how old were you when you found out there was no santa?

United States
October 25, 2009 5:30pm CST
the topic of this discussion says it all. so how old were you when you first found out that santa is not real? how did it make you feel, were you upset, or did you had a feeling that he wasn't real? i know there are alot of questions in this discussion, but i didn't want to start a new discussion for each one. so just answer which ever one you want. do you tell your kids that there is a santa? thanks for replying.
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@colu41 (271)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I think i was 7 or 8. When I kind of caught my parents doing some present setups! =D
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• United States
27 Oct 09
i'm glad i never caught my parents, boy would i have been mad, but only for a little while. it was nice while it lasted. thanks for sharing and for responding. have a nice day!!! :)
@Rondita (92)
• United States
26 Oct 09
i was about 10 years old when i knew there was no santa because i stayed up all nite long and seen my parents putting presents under the tree but never see santa.I was upset then my parents finally told me no santa..
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• United States
27 Oct 09
i was scared to stay up and wait for santa because i always thought that he wouldn't come until i went to sleep. i don't know what i would have said to him if he was real and i had the opportunity to see him when i was smaller. thanks for sharing with us and for responding!!!! :) have a nice day
@Keola12 (799)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I was eight years old when my brothers and I found out there is no Santa. My brothers and I were playing in the closets of the house, when we discovered the presents my mother hid in one of the closets of our house. At first when they disappeared from under the tree, we thought that Santa took them to his workshop. At least that was what my mother wanted us to believe. When we discovered the presents hidden in the closet, we confronted her about it and about how there is no Santa. Then she told us, well, I guess you are all old enough to know the truth. My brothers were 6 and 5.
• United States
27 Oct 09
i can't remember my exact age when i first found out about santa not being real, but i know that until i had kids of my own christmas was different after hearing the news. now that extra excitement about christmas is back now that i get to play santa for my kids. thanks for sharing with us and for responding.
• United States
26 Oct 09
Well I was sad at first but as the years past I began to understand it more of how the gift exchaning works and their really wasnt a fat mean in a red suit that was going to come down the chimmeny.Then later I learned there really is a santa claus.He just doesnt climb down chimmneys and levae eveyone in the world presents but I guess he does exist maybe its amiracle and we will never know maybe he does fly around and drop presents foe everyone?LOl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HOHOHOMERRYEARLYCHRISTMAS
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• United States
27 Oct 09
thank you, merry early christmas to you too. :) who knows maybe he do still exist. i know that there has always been a gift under the tree for me each year that wasn't there before i went to bed the night before. it just may be true. thanks for sharing with us and for responding.
• United States
26 Oct 09
8. lol, and I didn't realize that it also meant the Easter Bunny and Tooth Fairy weren't real. I didn't make the connection. So I was disappointed all over again at Easter.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
lol, i know. i was pretty mad when i found out that none of them was real. :) thanks for sharing with us and for responding. :) have a nice day.
@free_man (7330)
• United States
26 Oct 09
We were never taught that there was a Santa we was always taught that it was Christ birthday and we accepted that. But to find out that Christ was actually born in late September now that bothered me. But I know that Christ was born in late September. I did tell my children when they was growing up that there was no Santa but we still celebrated Christmas with all the trimmings. They knew that the presents that they got was from us and accepted it as just a way to celebrate Christ birthday. Now if you want to find out Christ real birthday contact Shepherd's Chapel you can find them on the net too at www.shepherd'schapel.com. Christmas was invented by man not God.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
my family celebrate christmas to the fullest, but we also knew the true meaning of christmas. thanks for sharing with us and for responding. have a nice day. :)
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I kind of stopped believing between the ages of 10 and 11. I officially stopped believing at 12. However, one thing I do still do is write stories about Santa. That's one of the advantages of being a writer. You can revisit childhood myths creatively. I like that.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
that is a great advantage indeed. i was a bit younger when i first found out, i am sure it had the same effect on most of us when we first found out. it's great you write stories about santa, i think others will enjoy reading what you have to say about him. it's also a good way to bring back some memories that you may have forgotten about. thanks for sharing with us and for responding.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I think I was pretty young.....I discovered the fact that there was no easter bunny because I caught my mom doing our baskets.....I think I just figured it out after that...but kept my mouth shut because I had a younger sister...but I told my kids that if they believe in Santa he still comes....so if they are here at Christmas they still get their stocking full....my son is 31...he loves his Santa gifts best! LOL.....
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• United States
27 Oct 09
lol, i was going in my mother closet trying to find some of her clothes that i could play dress up in when i saw my easter basket. i asked her why it was at our house so early when it wasn't time for easter yet, she said the easter bunny got the dates mixed up and that she put the basket up for me until easter. after that i started to figure out that the easter bunny wasn't real. i remember her telling me that the easter bunny said that he will bring me another basket on easter. she said that i was lucky because i was going to get 2 easter baskets. i was so excited i didn't even care about what i had found. :) i know she was just looking out for me. i know that santa has been good to me over the years. thanks for sharing with us and for responding. :)
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
25 Oct 09
I was 11 and I was very disappointed when I discovered he did not exist My parents had done a great job year after year making it all seem so true. I then carried on the tradition with my son and he was 6 or 7 when he too discovered that Santa was his father Some of the magic of Christmas was lost on both occasions ans I am certain that when my son has children of his own he will continue letting them believe for as long as he can that Santa is real. There is no harm in it surely?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
26 Oct 09
Shontia your comment brought tears to my eyes because it was exactly the same as happened in our house when I ws young. I used to find an empty glass and the crumbs too and we used to look up towards the stars hoping to see him too. It all sounds sooo familiar We were so lucky that our parents made it all so real for us and sad that as adults we have no more magical things to believe in
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• United States
26 Oct 09
i am sure your parents did a great job. one thing i liked was on christmas eve night my mother would help me and my brothers and sisters draw pictures to leave out for santa with the milk and cookies. the next day the glass would be half empty and we would see crumps left in the plate. our mother would tell us how excited santa was over the pictures and the treats we left him. that made our christmas special too. i also remember when i was around 3 and 4 and i would look up in the sky at night and see the red light from a plane and think that it was rudolph. lol. i use to wonder why he passed our house and didn't stop and my dad would tell us that he was coming to our house but we had to go to sleep first. i am now doing some of the same things with my kids and i hope they carry on the tradition when they have kids. thanks for sharing with us and for responding.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Oct 09
hi shontia08 I was about ten when I caught my own grandpa dressed as Santa carrying in a bag of presents. I do not think I was really too upset as I had never really believed this preposterous story in the first place. I was too practical a child to believe anyone could fly all over the world in a sleight delivering toys.So I never told my kids that there was this Santa Claus fellow, I told them the truth.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
hello, i never caught my parents putting out presents for us, i was told that santa wasn't real by some kids at my school. i do however tell my kids about santa and let them write him and leave cookie and milk out for him. i also help them draw pictures for him, i always saw it as a way to bond with them even more. thanks for sharing with us and for responding. have a nice day!!! :)
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
26 Oct 09
Well I guess I always realized or if I should a time on it about six .This is because in my family we werent much for presents in my family around christmas time so I figured since Santa wasnt coming to my house then he wasnt real.I figured he was just something taht persons on Tvland (that was teh only place I saw Santa )came up with for their kids.Great discussion
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• United States
27 Oct 09
thank you for sharing with us and for responding. i use to look at the christmas parades on tv and would see one santa on one station and another santa on a different station. i remember wondering how in the world he was able to be in two parades at once and my older sister would tell me that it was magic. i use to believe that every santa that i saw on tv was real. :) thanks again. have a nice day!!!!
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
I think I was 12 years old when i realize their is no Santa Claus but their are pious or kind people who like to give gifts not only to children every Christmas but also to any people who are in dire need of help. Despite of this i still like to know its legend and i just read their is a saint who is call as Santa Claus in older times call as St. Nicholas who like to give gifts to children and hence it start the traditional gift giving which is practices every Christmas seasons.
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• United States
26 Oct 09
i like the spirit of christmas. i wish people were in the same mood year round. i also like to help the less fortunate. my church give out gifts and feed those who may not have a meal on christmas or don't have a family to celebrate with. thank you for sharing with us and for responding. have a nice day.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
I was already 13 when I found at that Santa wasn't real. But I wasn't that dumb. I had my doubts. Even so, I decided to believe in Santa just as I believed in God. I have to admit that finding out that there was no Santa ruined the magic of Christmas for me.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
yes, after finding out the truth it do change things. it is fun playing santa to my kids and seeing the smiles on their faces when they get up on christmas morning and see that santa has drunk the milk and ate the cookies that they left out for him. thanks for sharing with us and for responding. :)
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Finding out the truth did change things for me because when I was young, the fun of Christmas was largely because of the mystery. But when I got older I learned to appreciate Christmas more and not just as something that is fun because it's mysterious and magical. I learned to enjoy giving gifts to people and spending quality time them.
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• Pamplona, Spain
25 Oct 09
Hi shontia, Actually although I don´t believe in Santa Claus as such I still like to watch Christmas Films and secretly believe that he does exist all over again. Ages ago when I was about six or seven I knew there was no real Father Christmas but I still liked to play and pretend that there was one what kid does´nt. So now the little kid in me comes out to play every Christmas and on my own I can believe that Santa Claus does exist again. I never told my kids they like me found out for themselves. Here we have Santa Claus and the Three Kings (The Three Wisemen) so it makes Christmas very long but even so I like it. No I did´nt get upset at all when I did get to know I just carried on pretending when I wanted to. I love Christmas maybe others don´t but it´s my favourite time of the year in spite of everything.
• United States
26 Oct 09
christmas is my favorite time of the year too. i can't remember my exact age when i first learned that "santa" was really my mother and father. i am glad that they choose to make us believe in santa when we were young, because it made the wait for christmas day that much more fun. we use to leave cookies and milk for him. other kids at my school told me that santa wasn't real. that following christmas just wasn't the same, i was still happy because i got everything that i wanted, but it was still kind of hard finding out that he wasn't real. it wasn't hard as in i was depress or anything, things just was different. thanks for sharing with us. thanks for replying.
• Pamplona, Spain
26 Oct 09
Hi shontia, It is really hard to find out something like that when you are small bit like the tooth fairy I suppose. When we used to have Carol Singers around the Houses late at night and because you were small you were already tucked up in bed just listening to them singing made it like magic and it was magic because I wanted to believe that it was so. No one can take that away from you ever.
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@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
I was 13 years old and already in high school when I learned that there was no really santa who is coming to town every Christmas and I found out that the people who put coins and gifts on the socks are actually my parents. That's so funny when I learned the truth but nevertheless I am excited every Christmas and believed that we can be Santa Claus to others especially to people who seemed so hopeless with their lives.
• United States
27 Oct 09
i agree, it is a great feeling playing santa to the less fortunate and letting my kids believe that santa is real. i look forward to christmas each year too, it's the best time of the year. thanks for sharing with us and for responding. :)
@murtuza89 (513)
• India
26 Oct 09
I always knew that Santa, Superman, Spiderman, Hitman, Batman, Etc. are imainary characters. I was a bit intelligent even when I was small and was able to make out who is lying to me. I was very difficult to be fooled since I always knew the tricks in advance.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
i am kind of glad that i was lead to believe that there was a santa. it made christmas that much more exciting. now that i have kids of my own i get to see how my parents felt when we were kids. this is one thing that i will never regret. my little nephew wants spiderman to come and visit him at his birthday party. :) anyway, thanks for sharing with us and for responding. have a nice day!!!
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I only knew Santa from songs and Christmas decors and trimmings, but I knew in my heart he didn't exist. I never hang socks nor wait for his gifts, so I didn't really have that much feeling about Santa. My parents taught me early on that Christmas is about the birth of Jesus Christ and His purpose is the save mankind that's why this day is very special. Santa was nowhere in the picture. But when I had my own kids, I knew how exciting it is to wait for a gift from Santa, and so I made them believe there is Santa. My kids, 10 and 6 years old, still believe that there is Santa because they always receives gifts from "him" come Christmas Eve. I know sooner or later I should tell them the truth, but I can't find the right time and I am not sure how they will react when they finally know that he's not real.
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• United States
27 Oct 09
thanks for sharing with us and for responding. i was also taught the real meaning of christmas but my parents also let us experience the magic of santa. i am not sure when it would be a good time to let kids know that santa isn't real. with my kids i was thinking about letting them find out on their own or when they get much older which ever comes first. when they start school, that's when i start to worry because i don't know if some of the kids from their school will tell them. i'll then have some explaining to do, but i think they will understand. :) have a nice day!!!
@regina36 (28)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I was 7 when I found out there was no real santa. My older sister told me. Which I kindv'e already didn't think he was real ,because I always wondered why I would see my mom and dad wrapping presents lol. I told my son at age of 7 there was no more santa ,but he seemed to understand .
• United States
27 Oct 09
i hope when my kids find out that they will understand. i know it won't send them into deep depression or anything, it's just that when i found out, even though i still enjoy christmas and get excited when it is that time of the year again, things still seemed a little different after i was told that he wasn't real. i'm glad to hear that you son understood. thanks for sharing with us and for responding.
@vikkiz (518)
26 Oct 09
I dont know but im sure i was about nine? lol how sads that!! Although the exsistance of santa made christmas so much more magical! Once you find out he isnt real the whole thing goes down, Instead of all the hype of writting a letter to santa and mam and dad posting a pretend letter back was just magical, leaving his milk and cookies and rudolfs carrot. Youd run down stairs to see if santa had been! One you find our its like.....''i want that mam'' , ''i want a computer dad'' Its not the same is it lol. My son believes in santa and ill try and hold that lie down for a while as i want him to experience that magic to.
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• United States
26 Oct 09
lol, no it is not the same. that was sweet, leaving a carrot for rudolph. i forgot all about him, but he didn't mind i don't think, since i got what i wanted each year. :) i was 5 when i got my first letter from santa and i kept it with me for a while, even after i was told that he wasn't real. eventually it got mixed up with some junk mail and i believe i threw it away. those were the good ol days, lol!!! thanks for sharing with us and for responding. have a nice day.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
When I was still young, I prepare to have gifts than seeing Santa in person (i mean, the costumed one). I don't believe him either as most member of my family don't have this sock and other stuffs hanging near the x-mas tree.
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• United States
26 Oct 09
oh, ok. well thanks for responding. have a nice day :)