Does being honest worthy makes sense in work and career?

being honest - honesty
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
December 11, 2009 2:12am CST
still makes me believe that being honest sometimes are not present in work also in career like love and relationship to parents and friends.in work site many are dishonest so maybe because of the alarming corruption in the government.there are only few people are honest and this is because everyone needs to survive so many doing not good on their job so dishonesty comes within the work.however in career some couples have issues on dishonesty of their partner but i can say that in a relationship both should be honest because once you are true within yourself you are going to be trusted by everyone.how far will you be honest within yourself?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 09
Hi amy! Honesty is most important in one's life. One cannot survive in the long run if he is dishonest in his career or in any relationship. Honest workers are always appreciated and applauded. I try to be honest as much as possible in discharge of duties in my office and towards maintaining relations. I know that if I am honest, others will come to know about it sooner or later. What about you?
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
i am also honest in many ways but sometimes i make white lies i am not perfect but i do more good for other people not only for my own self.yes maintaining good relationship with co-workers makes sense when you trusted them especially when they are honest from their work.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
hi thanks..balayudav..yes many people nowadays are dishonest in work they are mostly working in the government those corrupt officials and dishonest workers are increasing because they need to survive so they doing dishonesty ,fraud so that they can still work.even though their conscience haunt them but they just ignored it.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,amy,living or leading life with honesty becoming hard now a days..the social needs and family relations and working atmosphere are all effecting on one's honesty.Thank god,i have resigned early from doing job where i have to deal with number of people under me.I saw many deviation in work and dishonesty nature in my colleagues..so may,some times i fed up with them.Now i am feeling happy,as i deal with farmers who ever come to me or jatropha plantation and i give plan,they themselves have to implement it.No tension,no dealing with dishonesty people. Nice discussion.Have a nice time.
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• China
12 Dec 09
to be or not to be.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
thanks for sharing...
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• China
12 Dec 09
sometime tobe,or,not to be
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• Australia
11 Dec 09
"Honesty is the best policy" is an old adage which doesn't seem to be widely acted on today, but I believe it always has been and always will be the best way. Workplace theft has reached enormous proportions, with staff stealing paper, envelopes, and all manner of office stationery and other supplies, not to mention not giving as much time as they are paid for. Loafing on the job is stealing and therefore dishonest. Too many people think that because they are overtaxed it is quite OK to cheat on their tax returns or to accept cash payment for work and not declare it as income. If I know a person is doing this type of thing, how would I trust him/her in any other way? Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes honesty is the best policy..nowadays i think there are few people are honest from their job and even there career so basically it is very hard to gain trust to your boss,friends and even your boyfriend,husband dishonesty always comes in any means.i really hate those people who stolen things and corrupt individuals just to have high expectation from other people.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
11 Dec 09
I totally agree with you amyson. I see lot of dishonesty than honesty. They may have to pay back in their own coins in future. But presently they are happily living and honest people are only suffering. But God will not leave them, I know that. If not now, later on they have to set right their debits. I try to be honest to myself. No one need to give me certificate or believe me. I am answerable to my own self after God.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes there are so many people are not honest even to themselves just to gain more they became too selfish and greedy.i am honest and sometimes commit mistakes and white lies but its for good.
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• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Of course as the saying goes honesty is the best policy which is very true at all. Though, most of the times being honest is being tested and many have been tempted to deceive,cheat, betrayal through trickery and forgery either verbal or non verbal communication or when the need arises, such as in work, a lady could get rapidly promoted than the older employees because she tempt the boss, presence of nepotism and unscrupulous employer. Then, in term of relationship even though it hurt every couple as much as possible need to be honest to each other to have a long lasting and trusting relationship revealing even the skeleton in the closet. Their are instances dishonesty could either be a white lies which commonly uses to the benefit of the person lying or to defend someone in order to avoid offense which one find unattractive. In every relationship honesty is important and if one have committed unfaithfulness to her/his partner need to admit it in order to be forgiven or face the consequences of her/his actions which is better than keeping it to oneself with the risk of losing your loved ones. Though, it may hurt a partner to know the truth it is better than telling lies all the time.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes..some will lie for his sake and greediness.honesty is best policy when leader and followers are honest be themselves.yes white lies is good for good and better purposes.unfaithfulness comes along when one cheated and not true by himself that is why they break up and end up separated in marriage.
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@checkmail (2039)
• India
11 Dec 09
Hello amyson this is checkmail and think begin honest in our work and carrer is the best thing to do, as our goals and aims would be acheived more easily and quickly.Yeah there have been also some dishonest peoples with dishonest attitude, but still managed to qualify to sucess, but its only an luck by chance, and not by own efforts or knowledge.Myself am following an honest attitude in mine work as well as in mine career and would acheive mine target within some time, though its taking time, mine reward would be that much more than the dishonest one's.Anyways enjoy Mylotting.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes it is being honest feel us worthy and worries free.but some people can managed to lie and doing dishonesty to other people even to their career just gain something like higher position in the government.
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• India
11 Dec 09
Honesty is something that I have always taken with a pinch of salt. Since childhood, I was taught that honesty is the best policy and that to cover up for one lie, I’d have to invent a thousand other lies and so on! However, life has taught me that complete honesty is not always the best policy. One should understand the situations and circumstances in which a lie would literally save a life or save a job! Instead of being illogically rigid about such things, we should be flexible and treat each situation on its merit and on the prevalent dos and donts of society.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes white lies is good but doing dishonesty in many ways have bad effects.those what we called 'KARMA' means will live unlucky in life and will lead to frustration.yes sometimes being honest is not worth it especially when you work hard a lot and other just doing dishonesty from job.
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
20 Jan 10
I think you have made a good point about first being true within your self in order to be trusted by everyone. i think you(and I) have to be honest with your self in order to improve at whatever your doing
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jan 10
hi amyson the fact that some are dishonest does not excuse me from being honest and trustworthy. I was always honest and trustworthy in the two jobs that I held for years. How could one work with others and not be honest? Most dishonest people get caught sooner or later and must pay for their dishonesty sometimes quite highly too. No dishonesty does not belong in the workplace or in a career either.Besides a person has to look at herself in the mirror and I could not face myself if I knew I had been less than honest.
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes, it is most of the time and being honest is a good values. It is like telling the truth whether wrong or right rather than suppressing it. In work it is a need to gain trust of employer and co-employees. The same thing with love to be trusted by partner for longer relationship requires a need to be open minded.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yes your right..honesty values in work and even to your loved one..the same thing of trusting it makes person way in the right track.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Hi amyson,Yes,honesty is truly a big factor in every aspects of life.It really helps specially in our career.People will trust on us if we are honest.It gives us more oppotunity in having a good career or any achievements we want in life.Thanks,God Bless!
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yes your right..maintaining honesty makes us in peace..thanks
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes being honest is nice attitudes and it gain so much appreciation from other people but somehow it is not worth it to be being honest because others doing dishonesty but they gain a lot though it is bad but i seen many were in higher position in the government they are the corrupt individuals.
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@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hello amyson,I don't care if others will do dishonesty,it's their choice if they will remain that kind of attitude.My stand is i will remain honest because i have fear in God. and I really wants to have a clean concience in my every day life.Thanks,Good Luck!
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@rjvb26 (2518)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
I know i am an honest person. Whether it is career or not, it is really good to practice honesty, BUT not all the time you should be honest. it still depends on the situation, if it is for the greater good, why be honest if you know how to lie and if you know that it is for the benefit of the majority. Anyway, there is no such thing as right and wrong in this world depending upon on the people who will perceive it. For others doing a lie is good and for others are not. It is the same with killing others, for some people killing is not good and for some it is really bad. Have a great day.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yes it depends on he situation.yes i hope everyone practice honesty.
• United States
11 Dec 09
Sure they say honesty is the best policy their is but guess what sometimes honesty is not a good thing cause it may put your job and risk. Now don't get me wrong honesty is good but alot of times when you work at a job they dont care how long you have been there or how honest or even how hard working you were they can and will throw you out without a single care in the world thus leaving you and your kids out in the cold.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
yes i saw that in the work place they didnt even care.all important is to finish the job and its all done.
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
yeah, they are important as the trust in any field you belong requires to be honest that your boss and your co-employees respect you and build stronger integrity in your own personality. It encourages harmonious relationship and a form to be promoted and get notice for good behavior.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
17 Jan 10
yes your right but to some extent many gain higher position because of other things popularity,dishonesty,corruption and a like..some other office employees functional to do their work honesty but there are cloud involvement of the superior and some other because of money they corrupting money from the people.to bad some honest people did not knew about what is happening around workplace.