Whar would you think if a friend who you have known years

@jugsjugs (13045)
November 29, 2009 7:23pm CST
sent you a message on face book saying they will pop to see you on Monday for a cupa and to pop some club money in,then they said can we make it Tuesday and lets go for a drive shopping.Thinking on the terms that this friend has not rang you,text you or bothered with you for over 3 months until now.They tend to be late with the club money and also give it to a friend to pass to you.Would you be thinking why do you want to see me know.
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@dorannmwin (36698)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I am not a really hypothetical person, so it wouldn't even cross my mind that they wanted something out of me. Instead, I would be thinking that they'd been busy for a while and now they have actually found some time for themselves. I don't keep in touch with a lot of my friends from when I was younger, but with my best friend from childhood we can go for a long time without talking to one another, but whenever she is coming into town, we do make it a point to get together and I will actually put my plans aside just so we can catch up with each other.
@celticeagle (117919)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Dec 09
Ya, I am pretty snide and sensitive. I would have to have something to say about it. Couldn't just let it go by the wayside. Not me! I would probably not show up either way and when they made comment about it I would say," Oh! I didn't think you would show up anyway so I spaced it!" I am just that way!
@doormouse (4619)
30 Nov 09
i would also wonder what they wanted,i think people like that always want something if they contact you,i've had friends like that before,now i only have a select few that i know want to see me for me,not what they can get out of me
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
30 Nov 09
oh yes I would be wondering why now! but then maybe ya canb catch up on her news while shopping huh?
@lelin1123 (15645)
• Puerto Rico
30 Nov 09
I find that really stranage if they haven't been in touch with you for over three months. You would think they would call you on the phone instead of sending you a message on facebook. They should call you and see how you are doing and then plan to get together.
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hi. I am suspicious by nature. So if such is the case, I would normally ask myself why and think over and over again if I would really want to meet this type of friend. Most likely, I wouldn't go to see/meet this friend. Re-connecting via facebook would be enough for the moment.
@Wizzywig (7859)
30 Nov 09
I dont think I'd waste the time going out shopping with anyone who couldn't pay up their debts on time... she might spend the club money!!
@Hatley (164670)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 09
hi jugsjugs that is a little presumptous on the friends part'but you say you have known for years so I would say give them a chance perhaps. I really do not know what to say as it does sound like they should have asked instead of just saying what they did.