag. For myself, since I left my job to ensure my son have proper meals, do his homework, etc - therefore I am his unpaid 'transporter'..
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Hi Iriene, that is unbelievable the change between the safety of your own school days and present day. I understand why you take your son to school. Sometimes children can disappear or be taken by strangers in Western coutries but you make it sound as if this a regular threat in Malayasia. The thought of a child being stolen like that for organs is horrible, and young girls raped from school. I hope the authorities there have made an effort to stop these practices. Are the organs stolen to take to other middle east countries or are the reasons unknown. I presume the people who do this are being paid by a third party, I hope that they are exposed and punished too if the person is caught.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Dear thea, Btw, during our time walking in a rural area, miles and miles, even after sunset is safe. But nowadays, even broad dayllight, in a crowded place, in front of the school is no longer safe. There are cases secondary school children being kidnapped and raped. Some kidnapped for ransom, to sell the organs or being amputated and became forced beggars. Two three years ago, there are cases children was stolen, almost every week for some ritual. It is real scary, witnesses saw the girl was catch and forced into a van at a night market, she screamed but no one came to help. Two weeks later, she was found being raped and killed. It is really not safe nowadays..
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
5 Jul 09
When I was in school I usually took the bus in the morning...and then when I started high school, my dad and I would leave at the same time so he would drive me to school because even though the high school was about 1.5 miles from my house it was on his way out of town, so he drove me everyday until my senior year when I got my first car. I very rarely took the bus home from school because I always had my sports or some after school program so my mom would have to pick me up (unless it was during senior year) because by the time I got out it was almost dark. A couple of times I did walk home from school but that was when I missed the bus and my mom wasn't around to pick me up from school.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
Hi dreamr, I guessed you must be from the States as it seems to be that kids there get their own cars early and drive to school, that definietely seems to be an American thing. For some reason I have never understood the children here aren't even allowed to use their bikes to get to school.
• India
23 Aug 09
Drop Son To School .. - Son Goes to School
I Drop my Son To School Daily .. He Has The Luxury of A Chauffeur Driven Car For Drop As Well As Pick Up From School .. He's A Lucky Guy I Must Say as I Used to Walk Daily Around A Kilometer In The Hot Sun To Reach School .. He Says He Likes To Go By School Bus As he Can Have a Nice time Talking With His Friends .. He's Too Small To Walk To School Alone And He has No School Mates Nearby .. So I Have to Double up As A Driver ..
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
23 Aug 09
Hi Prash, I'm presuming from that the chauffeur is you, children certainly make us feel like that and it's even worse in the holidays. I drove my son every day until the last year as didn't think he was old enough to walk to the busstop safely, our own dirt track is fine, well it's a total mess but it's safe, but then he has to use the road to the pick up point and some of the cars come tearing down at great speeds. I think another factor though is the weight of the bag of school books which they must carry home every day, I can't even pick it up it is so heavy. They have no facility to leave their many books at school overnight.
• India
5 Jul 09
As the School is closeby I Cant Ask my Son to Go by The School Bus . He is Too Young to Travel By public Transport Or Walk alone . This Leaves Me With Only One Option I Drop Him To Schoo everyday and am Safe He is not complaining ............. LoL ....
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
I did that too when my son was very young but that was in the UK. Here the school buses won't take responsibility for the children until primary school age.
@4mymak (1793)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
my primary-school going children (2 of them) go to school on the school bus.. their school is quite far, they have to cross a major, very busy road if they were to walk to school - i will risk them doing that.. and if they have any after school activities, and the schoolbus wont take them - i would tell them to miss the activity, or i would try to arrange anyone of their friends' parents to take them..
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
The busy roads are a problem certainly, what I call a busy crossroads in probably nothing compared to usual busy roads.
• United States
5 Jul 09
Hi thea09!Well, now my children ride the bus being that there school is about 10 miles away, which makes sense to me. However, about 2 yrs ago we lived in another city about 20 miles from where we are at now and this school district didnt have any buses, yes, none at all! I was not happy with this because we lived a good 2+ miles from the school and the only two ways were very high traffic streets. It was a long walk with hills and dangerous too. I guess the school districts budget couldn't afford it!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
Hi marlena, that is sad that there was no budget for a school bus. It makes me feel very lucky to live here. Glad you have a school bus now.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
5 Jul 09
Dear thea, Fortunately, the school where I went to primary and high school was only about 150 meters from our house. And so as the schools where our kids go to, is only about 60 meters for the pre-school and 250 meters for our primary school kid. But our freshman girl goes to school by riding a tricycle, a motorcycle with attached cabin for passengers. Tricycle ride is only about 10 minute ride for a 7 pesos fare.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
A tricycle ride sounds good fun.
22 Aug 09
Well I don't have any children but I remember that I always walked to school when I was younger which was about a mile and a half. Things is back then it was the normal thing to do and those who caught busses generally came to school from the outside villages. You just have to look at the lack of traffic on the roads at rush hour time during the summer holidays to realise that a lot of children get driven to school. Whether that is down to children being lazy or over protective parents I'm not sure but it does shock me when each morning the lady who lives opposite me drives her son to school which is less than a 10 minute walk.
@chrismei (22)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 09
Hi, Thea.., My son only needs 5 minutes to walk to school everyday cause his school near our house, so his Nanny could bring his warm lunch meals everyday. Children need walk a moment under the sun morning, it makes them healthy :)
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
I agree with the morning walk, it can get pretty cold early in the morning here though in winter especially when it is only just getting light.
@kircho (493)
• Bulgaria
4 Jul 09
My son always go to school without using the public transport. It's not fait to say that it's not useful, but when using public transport, you save time. So, I hope he will become to go to school by bus for example.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
4 Jul 09
I hope that you are able to get a school bus for your child soon, they are wonderful things when they are actually running.
@daryljane (3406)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
My father drives my son to school everyday, and pick him up 3 horus after. he is still in kinder so classes here only takes 3 hours. The school is like a mile away from the house, since my dad doesnt have work, so he is the one driving the kids to school. But when im home and dont have work, im the one who brings him to school, i hang out with the other parents in the school, then gos home after class. But this only happens like once a week, so mostly its the my dad who does the honor. lols!
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
You are lucky to have your father to help out with your son. Hope you are able to keep up the same pattern when your son starts primary school.
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
5 Jul 09
My grandson is to go to primary school coming semester. The transport is under consideration as it is not on the way his parents going to work. They will have to get up earlier, or hire a help, or some other means. Decades ago, we went to school by ourselves, and in the country, children go a longer way through hills or across streams. But in cities, for the heavy traffic, and other concerns, few would go by themselves until a bit grown up. And school buses are not popular except for few private schools. It remain a big issue for the parents. Sometimes, grandparents are involved to support if living nearby. So far we are still awaiting last notice.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
I hope that transport is sorted for your grandson. It is interesting to hear the difference between decades ago and now, I am sure children must have been much more hardy then.