I hate kids!

hate kids, kids beware - no kids allowed... kids off limit
Philippines
January 2, 2010 1:31pm CST
Do you heard that line before? I have heard few people saying that line... And I wonder why? Personally, I love kids and I love my son so much How could a person say that she or he hates kids when in fact he was once a kid before... I wonder if the person saying this had a bad experience during his or her childhood which caused him to hates kids in effect... Doesn't like to have a kid of his or her own for he or she sees kids as annoying and very naughty at times... Did you once said this line before? Do you still stand on it or the years have changed your views... If you are kids hater, mind to tell us why?
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11 responses
• India
3 Jan 10
The kids are made to be loved only. It is possible that you might have heard someone saying that line in a particular situation and about a particular kid. Otherwise, if you find someone really hates kids, I think they seriously need medication. It is my sincere request to you that please take some pain to inform them about the same at the earliest to avoid any more spreading of this decease which is very dangerous for the universe and against God's desire. Thanks! May this New Year gives you all you desire and deserve. God Bless!
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
hello monojdhole! I agree with you, kids are made to be loved and cared... They are God's gift to us... and us, adults should guide them on how to be better persons and for them not to be naughty and annoying... Hating kids is not the answer... It wont do any good at all...
• United States
3 Jan 10
I have 8 neices and nephews. At times they annoyed me but I never once said I hate kids. I use to always say I would never have them though. And look at me now, I am a mother to an almost 1 year old girl. And I have found out that their is a difference in someone elses children and your own. I love my neices and nephews, although they still do occassionally annoy me. But my daughter could never annoy me the same way. It's just a different feeling. And I say you never know how you truely feel about children until you have your own.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Welcome to mylot trytobeamazing! Thank you for sharing! That is really true trytobeamazing! We have more patience to our own kids... though we love our nieces and nephews our love for our own kids are more heavier...
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jan 10
lovelyn_medrano no I like kids but sometimes people get 'warped minds, I personally think if a woman does not want to have children, she should do the world a favor and not bear any. For those moms abuse their children and often get away with it as so many think you have]to beat a child like a rug in order for them to grow up as decent citizens. the fact is that mom is really a child]hater and has no reason whatever to even bear children. I have never hated children, and wanted to have three, but only cou ld bear two, then had emergency hysterectomy, and lost our little daughter, that nearly did me in. so I could have no more children.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hi hatley! I hope you have a nice day! Sorry to hear that you lost your little daughter... I agree with you, there are really mothers out there who are capable of hurting and abusing their own kids... Sadly but it is happening and we are hearing that in news...
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
3 Jan 10
Hi lovely_medrano, I can understand it if they just randomnly get in and start eating the vegetables or something, and really annoying if they get hold of the washing, but it's not really their fault at the end of the day but it is possible to get the odd straggler. Usually though one goat stays with one kid keeping an eye on it and of course there's ususually the shepherd along. Now I'm not a great animal lover at all but kids do make me smile, they are just so cute.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
hi thea09! Kids are really cute and puts smile on our faces... even though they are sometimes very naughty and noisy... Thank you for sharing and participating on my discussion! Happy mylotting thea09!
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 10
I never heard that before. I love kid even since i still a young. I have 2 amazing kids. I guess the people saying that because they have bad experiences when they were kid. or maybe they just saying that because they do not want to be disturbed by their noisy, their attitudes and actions. I thing children have pure actions and pure mind. I love to enjoy them.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
[Hi fchalida! How are you? Your kids are lucky to have a mother like you fchalida! Truly kids have pure hearts and minds... they just sometimes get naughty and that's natural to kids.... Thank you for sharing your views!
• United States
3 Jan 10
The funny thing is that the people who say that are the ones who end up married with 3 or 4 kids...lol. I think, for the most part, people say that when they other people's children behaving badly (such as, children behaving badly in the grocery store, etc.). HATE is a strong word, and to say it about a child is a bit extreme. All of us were kids at one point, and I'm sure we pissed off our parents many many times.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hi brown_Fox_815! Truely, HATE is a very strong word... and should not be use to describe kids... As a person ages... he or she sometimes forget his childhood days and gets less patience to kids... Well, for me that is understandable... but saying or hating kids is a different story...
@maezee (41997)
• United States
2 Jan 10
I don't actually hate kids, but I've been known to say it. In a sarcastic manner, though. The truth is I don't have patience for kids. Yes, I was a kid at one point, and they're cute from far away, but when they start screaming and being obnoxious - that's where I get a little annoyed. But I don't hate kids. I think people are too quick to say that when kids are being annoying or disrespectful, and that these people (me included) should probably try to working on having a little more patience.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
Hi maezee! It is good that you don't really mean saying that line... You are just saying it as a slip of tongue or an expression when getting annoyed by certain kids... But I know that there is really someone out there who really hate kids and doesn't even want to have kids of his own forever and means it really... and that is what I don't understand... Thanks for sharing; I totally understand what you mean...
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
hello Lovelyn, You have a son, of course, you can't hate him, i know you loved him. oh, sorry the questions was meant for us. well, i have to be honest that sometimes i do, only when i do forget what's like to be a kid. i know that when ever my nephew and niece becomes irritating, that's the time i forget my kiddie past, and then regret it later but never scold them, probably because i am not "mature" yet in handling kids
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hi letran! Scolding kids is not bad at all, it is just a way of teaching them what is good and what is bad... I understand that sometimes, we, adults are not in the mood sometimes and irritable due to everyday stress... which cause less patience on our part... If you are just irritated for what your nephew and niece doing-- it is absolutely normal...
@clarkbody (141)
• United States
2 Jan 10
I don't hate kids and I have never used that line. i believe people who say that may hate what some kids do or say and just stereotype all children. Or maybe they are just selfish or, like you said, have had a bad experience as a child or with a child. Either way, i think it's a very foolish thing to say.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hello clark! Saying that line is not good at all neither would do any good... Rather than hating kids better teach them good manners...Kids are playful and naughty at times... and they just need to be guided... Anyone should not hate children, only the wrong act of the child...
@rhyly22 (33)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
I sometimes say it when I'm annoyed by my little brothers and sisters. They always got into my nerve that i have to get angry just for them to stop bugging me. But nevertheless, I still dont mean what I said, because I love them for who they are, no matter how naughty they are.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Hi rhyly22! Welcome to mylot and I hope you are having fun in here! You are certainly not kids hater.... you are just irritated sometimes to your little brothers and sisters... that is a different story... and everyone of us is guilty of that.... It is the act we hate and not the kids...
• United States
3 Jan 10
Kids are alright.
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
rawkers welcome to mylot! How's your day? Are you having fun in here? Kids are naturally naughty, we just need to be more patient on them... Nice to know that you don't hate kids!