How many girlfriends/boyfriends do you have in the past

@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
March 17, 2010 1:48am CST
hi there guys, Im just curious how many girlfriend/ boyfriend have did you have before you meet your love one or you husband or wife now. I am still sigle and on the process though I have a steady boyfriend been together for a long time. how many girlfriends/boyfriends do you have in the past? happy mylotting...
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@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
4, 3 in high school and 1 in college.. high school was more fun.. juvenile, the feeling is quite different,,college burnt out..so stayed single for a while..but now happy and contented after 4 years of feeling alone, finally found someone..well, she's the one.
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@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
hi graxenon, that quite a number... I have friends who are fun of collecting and selecting boyfriends, they end up with no one and with no the right one.. FOr the others girlfriend/ boyfriends is just a game, nothing serious but a lot woman became pregnant lol... But I agree highschool was more fun, quite number of man wooing me during my highschool days but neither of them end up to be a boyfriend. I enjoy playing sports and with friends when I was in highschool. After I graduate highschool I got a my first boyfriend from the province of my father. That was fun lol..and then few numbers of Boyfriends until my current boyfriend now and I can say we are that serious.. Thanks for the response.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
hello dorothy, my husband is my first & last bf... hehe
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
nah...its not sad at all sunny! hehe hi dorothy, actually i don't really consider him as my first love...haha i guess true love?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
18 Mar 10
Sad for your hubby he gotto see you for the entire life
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
17 Mar 10
That sad i guess ckyera
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 10
My father was an authoritarian person. Going out for dates was almost impossible. The first person who came to ask for my hands was gladly given the green light and he set a short period between engagement and marriage. I was married within months after engagement. My husband is my friend's brother and I hardly know him well but just agreed to my dad's directive, to get engage and get married. I did not have the liberty to socialize and meet other men. Did I regret? A little but glad that we had brilliant sons.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 10
Hi dorothy, it was sort of arranged marriage which was and is not a common practice here but since I was the 2nd in the family, my father was over protective of me and my eldest sister as the first borns. The rest of my siblings did not meet such a strict ruling. They went for dates freely without chaperons unlike my time when my little sister have to tag along whenever I go out for dates. I hate it.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there zandi, so you have arrange marriage right. well just be thankful that you have a great son and brilliant cute.. In our country people here really has their freedom to choose whom to marry. If the parents will go against the relationship it will end up in eloping hehehe..lol..Anyhow I still believe we have destiny. Whats important we please husband/boyfriend, show them that we care and forget the past hehehe
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Haven't had one in the past except for my current girlfriend and we're on our way to our eighth year this coming 27th of the month. So, wish us luck.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Truly happy? Depends on your definition of happiness, as for me, I can truly say I'm contented and happy. After so many years you learn to appreciate everything and anything you both share and accept things that are missing. We had our bad days but we patched it up. I'd be lying though if I denied thinking of having a try of someone else out there but I just couldn't risk something this good for just the thrill of the thought. I am not alone or afraid of being alone because my life is also surrounded with good and true friends, which makes it colorful. By being alone, meaning not being in a relationship, then you have it sorted out wrong because I also have tight family bonds so I don't think I'd ever be alone in my life. Sometimes, I even wish to be alone and need space. My mind is open to possibilities but, as I have said, In my current relationship, I just believe that this one offers just as much as perhaps the others and I feel happy enough to make me not wonder. I see your point though, just hope I wouldn't fall into that category.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Sorry for the late reply, well, the wedding date is also like yours - "At the RIGHT time ...I want to be prepared before I enter into the next level because I know that life is already difficult as a single, and I almost can't imagine how much more when bringing up a family, that is why I want things to be smooth or at least just comfortable before I officially ask her to be my wife. I hope we both have a stronger and longer relationship with our partners.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there choybel, you know when I was at young at heart I say to myself If Im going to have a boyfriend I wanted it the first to last..like a believer of love at first site and first love hehehehe.. though i had 4 boyfriends in the past, those are premature relationships hehehe. serious in a way but not as serious with what I have now with my boyfriend, we are on our 7th year next month April 28..Like you I have the same feeling and sometimes I thought of having tried someone else so I could make a difference hehehe But I coudn't , I cant afford to lose him and cant take the risk.. I asked my boyfriend if he thought of that he said never just like you, I am his first girlfriend. He always told me why should I look for someone when you are here hahahaha lol. Well I thank God always for giving me a Man who is very true to me. In return I always make sure I make him feel special always. We trust each other so much. But we are still afraid of tempations hehehehehehe.. I hope watever trials would come to us we can Make and cope from it. If its alright with you, when do you plan to get married? a lot of people ask us about it and we just answer right time ahahah for safe answer..We still have a lot of plans.. but Soon we will...In God's Grace Thanks for sharing and happy mylotting..
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Nice topic my friend...honestly i was a "one woman man" when I was a bachelor and of course until now. I got a late marriage and I had an experience of having a relationship of thirteen years but we were not blessed to be with each other. I got finally my partner after 2 years of breaking up..all in all I had only 4 GF before settling down... Cheers... Mobhomeir here...
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there mobhomeir, one woman man thats good lol, I hate "playboy" "chickboy" hahahahha..thanks God Im never been a victim. I have a nice relationship with my past boyfriends and until now even not in relationship we still remain friends.. We manage really to forget whats in the past and remain good friends. thansk for the response and have a nice day to you.. hopefully it will rain in Cebu now hehehehe
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Hello dorothy I appreciate that...it must be that way..friendship are still there..Yes,,hope rain will come anytime today...nice day too my friend..wear always your "sunblock" okay? Mobhomier here...
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
17 Mar 10
I had infinite number of crushes since my school time but never dared to show my interest(i was too shy then ).I had only one girl friend in my college but we broke up few months back---as soon as we completed our studies.I'm just getting over it.great day.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi sunnycool, hahahaha infinite number of crushes, I also do ending into mutual understanding and whahahahaha was so young at that time during highschool. But I never really had a boyfriend on highschool..My boyfriend now is on my 5th. I had serious relationship with my 4 past boyfriens, it just that we are not meant for each other hehehehehehe
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
18 Mar 10
you seem to be on a roll with boyfriends .hope the fifth one turns out to be a worthy partner for you
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
17 Mar 10
SHY, YOU??? UUMM. Okay.
• Canada
17 Mar 10
I had one friend with whom I had a physical relationship, but we knew it wasn't really going to turn into anything, and we were both in agreement about what was going on. As for serious relationships, I married my first boyfriend, and it was the best decision I ever made.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there danishcanadian, well a lot of relationship turn into separation because of incompatibility. I was lucky to have a partner which we are not that compatible in many ways but we understand each other, by needs and importance. Thanks for the response..and happy mylotting
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
17 Mar 10
Hi, dorothy09. On an estimation I probably has up to 22 boyfriends in my entire life that I can recall. I would have to write all of their names on a piece of paper to count each one of them altogether.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there cream97, thats quite a number of boyfriends, wow..And these are short relationship right.. As what some girls always believe collect and select hehehehe lol..I hope you dont mind did you already find who from them? hehhe thanks for the response...and have a nice day..
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Mar 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I just have two girl friend in the past days. Though I am a still single person. I do not eager to have a new girl friend now. I think I just need to have myself improved a lot befoe I am going to make a gilr frined, in which way, the girl friend will never say good bye to me . For I am so afraid of being to say good bye.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
hi there monekylong, it reality, Goodbyes are of course painful but when we are in relationship we can hid from it. Pain and Love is partners indeed.. Because when we love we feel pain.. Dont you afraid to love because you will learn from it.. Happy mylotting and Have a great day
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
boyfriends? nada, dorothy. but girlfriends, i stopped counting when i married my wife. but surely, it easily surpasses the number of my fingers, toes included. also, if you may bother to ask how many of them i went to sleep with... most of them. but i am sure of course that not one of them got pregnant. some lasted a few months, others a few nights, and still others, some weeks.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
thanks, dorothy. don't worry, those days are all water under the bridge, more in talk, never in the act... unless, challenged of course... that's also a joke. thank you my friend... be careful not to cross my kind... ha... ha... ha... another joke...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
17 Mar 10
My first and last girlfriend will be my dear wife. Ours is a love marriage and we loved for years and years waited for our parents acceptance. To my knowledge, i came to know meaning of girl/boy friend quite few years before. I never got a crush or attraction, until i met my wife. Its was a love at first sight and till my end. So my answer for past is 0 and for present and future is one and one only!!!
• China
18 Mar 10
I have only a girlfriends/boyfriends from past to now, and it will be the future. Nothing is sure in our lives, but the only thing I'm sure is that I will love my girgriends/boyfriends forever. Wish the others.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
hi there lalaleishengr, good for you I think you have found the one whom you want to spend the rest of your life with.. When you are in a relationship, you really feel that that person is the one for you.. Thanks for the response and happy mylotting
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
Hi I am married now for almost eight years,but before I had five girlfriends my wife now was not included.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi cris_noverence, thanks for the response..It does not matter what are the numbers of the past, atleast we have found the one .. have a great day and happy mylotting..
@swetashah (345)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I had two before, and those relationships weren't end up happily. I might see my ex in coincidental occasions. But we barely talk that much again. We might simply said "hi", or "How'd you been?" that is all.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
hi setashah, might be you broke up with no clear understanding, or you still have feelings for each other. I think its normal also to feel anxious when you met one of your Ex boyfriends or EX girlfriends.. Sometimes when we broke up in a relationship thats when we realize that we love the person.. happy myloting...
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 Mar 10
I'm not married yet.. hehe ^_^ BUt i do have quite a string of gfs in the past.. lol =D As i'm a late bloomer of dating at the age of 16, thus my number of gfs is just about 8 i think?? And it's not inclusive og puppy love, plus infatuation.. hehe ^_^ Maybe, i will have the same current one all the way, and depends on my 'mommy' if she wanna marry me! lol =D
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
I've only had one boyfriend before I got together with my husband now. My first relationship only lasted for 4 months. A year after the breakup I met the guy who would be my husband. We got together for more than 5 years before getting married.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
hi there moonchild, like you my present boyfriend now we been together for 7 years already, after we met all our goals especially for the family we would finally settle down but in the right time. before my boyfriend now I have 4 I think.. my first was funny funny thing, my second lasted months, third for a year and my 4th was 2 years..
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Oct 10
When it comes to boyfriends, I really was a late bloomer. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 19 years old and I actually met the man that would eventually be my husband when I was 21 years old. That said, there were actually only four serious relationships in my life including my relationship with my husband. I was with the first guy for 1.5 years, then a 6 month relationship, then a 9 month relatioship and then I met Tom.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 10
in the past, there were only 2 women who fill my imagination, a neighbor girl my house and a girl my school friend. To second of these women, I have never stated my love directly, and we have not had time to run love of the relationship ...
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
hi there advokatku, thats a few number for a guy lol..but I like guys who are less experience than those who are experience, My boyfriend I am his first girlfriend. Thanks for the response and happy mylotting..
• Indonesia
17 Mar 10
I have 3 girlfriends in the past. experience with them always make to remember them. But now the last are become my wife, we are so happy with our lives. When we still together we always sharing about love, life, and everything. Past is just past, we just can keep it inside in our heart Now is now, we have to walk this way to get a better future Future is impact about what we are doing in the pas.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi vipersnake, agree with you Past is past. But in a way its nice to fonder hahahah lol!! If we have current relationship now especially if we are married its not really good if we will talk about our past, it might be your partner might think that you are comparing... thanks for the response..and happy mylotting.;.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
17 Mar 10
Can you believe only two? Maybe i did something wrong somewhere. TATA.
@dorothy09 (1520)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
hi there saphrina, why cant I believe , there are others who has only one, first before became there husband. I find those relationship furtunate for the girls. atleast you have really know well your husband. and you cant compare.. happy mylotting and thanks for the response..