My hubby made it possible for me...How about you?

Hi Cyera, Really, you have a curly hair too. I have a curly natural hair and its been a passion for me to experience it being straight. after the treatment -- to make it strong because i have a fine curly/wavy hair and not yet ready for rebonding. The parlor manager made it for me. I felt so special for giving me such treatment. My hair was ironed and i really love. i am crazy 'coz i don't want to lie down -- i want to maintain it. my hubby finds it funny how excited i am and happy for having a new hair. he was so happy for me too. he did not even recognize me. my youngest son said--mom is beautiful oh gosh i felt so touched by his comment. how i wish i can share with you how i look now. It's good the your husband had the heart to take charge of the expenses for a vacation and the regular eat out treat is somewhat special already-- a great treat. so maybe, you can consider having an experience to have a straight hair too soon. thanks dear friend for responding!

haha...msfrancisco, i can feel your happiness till here... yeah, i also have natural curly hair, i like it also but there are times i don't! specially during bad hair day! haha coz my hair in not a fine one its "buhaghag" if neglected that's why most of the time i clip them... when i was already working before and earning for myself, that was the first time i do such treatment, but its just relax...i am satisfied with the result that i've got but everything are just temporary...hehe coz its original look comes back after fe months and i don't like to always go to treatments coz they say that it might damage our hair more...and besides, i also have one experience where i get some burn due to inefficiency of the 'parlorista' but anyway, given a chance i still want to undergo hair straightening or better rebonding so that i can experience once again having a long straight hair! hehe wow! looks like you really get the best result for your husband not to recognize you? and getting such compliments from our loved ones really brings a great feeling! i'm happy for you msfrancico! how i wish to see you as well... well, our vacation is just happening once every year and its just a lo budget vacation!:-)

i feels so lovely today. i received positive compliments from my officemates. anyways, if you have a thicker hair it will be fine for you to have a rebond than relax. i tink relax damaged our hair more unlike rebond. they use a certain treatment and power dose to keep it healthy and strong. hope we can exchange photos soon hehehe and affirm each other's new look!

oh girl--------this story made me cry. i am so touched by the story. it was such a great love for each other that no material things can ever match how precious is their love for each other! this made my night friend!

Hi Vandana, He did my dear friend and i am thankful to the almighty for giving a loving husband like him. i haven't read that story but i will try to search for it--although i am aware about the three kings LOL--is there any other deepr interpretation about their gifts? sounds exciting. "Salamat" - thanks!

Well, it is about a young couple with only two precious possessions, the lady's long tresses, and her husband's gold watch. At Christmas time, the lady sells her tresses to buy her husband a nice chain to hold the watch. Unknowingly the husband also sells the golden watch to get her a nice costly comb. :) Both give gifts out of love for the other. Both gift love. Objects dont matter do they. :)

Hi Lynnjiang, Single ladies...oh yes you have all the time and "money" for yourselves. i am glad that you created this system of "rotation" to treat yourself and your friends. of course it feels good if it's not your turn to treat but your turn to be treated and pampered hahahaha. i am sure you are saving for it. that's a good start. i just hope you'll find a loving and sweet boyfriend who will be willing to treat and make you feel special ALWAYS! Ask and pray for him to come soooooooooon! thanks for your response.

Hi Doryvien, i know you like my new look-- i saw it in your eyes, you've been winking out of envy hehehehehehe. well, i know that you always find a way to treat yourself and even involving your kids to eat and hang out. When can we go together and enjoy a spa? let's schedule it so that we will have time to save-- but if both our husbands can sponsor us AGAIN why not? i admire your husband--despite the distance he never fails to let you feel so special and loved. papa monching keep up the good loving and sweet works for mama doryvien. more expensive treats for my dear loving friend! power hugs to you mama!

...by the way, i will just whisper to you what i did in return. it might be censored here LOL!

Hi Neel, Thanks friend. He really did. We are all happy about the result of my new look. i really feel beautiful hehehehe! Thanks for your time and best regards to your family too. Merry Christmas dear!

Hi Bart, hurray...you made it too! it feels good right? me and my husband do it regularly. we have a therapist who come to our house every friday night for an hour of swedish massage. i go straight to sleep. extremely relaxing! my husband even snore while being massaged! i am happy every time i learn from people that they save something for themselves especially when they receive an extra pay. cheers for a great self-care bart!

Hi Cloudwatcher, I admire for sharing how blessed you are with your life and everything. you really reached self-actualization and is living a stress-free life. Congratulations for being one. Yours is an excellent treat! I hope and pray that i will be able to reach your age still so happy, loved and even more blessed. Thanks Cloud. Take care always and here's a hug for you!

Hi Ramesh, Yes, i am so lucky for having him as my ever loving and sweet hubby. He loves making me happy and surprises me too from time to time. i think you deserve a treat too friend. be kind to yourself and pamper it once in a while. you will be more energetic and in good shape and condition to earn a living for your family. you can do it friend --- do it soooooon please! thanks for taking the time to drop some lines here! Best regards to you and your family!

Hi Marlena, I think you better think of it and schedule one. you deserve a treat my dear friend. imagine, you cannot anymore remember the last time you had it. i encourage you to do it this coming christmas vacation. a good one that will make you relax. who knows someone out there will be kind enough to give you a treat--like winning a coupon for a free spa, win a raffle in your office, an invitation and treat from a friend and a surprise treat from your hubby. By the way, is the baby in your avatar you child? what a cute yawn! merry christmas to you and your family.

Hi 7thbird, I know you love surprising your wife too. i admire you for being so sensitive with your wife's needs. I like that "ME TIME". it feels good having some more time for oneself--no worries...an hour or two in a stress free mode! thanks friend! i am still convincing myself to come out in the open here. i did post one picture of mine in my early weeks here. but when i saw more avatars than photo i pulled it out and changed it with this butterfly avatar!

Hi Vicky, There's no doubt about it-- he does love me so much and we did our job well for keeping a good relationship. we both treat each other but he used to give me extra cash to buy something for myself and even for a treat like this. Oh yes, that's really funny. so, did you make up for it? you need to double your gift to him hehehehehe. Well, just don't forget to treat yourself from time to time and enjoy the fruits of your labor okay?!

Actually You can have two! They came in gray and purple and I am probably going back to the store to get more because they were only 50 cents! When I get back I will take a picture and if you like them I'll send them to you.

it's up to you to choose what color...whatever it is coming from you i will surely appreciate it. thanks in advance friend. once i receive it i will send you a picture me wearing it!

Hi Canellita, If they're not all yours--may be there is one for me??? LOL. i will be happy to have one from you C. i love collecting scarf. thanks in advance. so you love shopping as a treat to yourself right?!

Hi Froggielover, It was really a great Sunday for me! Yes, you are right- i love it too, the feeling of the shower touching our scalp and being massage. how i wish it will be done to me for an hour. oh my what a great relief. It's okay my dear if you have a shared account-- at least you too share not only in spending it but in saving some more. go ahead girl do it now! Cheers!

deaf? no whistle?

i am just joking friend? are you mad? anyway, HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE. Tomorrow is your day. where are you going to spend your birthday and with whom? what is your plan friend? i hope i am invited for your birthday treat!

hi friend, great that you have that thoughts and feelings on how you are going to make your love one special. friend don't just say it, you have to show it and DO IT! make all the efforts to show her how she's loved by you! thanks for dropping some lines whistle king..............please don't don't now. i willnot appreciate it. i am still deaf. LOL

Of course for me it was just a two day drive, not like a trip all the way from where you are. But we had a good time!

that's good at least you had the chance to have that two hour drive together. cheers to that dawn. i know she enjoyed it!

Hi Dawn, I envy you for having that trip with your daughter. how i wish i can bring my family for a trip in the US soon. that's a sweet treat for yourself and your daughter. i can just imagine how happy your daughter for all the moments of being with you! Cheers and Power hug to you and baby!

Hi Mom, Let's pray for that. in his time he will come. i know there's someone out there for you. someone who will make you feel extra special and will love you and be there for you no matter what. hold on! thanks for your response friend!

Hi Dorann, That's so sweet of your hubby! the ME time is really important and that's something to be proud and happy of. i am happy for you friend and i admire your husband for that loving care and concern about giving you a pampering ME time. it's so good having a new haircut and a bonus coffee.

Hi Sunnycool, My hubby is asleep already while i am still up responding on to mylot. I will relate to him your message. Thanks friend. Yes, this is an excellent gift from my hubby this christmas. he's happiness was doubled knowing that i am happy with this treat and at the same time i look good with this make over. i hope i can post my photo here---the before and after the hair makeover...hmmmm i'll think about it! i may sound OA--but even up to this time i can still feel the same feeling i had while in the parlor. Thanks Sunny.

hahahahahaha...thanks for that. i will see what i can do. you're right i can delete it at once.

Why are you thinking to place an before an After pic it.just place for few minutes and then you can delete it if you dont want to place it in your profile permanently so that we can even feel happier with your new look and i want to have a look at my friend too.

Bravo! i am so delighted to hear that aside from having a spa you too have an armpit bleach... i haven't tried that in my entire life. nice realization triplejzm! so, that will be one of our self-care resolution for 2010. more time for ourselves and enjoy the best self-care ever. we will be more kind to ourselves this coming year! i admire you for that! merry christmas and happy new year to you and your family! power hugs!

it's good experimenting on hair from time to time friend and that's life right? you never stop trying until you finally find what's best for you. now i can say that this is one of my best looks and i still feels sexy with my straight hair! hehehehe!

Hi Yan, i'll see if i can post my photo later...it's good that you are consistent in treating yourself out. you are so kind enough to yourself for giving it a break. So you are used of having a straight hair despite your having a natural wavy hair. some of my friends advise not to have my hair straight--they find it more sexy and classic. but i just want to try it for a change and thanks i got a sponsor my dear honeypie so without second thought i enjoyed the treat. thanks!

Its sounds like you really enjoyed it since you have post a topic about it Its shows Yes, I agree with your friends. Curly hair is sexy but not wavy hair But at times we really need to change our look just for the sake of it. Do you have long hair?