Just a thought - all women would be angelic if ...

@vandana7 (62521)
India
May 16, 2010 2:09am CST
there were no men! This is not to hurt anybody out here. It is just a thought I wanted to share and get your opinions on. Women tend to fight over money, men, and looks. In the absence of men, they wouldnt be spending half as much on clothes, and cosmetics. So they would need less money to be happy. Happy individuals make others happy. Most of the time women fight over men as if they are bidding for them in some auction! (Seriously - women are too smart to show something like that is going on - so they pretend as if they are not interested when they really are and they take pleasure in undermining the efforts of their dear friend/rival). More often than not, they lose interest in their possession once there is no competition (This is only an observation based on myself and people I came across - not meant to offend anybody who knows what love is all about). So kill the bait, and what do we have, a confused bunch of women, who dont know what to fight over! Therefore, I conclude that Eve may have brought Adam to Earth, but Adam ensured/ensures that she/they remains sinful enough not to go back to heaven. This discussion, incidentally is inspired by Sunny bunny's discussion. :) So credits if any should go to that boy. :)
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@vijayanths (7878)
• India
16 May 10
Women are not frank and open like men? Men also seem to lose interest in their possession once there is no competition, it is a common thing I think. Women are too difficult for men to understand and predict. Yet we have no option but to fall a prey for them, what a pity?
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• India
16 May 10
You are absolutely correct. "prey" is the best word to use for girls who leave their boy friends. Ofcourse I can consider some girls who leave because they leave because they doubt their boy friends ( of course there are some boys like that) But the percentage of girls leaving their boyfriends to boy friends leaving their girl friends is 80:20.
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
@vijayanths, what happened - your face returned! Anyway, I said women are smart - i didnt say they are not frank and open like men. Imagine comparing us the superior ones of human beings with all hairy creatures like men! It is not you all who are falling prey to us, it is us who are falling prey to you all! We feel guilty for bringing you all down from heavens, so we tend to make up for our sins. Instead, you all shrewdly manipulate us so that we sin some more and stay back on earth, because if we go back to heaven you would have nobody out there! You all cannot have an ego in front of god who is better than you all in all respects! That is why you all manipulate us. @sriramraj, its better to leave at early stage than to spend rest of the life making the other person miserable, dont you think? :)
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• India
16 May 10
@Vandana It is better that girls should select one partner rather than do a list of selection procedures, select the best one and leave all others. Learn about the boy who likes the most and live with him. It is not like a selection procedure. It is life
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 May 10
Vannie, the most disgusting thing in life, is when women fight over a man. They are just making themselves cheap. I agree if there were no men, there would not be such problems. But, what the hell do you think all women will do if that were taken away from them? That should be fun to see. TATA.
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
Exactly what I think. And I dont think we should be blaming Eve at all. If Adam had not accompanied her, she would have had a chance to atone for her sins and return to heaven! Adam came to ensure she stayed down on earth forever! At least that is what it seems to me.
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• India
16 May 10
You are right girls will have sleep less nights. Nothing to do. No one to show their beauty. No one to share their thoughts. Strictly speaking boys are the best one to share. Because girls never keep anything in their stomach. LOL
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
16 May 10
Vanie, i always knew it was Adams fault. Why they twisted that story around, no one will ever know. Sweetie, i like that girls never keep something in their stomachs. We could work with that.
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• India
16 May 10
ofcourse what you said is right if the boy friend doesn't give anything to his girl friend. But the funniest thing is boys do everything for girls and girls leave them after they receive everything. This has been observed in all countries, all states. Girls only try to make friendship with their boy friends for time pass.(This is for girls which leave their boy friends after a relationship. I know there are serious girls also LOL) Finally girls are always the culprits. Not boys :)
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
"N" "O" way. :) My contention is if Adam / men were not created, Eve would be back in heaven, god would have forgiven her as she would have no scope to sin!
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• India
16 May 10
Do you think god is not even smart enough to think about it. He sent eve to earth so that he wants people to know his power. If not the case, why he would have sent EVE to earth. No human race at all. Final Conclusion: EVE and ADAM creation GOD Plan Necessity: To showcase his Power Result: Most people believe God
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
There - the man/Adam in sriramraj talks. You only reiterate my belief. You fear competing with god.
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@qamarep (4450)
• Pakistan
16 May 10
you are right in this fight they are also being selfish .. you know there are more women in the world then men.. if all men marry to one for each woman then there are so many millions who are going to be alone..
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
May be we need to change the ratio in which women share men!
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
Hey hennie, qamarep, did it occur to you all that in natural selection process nature decided that men are old model, and may be they need to retire, and may be women should outnumber them, so that they accept their demotion because of the numbers!
@Opal26 (17691)
• United States
16 May 10
Hey vandana! I'm not sure quite what you're getting at or if if I responded to Sunny's discussion at this point! But, then again I am usually confused to being with! Anyway, so you think that if a woman doesn't have a man then she doesn't have a complete life and doesn't still need to want to look good? I always kept myself looking as good as I could everyday just because... I did it for me! I now life with a man, who see's me at my very worst and I don't even know how he can stand to look at me because I can't even stand to look at myself without my makeup, hair done and teeth!lol So, you'd be surprised how many women make themselves up just for themselves! When I go out of my house (past the garbage bins) I never leave home without my makeup, hair and everthing else looking right!
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
17 May 10
No Opal, I am not saying that! I am saying if men were not in picture, women would not be sinners. :) As to looking good for ourselves - may be our perception of looking good would change? Dont you think? :) Right now, we wear clothes that would catch men's attention rather than what is beautiful or sensible! We would be more inclined to tell ourselves this is not looking good on me, rather than wearing something because another person is wearing. :) That is what I meant. The criteria is leaving home - whose comments are you afraid of anyway! You've the right to look nice all the time, or be shabby all the time!
@ElicBxn (60771)
• United States
16 May 10
well, I'm not sure, I've seen lesbians fight over things, oh, maybe not some of the big knock down drag outs, but fight I think so long as there are people they will fight over something
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@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
This - is news to me. I always thought Lesbians have different tastes. So one of them would be very feminine, liking all trinklets and stuff like that, while the other one would be masculine - if I can say so! Must read more about them then.
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@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 May 10
Well there's the problem, thinking of another person as a possession. If I can't keep a man interested in me on my own merits, either it was the wrong man, or there's something wrong with me. But I'm certainly not going to go fighting another woman for a man I'm not interested in or for one who is no longer interested in me.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
20 May 10
Hi Dawn, that was just an example! Some women do! :) All sins are not uniform across the board, are they? I mean, I might kill, you might steal, ... So I just cited an example! :) Chill! :)
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@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 May 10
brownie?
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
31 May 10
You'd fight for a brownie? I'd find me a guy who doesnt like chillies at all! That way, I'd be eating all the pickle that we make each year. No sharing.
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@derek_a (10902)
17 May 10
I can see what you are saying, but the same thing applies to men, and a man could say let's get rid of all the women! In fact there males and females of all species that will compete with each other. It is part of nature and now the species carries on. I think if we eliminate males or females from any species, there will be other problems to solve. I think there is rivalry between both genders so that we can learn on a spiritual level that one gender is not more important than another gender, it's just that we are different. We grow through adversity and working things out. If there was no adversity and nothing to work out, then life may get pretty boring, and that would cause another problem. _Derek
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
17 May 10
Hey derek, I was just joking! It was inspired to counter Sunny Bunny's attack on us womenfolk! He said deers kill tigers, and nobody questioned that! There, you men are always siding men even if they are illogical. :)
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@kalav56 (11503)
• India
17 May 10
Vandana , what was this discussion by sunny? I am unable to locate it.
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@derek_a (10902)
19 May 10
Hey Vandana -- Yes, I knew it was a wind-up and it's all great fun.. No worries..
@grkelly (1216)
• Malta
16 May 10
I tend to agree with you. After all i have met several men who show no respect and this irritates women and fighting may often result. Another instance is women wearing vulgar clothes in order to look sexy and please men. If men did not exist such vulgarity tendencies would not be present.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
I was thinking - if men didnt exist, vulgarity would disappear because we wouldnt be wearing any clothes, and there would be no need for all those textile manufacturers etc., no pollution. The more I think of it, the more the idea appeals to me.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
17 May 10
Actually Alice, what is hidden has more appeal for men, than what is exposed. So we hide something for them to set free their imagination I suppose.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
Then i shal prefer to be the peeping tom and enjoy the nature
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
16 May 10
Because the earth is more heavenly than the heaven.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
Shhhhhhhhhhhh, god might hear it, and come down to earth! Then you wont be able to impress any girl, even your wife!
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
17 May 10
Hi Vandana, that was my prompt reply. I'm getting pleasure that all the activities of women are centering men. For the disobedience of Eve to God Adam and Eve came to the Earth. According to you the disobedient women are still in the Earth and the God brought back the men to the heaven. If it's so the heaven is now hell to men withought women. I can't live in the heaven withought woman. Do you envy men or love?
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
31 May 10
I envy men because they can sleep on terrace, can remove their shirts and roam, and nobody would bat an eye, and I love them when they do sweet things like making morning tea. :)
@krupesh (2608)
• India
2 Jun 10
Hello Vandana, More than impressing the men , women would spend more money just to show off to the other women(be it neighbours , collegues , friends etc..).
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
8 Jun 10
Oh Really! I thought we wouldnt have that much time since we would be busy spending time to do chores that are normally done by men. :)
@krupesh (2608)
• India
8 Jun 10
busy spending time to do chores that are normally done by men Hmmmm ! what chores are you talking about here?
@celticeagle (117267)
• Boise, Idaho
17 May 10
If their were no men life would be much different. I don't think women would be angelic at all. Perhaps if it was a more spiritual world. Confused? I don't think so. Women would totally be different. Not motherly, not angelic, not what they are now at all. It would be a very odd existence indeed.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
31 May 10
I suggested an oddity so it would be. But not being angelic? We are either angelic when men are around, or we are angelic when men are not around Which of the two is correct? got it? :)
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@celticeagle (117267)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Jun 10
Neither. I don't think I am angelic. And if we are going to like angels it should be all the time.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
16 May 10
haha Aunty---i started a discussion about women being in heaven and here you come up with the opposite .
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
Yes, we are so opposite! I am a grown up, you are a kid, I am smart, you are dumb, I pick your ideas, you come up with yours, I dont spend time fighting, you dont know anything else,.... we are so very opposite, aren't we sunny bunny? :) So what is the great surprise in a discussion like this? :) Anyway, I gave the credit to you, if you'd noticed. :)
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
If you're so smart then you wouldn't blow your own tantrums---you should be waiting like me until someone takes over your horn If you're talking about those Gore things you mentioned in my discussion then i agree that i do not know anything about them---as i already said you seem to be quiet experienced in those
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
16 May 10
oh dear god!!!! i never knew this, that women folks fight for men.. I have seen in my college that boys fight for a single girl, but this is the first time i'm hearing even girls will bid to get a boy of their choice.. If u wanna take men away from u folks, then how long the earth is gonna survive.. Starting from today, if there is no mes, obviously u have little to spend and no fighting across the globe and u will be peaceful throughout the day, but this will continue for 60 years and from on everyone starts dying without having their trace if there is no men.. i seriously don't know how many woman would sleep without a men(I'm sorry i'm very young to talk like this)...
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
16 May 10
You are young, and you truly dont know much about women! But you really made me laugh! Ok - here is my poser to you - we have artificial insemination process! We have stem cells through which we can create a male specimen collect the sperms and have babies in artificial womb (yes even that is available now). :) And as to sleeping - there are ample toys now available for women! :) Men are truly on their way to becoming dispensable! Unless they turn kinder, caring, and what nots! :)
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@gunagohan (3415)
• India
17 May 10
But, women won't get the complete pleasure from those toys , as they get from the organs of men.. Everybody has to accept with this..
@srganesh (6349)
• India
8 Jun 10
vandana!if there is no men,what will be the purpose of women here?life is interesting with all the opposites and we can't escape from them.We have to be responsible for each others mistakes too and that is real love.Adam didn't complain eve for tempting him.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
14 Jun 10
That's the most insulting thing ever!!! As if we are only created for men!!! You all be responsible for your mistakes as well as ours. We just want to be ourselves. he he
@allknowing (61798)
• India
24 May 10
Hear this Vadana - Look at the 'Woman' she surely needs a 'man' . Can 'She' do without the 'he'. Where will 'Madam'be if there was no 'Adam' Can She' live without the 'he'? 'Mrs' can only exist if there is a 'Mr'! A 'lad' will always help a 'lady' What say?
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
8 Jun 10
Insecurity shows!
@kalav56 (11503)
• India
17 May 10
Hey vandana! Now are you saying good words about women or what is it?--Subsequently, you have also mentioned "So kill the bait, and what do we have, a confused bunch of women, who dont know what to fight over!"--so , now I am confused.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
18 May 10
Here is the discussion you were looking for Kala http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2316037.aspx
@med889 (5958)
17 May 10
This is wonderful to say and to a very large extent this is true also. I would be happy to be living as that however I won't be happy enough if my parents, my mother and my father did not brought me up in this earth so thanks to both of them and no matter how happy I may be I cannot forget the men in my life. My dad is a wonderful person with all the best qualities of a father, the brother who is elder than me and who is supportive and finally my boyfriend who is ever encouraging than no one. So I do admire them.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
20 May 10
Let us consider it prospectively then! Those who exist, exist! New borns will all be girls! Yeah! What sweet voices girls have - sounds like chimes.
@ifa225 (11099)
• Indonesia
17 May 10
whoaaa....can we women exist if they are no men? they are the one who brought us in this world.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
31 May 10
I thought it was my mommy.
@bird123 (10481)
• United States
17 May 10
Now do you really have to get rid of all the men to have peace. I can say for a fact the women aren't fighting over me. I'll just sit back and watch the show.
@vandana7 (62521)
• India
31 May 10
You never know birdie! May be they dont tell you because you might be in a different profession.