"Can I borrow your Cellphone and make a Long Distance Call?" What would you do?

Phone Call - A girl holding a phone
Philippines
October 30, 2009 6:30am CST
What if a man who is wearing a formal attire, looks rich, and decent approaches you and ask "Can I borrow your phone and make a long distance call abroad?" What would you do? Answer first in your mind and continue reading... Now here's the situation of the stranger, let's say the stranger is Bill Gates and had been a tourists in your country, now he's been robbed and doesn't have anything, even a hotel to stay in. The country is not that familiar with the international language which is English, he just saw you holding a cellphone and uses sign language that says he wants to borrow your phone. Now what did you answer on the first part of this discussion? If you answered "yes I will let him borrow my phone and let him call outside the country which will be a large fee on my account." then it's your lucky day, the stranger would be giving you all you hopes and dreams and make your wildest imaginations come true. But what if you answered "No"? What would you react if after awhile you discovered he's Bill Gates?
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@angelsmummy (1696)
30 Oct 09
I woould allow him too as I do try to help people out, although saying tat he wouldnt get very far with my phone as I am on pay-as-you-go and £15 abroad goes in like 5 minutes. I know this as my partner has family in Portugal and he used to used his mobile to call them. Now he uses the house phone and its so much cheaper! Maybe I would invite him back to my house as I have cheap international calls. Only 1-2p per minute depending on the country
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
That would be nice, but I think most of us here thinks it would just be another trick by cellphone snatchers.
• United States
31 Oct 09
Firstly, not really going to be an issue, as I don't have a phone. Secondly, yes, as someone else said, I worry that the guy was trying to steal it if I did have one. That might sound hard but that is the sort of world we live in, unfortunately. I suppose it depends on the situation, if it was an emergency, like an accident and someone on the scene needed a phone then of course I would. But if it was some strange man coming up to me saying 'can I phone abroad' I would think he was a bit weird, to be honest...lol If someone was robbed, and lost everything, including his hotel (how on EARTH would he lose a hotel?!) then surely that would be a big enough thing to go into a police station or something? Where he could make a phone call. As for it being Bill Gates, that wouldn't make the slightest difference to me. I wouldn't recognize him and he would still be a strange man asking for my phone. Which, like I said, I don't have!
• India
31 Oct 09
hi "english tea duck" ....i must say i was really impressed by ur answer . i was in a bit of confusion when i read the discussion. coz i really wouldnt let my phone to anybody making abroad calls but then if the guy turned out to be bill gates or something i didnt wanna regret it tooo . but after redaing ur comment i was truly impressed . a man could get robbed but cannot let go of his hotel. very true and great thiking of you!!!!!!
@jashoaf (296)
• United States
1 Nov 09
You've had a lot of good answers here. I think, if it was me, that I would need a really good reason to let someone borrow my phone. I don't have the money to get stuck, and I need the phone. If the person is in trouble, there are police or other authorities who can help. I'll make that call for him and stick around until the help arrives. Beyond that I will not take the risk anymore, I've been burned way too often. It's time I learned to be smarter. I am all about helping someone in need, and don't care if they are rich or poor. But there is usually a safe way to do it if you step back a minute and think it through.
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
That was a good answer, I didn't thought about calling the police. About calling abroad, it's easy, because he's a foreigner the only number that he knows is ofcourse those who are important to him like wife, relatives, friends, or a secretary.
@jashoaf (296)
• United States
4 Nov 09
You've got a point. I'd need the explanation though, and would be glad to send the text if the situation warranted. Once he got to the police or consulate they could assist him further in that regard. I have a son who is in prison. In this part of the country the state loves to pick up a prisoner and roll him somewhere new for no reason, and with no warning. This leaves family in the clutch a lot, as they will not inform anybody before it happens, and prisoners don't always have the money to make a collect call home. I am often asked to call a family member and let them know what happened to so-and-so, so as to help families stay connected. Since I have the cell it is easy, and if they need directions or a list of the rules, or other imformation I can help them. So in your scenario, I guess it would just depend on the emergency. I would still insist on using the phone myself, though.
@jashoaf (296)
• United States
1 Nov 09
I forgot to mention the first thing that came into my head - why would anyone need to make an emergency phone call abroad? That doesn't even make sense to me, and would raise my antennae if it happened. If they are in trouble, the country has police and medical. If they are foreigners, the police will still help, and get them to a consulate where they can handle anything they require.
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
31 Oct 09
I would like to help him. But will ask him to plan his talk beforehand as I don't carry much balance in my cell. Maybe I would expect him to repay later... If he is Bill Gates, I don't think that would make much difference to me. At most I'll later tell my friends I met Mr. Gates and they will make fun of me. That's all!
• India
31 Oct 09
I didn't think about snatchers until reading the other posts. Suppose the stranger was one, I'm sure to get my cell snatched! LOL
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
LOL. Yup, there are a lot of different criminals now that uses different tricks. Thanks for sharing you thought.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
why would i let him borrow my phone. if he is bill gates he does not need to borrow from me even if his phone was snatched cause he has other means of getting a new phone and also, i am sure, being bill gates means he rarely goes alone by himself he will surely bring a buddy with him anywhere whom he borrow a cellphone or he has always have a body guard and assistants with him who can buy him another cellphone or being a Bill Gates he can just go directly to his hotel and make calls and etc. Bill Gates? Lol. i don't care if his bill gates. If he is really bill gates. i will just laugh at him for not thinking on other better ways to make call than just just borrow from random people he meets.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
LOL. Not the answer I'm looking for. First not all rich people are with their bodyguard, second not all rich people go to hotels, let say he just arrived to a country and got robbed all of a sudden. The point of this discussion is to know if you trust someone, logical thinking about the construction of the situation is not what I'm expecting. Peace men!
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
in that case, i will of course lend him the phone after all he is a very popular person and who will think that i will be rob by such a rich man. but that's all, i will not expect any thing in return.
@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
I answered no to the first part, so I pretty much blew up my chance of getting lots of money from Bill Gates. But I don't regret that decision. I would always decide like that no matter what happens. I can't just trust anyone no matter how famous he or she is.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Thanks, very nice and honest answer you got there. That's one of the answer I'm looking for, trust can't be easily given to anybody, even friends, it needs time and a lot of experiences to have a true trust to someone.
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
I am really not a trusting person, so of course I answered like this. I guess I've seen and experienced too much to just believe anyone.
• Boston, Massachusetts
30 Oct 09
I will not let him hold and borrow my cellphone. To respond to his need, i will ask him the number and will text the person that he needs to call to give my number a call.. i just hope my load is still enough to accommodate his request. If he's Bill Gates-- fine at least i met him personally.
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Yup, that's smarter way. You also lived in the Philippines right? There are a lot of criminals and thief that uses different ways to do their crime, and most of the time they used the kindness of that person, I hate those people.
• Boston, Massachusetts
31 Oct 09
Yes i am from the Philippines and i am just protecting my personal things but i am willing to help especially if that is emergency. You are right, sometimes you're kindness will be abused and can put you at risk or in trouble.
• United States
30 Oct 09
doesn't matter who it is,i'd want money up front. the richer they are,the more liable they are to walk away and leave you with the bill.i've worked in too many hotels to believe they'd be thankful or generous.
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
So there are a lot who's not grateful to those who helped them? I think that's also true, I've encounter some of them, and they only know you when they want something.
• China
31 Oct 09
Ususally, I don't lend my cellphone to a strager no matter he/she wants to make a short distance call or a long distance call. It has nothing to do with money. It's just because it might bring me trouble. Let's suppose the stranger is a criminal who just broke away from prison, and he wants to borrow your phone. It might lead to serious consequence. So generally, I don't lend my phone to a stranger, but not absolutely. If the stranger is a famous person, I'm willing to lend my phone to him/her. Perhaps such an action may bring me good luck.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Nice answer, thanks for responding. Yup, a stranger is still a stranger, even we want to be nice or lend our help to him/her we must first think of the possibilities and consequences that we might get if we have made a wrong decision. Thanks, happy mylotting.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
31 Oct 09
I would let anyone use my phone, that's just me. I don't care who you are. I'm not impressed by fame and money. I'm just a friendly person who likes to help people.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Don't you think it's kind a dangerous letting anyone to hold your phone?
• India
30 Oct 09
i simply say no
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
That's a quick answer. But it's still smart, it's better to be sure rather than to be caught off guard.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
First. do i have enough load to make a long distance call? If Yes.. i would not still give him my phone.. he might be a thief, a snatcher even with his professional look... i would ask him the number to verify it if it is legit then lend the phone to him.. and pray he would give me cash to compensate the load taken hahaha.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Yup, there's nothing free in this world. Nice answer, thanks for sharing your thought.
@Louc74 (620)
31 Oct 09
My answer was, in all honesty, "You can if you want, mate, but it'll have to be reverse charge, because I'm absolutely skint (no money!) and there's no credit in the thing! Lol! So no reward for me then!
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
Don't worry pal, your not only the one who answered that. I myself don't have enough balance on my phone to give free calls, and I really don't trust anyone that easily. Cheers!
• India
31 Oct 09
ya i had this experience once my reply was i have no balance u cant make even local call with this amount ......if u want do sms its free..i use this mobile only for sending sms....
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
You've actually experienced it? What did he said after telling him that you didn't have enough balance?
• Italy
31 Oct 09
I'd let him even without knowing he's rich. Anyways there's never much balance on my phone, $10 max, he wouldn't go on for long. Probabily I'd think no but say yes, just thinking if I was into the same situation, I'd appreciate someone to help me, then shouldn't I?
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
Yup, what if we are the ones in that situation, got robbed and didn't know where to get help because we're foreigners? I'll wish that someone could help me in that situation.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
30 Oct 09
My first reaction (before reading the rest of your supposition) would be to be willing but to want to know more about how he was going to repay me. Since I am on Pay-As-You-Go, I would be concerned that he might run out of funds before the call ended. Since it's easy enough to top up, I'd first ask him to estimate the cost of the call and then invite him to top-up my account with that amount. English is the common language in England, of course, so there would be little or no communication problem and, doubtless, Bill Gates wouldn't need to borrow my cell phone to call abroad - he'd be able (and much more likely) to use his hotel facilities. Bill Gates or, indeed, anyone famous doesn't cut any ice with me. Any person, famous or not, is a human being and I would treat them exactly as I would anyone else. It is easier, of course, to see the credentials of someone famous, so I would probably be more ready to lend my phone to someone I recognised and knew something about. I wouldn't expect a simple service like lending one's cell phone for a call to be of any more value than the cost of the call: if the person chose to be more grateful than that, I would probably be somewhat embarrassed - but pleased, nevertheless.
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
30 Oct 09
Incidentally, my plan costs me about 5p a minute (around $0.08) to the US, so if this unknown person assumed that I was paying the normal charge of $2 - $3 a minute, I might be well in pocket!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
6 Sep 11
Hi, charmz1005. Well, it all depends on if I have long distance service on my cell phone. It also depends upon what type of plan that I have on my phone as well. If I have an unlimited plan with free long distance, I will allow him to use my cell phone. If I don't, then I will not be able to allow him to use my cell phone then. I don't mean to sound harsh, but I am the only person that is responsible for supplying my cell phone minutes to my phone, and not Bill Gates.
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
For the first part of the discussion i will tell him no problem if he will help me pay the bill. But when i realize its Bill Gates, i will let him use it
• United States
14 Jan 10
I'd tell him no, that I don't have that capability on my phone and I cannot afford to let him (I would do it politely, however). If I found out it was Bill Gates, well, he should be able to afford to make an overseas call from anywhere. lol.
• India
9 Jan 10
surely i will give you my cellphone at night times when some calls are free to me..
@Chikezie (385)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 12
Yes.I really do not mind when you as long as it an honour to help him though there will strings attached to it. But if I realize that he is not Bill Gates, I will not be pleased, but what will I do ,he has used my reloaded credit. It has been used and I would not be able to retrieve it.