If you don't know me....
@CristiansNana (101)
United States
January 5, 2010 1:26pm CST
If you don't know me don't make assumptions about me. I have many friends here that I love dearly and mean a great deal to me. They know me and they know how my mind works and what is in my heart....just as I do them. If I am acting like an idiot, they tell me; if I am wrong, they tell me; if someone is making assumptions about me, they let them know that is the wrong thing to do. I would do all of this for them as well because I love them. Before making assumptions about others, think. Ask about them; get to know them but never, never make assumptions.
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People always make assumptions, especially online. cannot tell you how many people have assumed I was a female just from looking at my avatars 
I do hope you are doing well and will stick around mylot for a long, long time @CristiansNana (101)
• United States
6 Jan 10
That's my plan but ya know how plans go down the sh*ttier sometimes. I will end up pi&&ing someone off and the next thing ya know.....it's bye bye for me
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@CristiansNana (101)
• United States
6 Jan 10
Yeah cause if they got to know you they would know you just have a fettish for high heels! *insert smiley face with hearts for eyes here* I have missed you!
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@CristiansNana (101)
• United States
5 Jan 10
Hey good looking! I will bet you have never had this problem have ya?
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
5 Jan 10
Yeah, but I don't care, so I usually just come up with some smart azz comment and go about my merry way.
*skips off whistling while throwing daisies over shoulders* 
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@CristiansNana (101)
• United States
5 Jan 10
*puts a Joan Biaz song on the beat box to match Sconi's skip*
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
6 Jan 10
Hee hee. Your comment reminds me of what people say on those talk shows. The person getting picked on by the audience says "You don't know me!" . . . and that's actually true. All we see are the circumstances that are given to us, which may or may not make a person look bad - and we don't know all the details. You're right, you can't make an assumption about a person unless you get to know them.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Mar 13
hi cristianna nana I never assume as most allthe time one is wrong and too theres the danger of making an a.s.s. of me if I did assume. I never ju ge people as i want t o knowe the person and get to know them slowly . One does well to aalk in anothers occasions for one month before assuming you know anything about them.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
12 Mar 13
I totally agree with you on this one that people shouldn't just make assumptions about people before getting to know them. And that is one thing that I never do. I try to get to know someone before I just start assuming they are one way when in actuality they are not that way. I think people do that to me a lot as well, they make assumptions about me and they don't even know me.
